Does the girl's first time hurt so much?

[Anonymous]

I'm embarrassed a little because i am still a virgin.
Since my 3friends tried to rape me when i was 19, I've never wanted to have sex till i am prepared. and i finally met a guy i really wanna have sex with!

but there's a problem. Even using tampon still hurts me!!! I can insert my one finger but can't do with two finger. My hymen looks like very thick And i can cover my vigina hole (sorry I don't know how to call it. I am not an English speaker) with my hymen.
When i want to insert my two fingers, my hymen really hurts! It doesn't seem to strech easily?
and when i pull out my finger, it hurts a little like when i remove my tampon even if i am wet enough!!!

he knows i am a virgin and is very gentle. I believe we are gonna make me wet enough and use lub if we need to.
But he seems big (almost 7'?) and I can't still insert my 2fingers!
all my friend told me their first time weren't that painful and they could play with their 2 fingers when they were virgins.

Does it mean i have some problem?

[Jazly]

No Hun, all vagina's are different. some are naturally looser than others, and some are naturally tighter. I would bring it up with your doctor before you have sex, just to make sure everything is alright down there. it probably is, but better safe than sorry and in a really awkward situation. But yes, use lube. Lubricant is your best friend c:

[Yellowbone]

No you're probably just tight. Nothing's wrong with you.

The first time is almost always painful to some extent. You kinda just have to suck it up & bare with it for a while. It gets better after the first few times.

[Yellowbone]

I couldn't wear tampons when I was a virgin, either.

[Asker]

How painful it was your first time though? I am little terrified lol

[Yellowbone]

It wasn't childbirth but it hurt lol. Don't be terrified lol. You're not gonna die.

[Asker]

I know i am not gonna die but i always expcted my first time to be romantic as hell and now it seems like my firsttime is gonna be bloody party lol but thanks! And i have very lower pain tolerance.. so..

[Yellowbone]

oh no it's not that bad lol. didn't mean to scare you. just tell him to take it slow

[Yellowbone]

Thanks for MHO

[lalalila]

Hurts a little but it's just one-two times and then it's fine. When with a good guy all is gonna be fine ;)

[JustCallMeLeon]

I only have one virgin experience, my girl. It was awful. Not a single finger inside without pain. Really difficult to stretch hymen with fingers. Plus we had to give up on penetration a few times due to pain. Tears everywhere.

[Asker]

Sounds aweful. how many times you tried?

[JustCallMeLeon]

Definitely 3-4.

[zombiebabe]

that sounds worrying :(

[JustCallMeLeon]

@zombiebabe define "worrying". Are you a virgin and worried?

[zombiebabe]

that's tmi mate

[JustCallMeLeon]

@zombiebabe 100% Respected. Sorry in advance.

[zombiebabe]

thanks for the respect

[DankMemeage420]

Woah, he's 7'? That's almost as long as the tallest person to ever exist. I think you meant 7" lol. Anyways I don't know I'm a virgin so...

[Asker]

Oh lol yeah 7"

[CapnHawk]

If you are that tight, I strongly urge you to see your family doctor or an OB/GYN before having sex.

[Karaas2]

Yes it does

[Anonymous]

it hurts like hell

[Anonymous]

it's depends... U ain't got any problems