I'm scared I'll never be able to have not painful sex?
boyfriend told me I should practice with something smaller like fingers or a dildo but whenever he tries to finger me i hate the feeling so much, it's not that it hurts it's that it feels horrible. That's just one finger, he adds another and the pain returns but not as bad.
my boyfriend is a really sexual person and I'd love to please him so much, I'm so afraid that he'll abandon me if I'm never able to have penetrative sex. He told me it was okay if I couldn't do it but I bet he thinks insertion will happen eventually but I don't think it will. We did orgasm through other means but I could tell he really wanted vaginal sex.
what is wrong with me, why can't I have sex like a normal person?
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