I have to disagree with you on this one!
A f*** buddy is just that, we f**k and go our seperate ways not expecting anythilng more. Might be people between relationships just looking for sexual release or someone like me who has no interest in a "real" boyfriend at this time as I want to experience as many different guys as I can. What I call a boyfriend is just a guy who lives with me, f**ks me, is nice to me, were good friends and he fixes me up with his buddies.
A boyfriend is someone who is exclusive to you, really likes you and you him, besides the sex you do many other things together, movies, dinner out, dancing, etc just having fun together in general. Someday I hope my hormones settle down and I feel I would like to start here and work my way to a husband and with my background it's going to take quite a guy. What a catch that will be. LOL
Disagree. The difference is your boyfriend (usually) has an emotional connection to you and would feel badly if you broke up with him. Keep in mind that even guys who act like it would be a blessing if their girlfriend broke up with them or who treat their girlfriends badly still have some sort of emotional connection that keeps them from just moving on.
A f*ck buddy has no emotional connection to you at all and they may also take you out on dates and spend money on you as well, not necessarily just stop at your place for sex. It depends on what you expect of a purely sexual partner.
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if a guy wanted just sex he might aswell get a prostitue, having a boyfriend is about the loving and closeness in the relationship and the "choice" to have sex in the relationship, the girl could always say no or she doesn't want too, also you might not have sex for weeks or months even till the relationship has developed.
As for a f*** buddy there is no emotions no relationship, its just plain sexual between two people
paying for sex is prostitution or doing porn
you don't pay for sex when your in a relationship, sex shouldnt be an issue in a relationship as long as there's love and closeness there and then when it developes you show more of that by having sex with the passion and that
I agree * As far as the guy below - the boyfriend is not paying for sex, he is paying for a chronic prostitute . I never ever expect a guy to pay for anything & usually if they try I decline it because it makes me uncomfortable. Sometimes I think some people were raised in an emotional barn. lol ^ ^
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If they're having to pay for sex, that makes you a prostitute. Sex should be something two people agree to have. They do it because they BOTH want to. The main difference between a boyfriend and a f*** buddy, is that the boyfriend wants OTHER things besides sex, while the f*** buddy is happy with just the sex.
If you want to consider "love and affection" as a form of payment for sex, then by all means... go ahead. >__> Because in that sense, f*** buddies DO get it free. If you ask me though, I'd much rather "pay".
But the thing is, when a guy takes a girl our for a date.dates, he pays right?....Why is he paying? He's payng because he's essentially giving money over for the potential of sex later in the relationship, is he not- unless I'm wrong about that?! If I'm incorrect then why is it that guys are expected to pay for dates? I argue that its because they're ultimately payin for the potential of having sex- same as when guys buy drinks for girls in bars, IMO
No, we pay because society has stipulated that a man should take care of the woman and provide for her. It is therefore our duty to pay, and that's why we do it. We don't do it because we're hoping to get laid later on. Boyfriends don't buy gifts for their girlfriends because they expect to get laid - they do it because they like making their girlfriend happy. We do it because we CARE. We don't just do things because we want to get laid. Especially not to girls we have real feelings for.
I agree with Ephram. The majority of women want to find a guy who is financially able to provide, and refuse to date one who doesn't have a job. Although gender roles are becoming more blurred, it is still widely accepted that the guy has to be the breadwinner. Most women would dump a guy who was financially destitute. Really, it's not about paying to get laid, but about proving that you are financially successful.
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I think the difference is a guy who wants to spend time with you,who trusts you with personal matters & helps you with your own problems, a guy who makes himself a part of your life..
I don't even HAVE sex & I still have relationships.
I neve think of money having anything to do with anything as far as relationships friendship genders whatever.. What about gay relationships - who pays then?
I want to add, tat yo are not off the wall with what you are saying & as I said above, payed relationships are legalized prostitution - Yes what exactly is he paying for - emotional connection? Does hr pay for his other 'girl' friends? You are getting honest responses from guys who DO NOT do that , or do not like to think they do that - I feel uncomfortable that anyone assumes guys pay- I thought that was an outdated notion. Solution - just do not let guys pay . No confusion then. :-)
Completely disagree. If you really think this, you haven't had too many nice guys as boyfriends. Guys do actually love, they have a heart too.
A boyfriend has a deep and emotional investment in a relationship, financially, emotionally, sexually. An FWB has a shallow investment.
A man who pays for sex is a client, no matter what.
Men pay for sex all the time! At bars, when they buy us drinks, on dates when they pay- with expensive presents etc.....and women will tend not to start having serious physical contact with a guy until they get him to the stage of paying for sh*t, is that not true?! Like, until you go on a date with a guy (and he pays) few girls will sleep with a guy prior to that...So in a way, he is paying for SOMETHING every time he goes on a date, because he knows he has to pay to get somewhere!
I'm not saying men don't pay for sex. I'm saying when he does, he's renting a whore. He knows it (or should), she knows it (or should). Fortunately, relatively few women are for rent, though some rentals think otherwise.
" M/ pay for sex all the time! At bars, when they buy us drinks, on dates when they pay- with expensive presents etc.and women will tend not to start having serious physical contact with a guy until they get him to the stage of paying for sh*t, is that not true? " NO FALSE- NOT TRUE Listen to yourself! THAT Is not a relationship It is a deal, & you are also blaming woman for acting like prostitutes I disagree with you completely - You do not have a healthy concept of relationships -nor M/&W/
A f*** buddy is a freind that you have that you have sex with and only sex nothing more. No feelings no commitment. Pretty musc all a f*** buddy is, is a booty call when they ain't getting none. A boyfriend is a different story. There is feelings there there is commitment and yes they do pay for you and stuff and they are with you and only you. whereas a f*** buddy can be with anyone they want because they still f*** you with no relationship meaning they can f*** other girls as well.
definitely agree with tigerguy
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i certainly have to agree with u...boyfrends pay for sex with all the energy chasing you the mind games and certainly the dates and presents. the joy of f***mate is that you just there for pure sex pure fun nothing about having to show you really want her.
Huh Agree, don't lower your standards, you've answer yourself in your question. Find the man who will put there effort for your love! :)
I think It depends on the guy/girl. Some girls make there f*ckbuddy work for it...
The girl gets something out of it to, sex, intimacy, and not worrying about a reputation etc...
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