What causes a guy to shoot blanks?

I am just wondering how a guy can say he got off but he did not come? Does he feel the same thing? I am confused about this.
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  • I think for most guys cumming and orgasming are the same thing and happen at the same time. For my husband cumming and having an orgasm are two things. First he cums into my mouth, then he watches me enjoy swallowing his cum, then he has his orgasm. If I don't enjoy swallowing his cum for any reason, then he can't orgasm. I'd never heard of that until I met him. When we first met many years ago I couldn't get him to cum at all. It took quite a bit of patience and understanding to get him cumming (onto my face). Sometime later after I got him cumming I realized he was cumming but not orgasming. Shit, what now I thought. It wasn't easy but I got him to explain what he really needed which was as I explained earlier. He started cumming into my mouth and I started swallowing his cum. It was then only once he knew absolutely for sure that I was enjoying swallowing his cum that he finally started having orgasms. Woo hoo! Big celebration! That's basically how I became a cum lover and a cum swallowing fan.

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  • There is a condition called "retrograde ejaculation" in which semen is pushed into the bladder instead of being expelled through the urethra.. Is is a side effect to some medications used to treat benign prostatic hypertrophy. When a guy has that, it feels like he is having an orgasm but there ain't no bullets coming out the gun!

    • I was warned by my urologist that if I had to have a TURP done, it would likely result in permanent retrograde ejaculation. Fortunately, my BPH was caused by medication I no longer taken.

      en.wikipedia.org/.../Transurethral_resection_of_the_prostate

    • @VirginiaBeachBum Sounds like you were quite fortunate with that outcome!

    • I could have lived with it either way. The biggest reason he told me that is because it would render me sterile. I asked, "Can I get that promise in writing?" :-)

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  • Shooting blanks is not the same thing as not cumming.

    A guy can orgasm without shooting any cum. It's rare, but can happen. It feels the same.

    A guy can orgasm and shoot cum, but there won't be any viable sperm in it. (That is shooting blanks.)

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  • The older I get, the less semen I produce. Sometimes I will have a dry orgasm if I cum too much too soon, which strangely is often stronger than one with ejaculation.

    • He gets hard a lot, even after he has an orgasm but he can't cum again. It feels like he is but it's blank. Sometimes I can play, suck, etc and he can't get hard at all during that time. I get frustrated.

    • How old is he?

    • And when was his last physical?

  • When i cum i get like 1 litre of drinkable slimy semen.

  • When he didn't restore tadpoles inside his wiener :)
    www.gifmania.co.uk/.../Tadpoles-67617.gif

  • Low sperm count