Want to give my friend a blowjob but don't know if I should?

[Anonymous]

Ok I was fooling around with this guy for awhile when I finally realized that I really like giving him a bj and other times I have message him saying I want to and he's say "sure come over" and I'd give it to him. Some girls don't like it but I enjoy and he clearly enjoys it as well but the problem awhile back we had sex and it was my first time and it didn't really end well and we haven't talked since but I have this urge to call him up for the sole purpose of giving him head and I don't know if I should because he might reject me and then I'll realize it's finally over or would I come off as a slut to just call and say "I want to give you head" so I don't know what I should do

[Jackdajerk]

Call him. Then do this:

1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.

2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.

3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.

4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.

5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.

6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.

7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.

8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.

9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone.

10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.

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[lefthand]

I know a lot of women who like to give head and some of them do exactly what you do. I am happy to call them my friends and I am really grateful for their company.

People ask how often do you meet a woman who just wants to suck your cock? (as I said, more than you think but they are afraid of being labeled a slut). If treated well, everyone is happy.

He might be thinking he did something horribly wrong (as evidenced by the fact that you slept with him and never called. Having slept with a few virgins, this did go through my head and I gave them "space" which turned out to be a bad idea.

Call, if he is an ass about it, I will assure you that you can replace him him the dozens of other guys who are grateful for your attention.

oh, and fwiw, I am the same way. I love going down on women and I have struck the same deal with more than one woman, simply because I wanted to see what she looked like when she comes.

[mimi4]

nah don't go back. you don't want to have a f*** buddy- its not a good reputation. and he'll pretend to like you anyway if he knows your going to keep coming back to duck his dick, cause all guys love that. your acting too easy. just find a hot guy who can like you and you like him. and don't just ask a guy to give him head, nobody will respect you

[gravygirl]

If that's what you want to do, go for it. You don't have t tell him exactly what the deal is over the phone. That's the part that maybe sounds a little slutty. Just say that you'd like to see him, and then when you do you can control what happens. That's totally fine.

[ilovelegs]

I say get out of the giving head business because to him you're a slut if he's not your loving boyfriend. Giving head doesn't make a guy like a girl. It makes him think she's so easy and makes him feel superior and in control. Like that's the best you can do with a man because none are interested in you for anything else and that's very degrading. Many guys like girls for that reason alone but they won't tell them until she starts putting up a fuss like not wanting to do that all the time anymore or like you said you had a bad having sex experience. That was a very, very poor what to start out. I'm sure it was most due to his inability to take any real interest in your pleasure rather than his own which you've been providing him for a long time. If you're hooked on a guy's genitals rather than him as a person, I wish you good luck for your future because it may turn out not like you want it to.

[The-Dude]

well it does not sound like you two ended it well, so I would have to say No I would not call him.

[sqyntz11]

Hey I would just give him a call maybe he wants to re kindle things with you too who knows. I mean if not you can always get some fun out of it right?

[quinnfitz1121]

very few guys would turn it down if your reasonably attractive. But it is seen as slutty.

[Anonymous]

I seriously doubt that most guys would turn that down, but you could tell him you want to get together to talk & see where it goes if it makes you feel less slutty.