Why do I want to have sex with him so bad?

[Anonymous]

I can say for sure I am in love with this guy but recently he has been away from me and all of a sudden I am getting feeling of wanting 2 have sex with him. I just want to feel him near to me. I would be thinking about Wanting to hug him and I end up with the thought of wanting him to be inside me. We had sex before but it was a two second thing. He had just passed the hymen and came that was it. That had happen one year ago. We recently just made out in the car and he just grabbed my breast. But after that he has been away for a week I would say and I am missing him so much. What is happening to me? I never had these intense feeling of wanting to have sex with him before and it is scaring me. Is this a new peak of my love? I am sure I am in love with him but I am completely confused on why am I feeling this way.

[spiker7511]

Sounds to me like you're either A: experiencing a sexual awakening (what happened after the first time? did you two talk about it) and wanting to have that kind of intimacy or B: realizing that you are really into him and want to get closer, to experience that intimacy with him or C: feeling lonely when he's not around making you feel good, so your wanting him back around you again.

Whichever way, the solution is to spend time with him (not throw yourself at him!) and listen to how you are feeling: what appeals to you about him, what turns you on, what aspects of him make you want more. So follow your instincts, but take care of yourself and be safe.

[Asker]

I'll go with b

[l-hedoniste]

"Is this a new peak of my love?"

NO. It's a new peak of your lust. You'll complicate your life if you get the two confused.

[dollme777]

You may not be in love with him , it may be lust instead and its normal to have these feelings but don't get them confused with love you are just so attracted to him that you want his body bad.

[Asker]

He isn't that attractive and like I said I'm sure I love him alot.

[ArizonaRX]

Natural human emotion to "Want something more that you can't have."