She may be trying to trap me?

[govhuck]

I was worried that my girlfriend may be trying to trap me with a pregnancy, as a result I have begun wearing condoms every time, and pulling out every time. Do you think I am safe now?

[peace-love-couture]

If she has given you no reason to believe she is trying to "trap you" then there is no need to be paranoid,notice I said paranoid,not safe.There is never a bad reason to be safe and protect yourself against pregnancy.

Ask her for proof of birth control pills.If you didn't discuss birth control before having sex then you honestly have no business engaging in anything sex;real talk.

Are you safe?Yes,but the only sure fire way of not getting pregnant is abstinence or not having sex.So sure,it is safer sex,but you should be with someone whom you feel comfortable enough to c*m with(while wearing a condom)

What exactly leads you to believe she is trying to trap you?

[Jojoz94]

Fyi, if she doesn't provide help by taking the pill, she is not fully protected. And just cause you wear a condom, doesn't mean it will work every time. Maybe if she doesn't provide any type of sign if not trying to get pregnant to then you should probably let her go. It's not fair for you to have to deal with issues that you don't wan to be in. And I think she is trying to trap you. Cause not only if she gets pregnant, you would be the father, and if left her than you would look like the bad guy through it all.

[sweetheart18]

i think any girl who does this is pathetic.

you shouldnt have to put yourself in this risky situation. its not fair at all to you. end it.

[Anonymous]

i have heard a few stories like this and in one of them the guy threw the condom out and the girl shoved the open end into her and dumped his come into her vagina when he wasn't paying attention. another story I heard was a girl giving a bj and made her boyfriend think she swallowed but after he left she spit it into her vagina too. I say dump her ass right now.

[l-hedoniste]

Probably safe. With spermicide, safer.

Important question, though: why f*ck someone you don't trust?

[Starling]

Safer sure, But every birth control method has it's loop holes.

But seriously, if you think your girlfriend trying to trick and trap you. Why are you still with her?

[Littletad]

Just let her know you want no children. Better to talk it through than devise escape plans.

[TheManHimself]

Date a super hot girl, that way you don't care if she gets pregnant that much.

[Babygirl727]

No...I would keep a close eye on your condoms because I know this crazy girl who wanted a baby so bad that she would poke holes in the condom through the rapper lol..Seriousley..I would have the baby talk and tell her that you are not ready to be a parent, see how she feels about that. If you are completely paranoid than don't have sex with her..that is the best birth control ;)

[dinkleberg]

when in doubt..its a trap!

[Anonymous]

You're safer, but there's always a chance of her getting pregnant while you are having sex.