My husband wants me to masturbate while he watches. To me it's embarrassing. Should I do it?

My Husband wants to watch me masturbate while he watches. To me it's embarrassing. Should I do it for him anyway? And why? I definitely do it occasionally, but having someone watch me is embarrassing (even my husband). Should I do it anyway to keep him happy?
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  • its just something your husband is doing to keep things sparking in the bedroom

    maybe its a fantasy of his to watch a women masturbate right in fron of him its a marriage you shouldnt feel shy about it he sees you naked all the time anyway and ur farley young so I'm suprised you guys aren't running around the house naked all day lol (joke)

    but try to get over it he's your husband lol

  • why don't you ask him for the same thing?

    • Cuz guys jerking it isn't that nice.

    • Well maybe you could qet him to do something that you would like as a return qift if you qo threw with it.. but if your not then I'm sure he will be okay if you wait until your ready ..

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  • It's your choice, but I don't see why not.

    He may get tired of watching and join in or he may wait until you are done in which case you get one orgasm before it starts.

    Also, he may learn more about how you like to be touched which surely couldn't be all bad.

    If you do go through with it you can of course make a request of him as well. I think you two should have fun with it and enjoy each other.

  • maybe you should save it for later as gift..maybe in 5 years from now. he should be happy with you anyways for being with him. remind him that.

  • maybe you should save it for later as gift..maybe in 5 years from now. he should be happy with you anyways for being with him.

  • i think you should, its totally ok if he likes it, which he does.

  • Chances are, whatever you're embarrassed about, he's going to find incredibly hot and sexy, and make it worth your while ... I recommend doing it - and you're in a marriage - you're the only one who should be filling this particular fantasy for him, so don't risk him looking elsewhere.

  • i don't see why this is a problem

  • Definately keep masturbating for him, it is a huge turn on to a man and will lead to better sex for you...and have him masturbate for you..Its awesome!


  • Yes you should do it if you like masturbate in front of me

  • Watching a woman masturbate is big turn on for many guys. Chances are he probably won't just be watching.

  • ask him to do it and see how he feels about it LOL!

  • Seriously, you should, its an inoffensive present you can give him! besides if you can't do those things in front of him, it means that you need to let yourself go more! once you do it you'll enjoy it too much, trust me!