Girls, How do you feel about guys who probably wouldn't be able to get you pregnant, the natural way?
I have to choose if I'm to have a surgery in January. This surgery would be to remove the damaged and dead portion of the lower intestine, so that I can learn how to poop naturally again, instead of through something called a stoma. It's called Hirschsprung disease, if you'd like to look up what it entails and all that. As with all surgeries, some side effects are possible. While, minuscule, they are still possible (1% chance). One of those MAJOR side effects is something called "retrograde ejaculation". Essentially what that is, is, cum, that goes back up inside you, instead of out and in to the vagina, thus rendering me infertile. This makes me feel horrible that I wouldn't be able to do it naturally, and would have to resort to either adoption, or artificial insemination from another man. Since I'm an only child, and I happen to be male, I need to keep the family name going, so, how am I supposed to be able to do that, with an adopted kid, or A. I. from another man.
I have some time to think about if I'm to do this surgery but, I need opinions on what women would think about this sort of thing
Oh, by the way, the reason for the side effects that are possible is that with the surgery being so close to the penile nerve ending, the cut and or incision on the intestine, could rupture that nerve, causing it to break. Another side effect would be that if this nerve breaks, I would have to catheterize myself, in order to pee. If you've never been catheterized or don't know what it is, look it up
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I realize freezing is a possibility, but, I'd rather stay away from that sort of thing. It's still considered unnatural
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