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Girls, your first sexual experience and/or release with someone or just alone and experimenting?

So I would like to know 2 things in particular...

1. What was your first experiences like when you were realizing you were getting sexually needful? Did you have urges to want to make love to a guy? Did you start to touch yourself thinking about it? Did your respiration and heartbeat increase? Did you get wet and finger yourself to the point you needed to change or remove clothing? Did you set yourself off without even realizing what you were doing at first or did you intentionally make yourself cum with the idea of needing release?

2. When (if) when you finally had vaginal sex, what was it like experiencing it all for the first time having a guy spurt his semen into you? Was it nice or weird? What was the feelings or thoughts you were having as you made love the first time? Did you actually love him? Did you feel anything come out inside your vagina or any twitching sensations from him? Did you want to stay connected after both of you had cum and just hold one another or make the special moment last longer?

My understanding is that a woman becomes very connected emotionally the more she has penetrative vaginal sex and that natural chemical exchanges draw both people closer to the other. I'm referring to true and passionate love making here, not just mechanical sex as shown in porn. What are your thoughts and experiences? Please share and feel free to be detailed. I genuinely want to know from a woman's point of view how you all see and function during this wonderful and amazing act. Even if you have not experienced it all yet, how do you feel knowing what you do know now?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I think it honestly depends on the girl. I, personally, do not get as attached as the guy usually. I crave sex for sure and I love it, but I don't get that bond that almost ties me. It's funny, usually I get like sex urges at the randomest times and can't really do much about that, but when i'm with my boyfriend, it's great. I think you should know yourself and then do what is best. Maybe that's why they say to not have sex so young because you don't necessarily know yourself well enough yet. But at the same time, sex is part of the discovery journey.

  • 1. I didn't get sexually needful until I got into a relationship and got sexual active. Didn't really have urges to have sex just to be close to him.

    2. It was weird and a bit painful the first time. Wondered if he liked it. I did love him. Didn't feel anything come out of me but felt him twitch. I wanted to cuddle after but he didn't.

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  • When we are able to, I am going to have to PM you for this one.

    • Yes, I really want to hear your thoughts. Really excited to PM. I just read an answer you gave on another question someone else asked about how you liked to watch it all come out when they would pull out. I get hot reading your responses. I think its wonderful that you are so liking of this and attentive to the details. Sex is such a beautiful act and I love all the little details because all the details make up why its so amazing and why it also feels so good. There is no other act that uses all the senses along with all the range of emotions to such a level. I wish women knew that when we are truly making love to a woman, as in we are involved emotionly, wanting that connection bith ways, wanting to make you feel so good, the moment we cum is because of you. It is because we feel your love, we feel you using your body to demonstrate that love, your body feels amazing. Our ejaculating on you or inside of you is a visual demonstration that we love you back. Its like giving you me.

  • I don't catch feelings or emotions from having sex or any sexual activity with a guy

    • Thats all good too. Everyone is different. What thought process if any does go through your head? Or do you just shut the thoughts down and enjoy the ride?

  • i am virgin

  • I've only experienced really strong needfulness once, and it was kind of insane because I was in public and I couldn't do anything. It was a few hours until I got home and once I did I went straight to getting release and I fell asleep after

  • I'm a virgin..

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