How often do you have sex with your boyfriend/girlfriend?

im 18 and recently just got into a new relationship. I have a weird sexual history that im not going to get into here, but basically im not too sure what a "good" amount is. I'd say im pretty horny and am pretty much always down for sex, but don't Wanna push it too much out of neediness.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • There's no standard. I've had boyfriends who've had sex with every day multiple times... others if I'm not living with them then at least everytime we saw them each other (few times a week). One boyfriend didn't want to do it hardly at all maybe once a week.

    Talk to your partner, you need to figure out what works for you! :)

    • Whaow

  • There is no "right" amount of sex. It just depends on what makes you and your partner happy.

    My boyfriend and I live together, but he works super long hours. Because of this, we don't always have time for sex during the week. Typically we have sex mostly on weekends.

  • It just depends. Sometimes it's one or two times a week. Other times it's four or five. Depends on our schedulers, our energy levels, and where I am in my cycle.

  • On average 3 times a week. If we had our own place it would probably be once or twice a day though 😂

    • do you think that is average/normal or do you think you guys have more sex then the average young couple?

    • I think 3 times a week would be average/normal. Given we haven't been together very long and we're doing long distance so we take every chance we get, I'd say we do have sex more than an average couple.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I hook up with my girlfriend like 2-4 times a week usually sometimes more. Sometimes less. But im bi n with dudes its like every chance i get. Sometimes its even more than with my girl. But with dudes its just sex yo... totally physical. With my girlfriend, its a relationship.

  • I've found that doing it every day gets repetitive and also gets in the way of the rest of your life. If my girlfriend and I felt like doing it twice a day is too much for what else was going on in our lives we would tone it down. Definitely more than once a week though 😊

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  • We like to enjoy every day after school, then non school nights he stays over. Then we enjoy before sleeping and when we wake up. Just normal
    like most people I guess.

  • As often as we want it

  • My partner and I usually have sex from 4-5 times a week at least.

  • Every night just about.
    Not always 100% into it if I'm being honest. We don't have matching libidos but hey, you gotta do what you gotta do.

    • do you ever feel like he values sex more than you? genuinely asking, I know it was a problem in my last relationship even though we only had sex about once a week at the most

    • No, but I feel like he feels he's entitled to it which kind of takes away the niceness of it sometimes. Not that I think he should work for it or anything. But when you just expect sex every night it can start to make you feel a little like a prop. Once a week is totally not too much. in my opinion anyway. As long as you're still cuddling and talking and being intimate in non-sexual ways your partner should still feel cared about.

    • hm, interesting. I think where I really struggled is that whenever Id cuddle or kiss her, sex would almost always come to mind. afterwards I'd cuddle and be intimate and it was all good though.

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  • Usually once or twice a week. It's frustrating as hell for me. I want sex 1-2 times a day.

  • Maybe few times a week.

  • My boyfriend and I have sex at least 4 times a month or less.

  • Have sex as much as you need to.

    But about me i had it once a week when i was still with this guy, but things got difficult now so no sex for now.

  • Nope... i'm still a virgin waiting for my 'the one'.

  • It depends we can go about two weeks without having sex and then we'll have sex 3 to 4 times and week and the cycle repeats itself.

  • Never

  • After a small scare, late by a week, I took a break from sex, but I'm pretty much once in a while, maybe once every week or once every three days.

  • Me and wife do it daily. I love it.

  • Every once in a while.

  • 4-5 a week

  • not really sure... we can go from not at all for 2 weeks... to 3 times in 1 night... so I'm not sure z

  • Once or twice a week.

  • I get woke up with a blow job evermoring and sex ever night

  • I didn't have sex with my ex boyfriend... we only dated for two months. And the person I was with before that, it was sporadically... the relationship didn't work out.

  • Normally like once a day but I like to break it up with blow jobs and hand jobs so then it doesn't get boring

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