Self induced miscarrige?

[Anonymous]

please dont judge but does anybody have tips to induce a misscarige... im young and already have a toddler, i have my own house and am in the middle of doing my apprentiship for my furture career. my ex who is very abusive has indeed again made me fall pregnant. im 6 weeks and i dont have the money for a legal abortion. i can't continue with this pregancy as my first child complicated me giving birth so there's a 70 % chance i could die during labour so giving it up for adoption is not an option im not taking that risk. my mental health will get a lot worse if i have this child. i can't get help with dealing with this by any social workers or docters because of personal reasons. i just can't have this baby i really need to remove the fetus. i know it sounds cruel but its going to wreck my future with my job and i dont have the money to support two children and i dont have any support so please anybody just tell me how i can fix this please

[samhradh_leannan]

Please ask family or friends to help you fund a medical abortion, or try to find an affordable clinic such as Planned Parenthood. Self-induced abortions are very dangerous, and complications could be fatal. Ask your doctor about options or where you can find help. Also, get help from a domestic abuse organization, and leave your abusive relationship. There are a lot of helpful websites out there and hotlines you can call. Please do it. If you won't do it for yourself, do it for your toddler.

[Asker]

i dont have any family besides my son, and the relationship is far from over it was just a stupid mistake one night to try n work things out and my friends ha they want me to keep the baby..

[samhradh_leannan]

If the relationship is over, that's great. That's one danger that you and your son are no longer affected by. But stay far away from your abusive ex, for your own good and your son's. Talk to your doctor about your options for an abortion, and let them know that you need an affordable option. If one doctor won't help you, talk to another doctor. There are solutions out there, I promise. But a self-induced abortion is not one of them. You could leave your son motherless if you went that route.

[Allie_Oops]

Um, if your ex was an abusive jerk, then why did you keep sleeping with him? He didn't 'make' you pregnant. That's a 50/50 thing unless he raped you, which you never said he did.

If you don't have a lot of money, there are clinics that will do abortions for no charge. It's not like a stay at the best hospital there is, but free clinics have avenues for people like you, especially if your health is at risk.

[strangytie]

Do you have insurance that covers it? If carrying to term could be fatal for you, it may affect wether or not you could be covered. If not, there's something you can do with Parsley (It involves a LOT of fresh parsley but it is apparently useful and safe) as well as aspirin, laxatives, and heavy exercise.
If any of this (or all of it) sounds like something you can do I can provide you with the instructions

[Asker]

i have a lot of laxatives how many do i take?

[strangytie]

There's no set amount to take, unfortunately. They just recommend taking them over the course of the next few days to try inducing a miscarriage. Some mothers worried about damaging a pregnancy took more than 10 over a week period and got worried. you want the opposite effect where you miscarry so still adhere to the laxative directions not to go over a certain amount at one once, but continue to take laxatives as they wear off as it can cause the uterus to contract. Don't overdose though, it can cause dehydration, kidney failure, and prevent your stomach muscles from contracting (digest food). Please be safe though and remember this won't garuntee a miscarriage.

[Anonymous]

Your lucky you are able to bear a baby. Me have a small chance to carry good healthy baby, i have s disorder of having 2 uterus it means my womb is small.

If i were you ill be happy, but if you carry a sickness like mine, then i dont know what you would feel. I wish you have more heart, its difficult to raise a baby, but it is much more difficult not to be able to bear easy, mines will always be at risk

[Anonymous]

I get it, it's rough. I'm not judging you, I get that sometimes circumstances are just really difficult. By the way, your ex is a jerk and please never ever give him another chance. Where do you live? If in the US, which state? Depending on your location there may be legal medical online resources available to you.

[Asker]

victoria, australia and we had a domestic a few days ago so there's no getting back together at all its just fighting theese days im an enemy to him ah,

[Opinion Owner]

This is personal info, so feel free to not answer. Do you have a valid Medicare card? How much can you afford to spend? Are you okay with going to get an ultra sound and a blood test?

[Asker]

i have medicare and consesion but it will still cost me at least $250 which i just can't afford with my income and my son and rent and bills it will affect my budget really bad

[Opinion Owner]

Ah, so you've already looked up the Tabbot Foundation. I did learn that surgical abortion does not incur a cost to those who have Medicare if done at a public hospital (for example: The Royal Women’s Hospital). But you did mention you can't deal with doctors, would a surgical abortion be too much dealing with doctors for you?

[samhradh_leannan]

Being unwilling to deal with doctors is a luxury that, in your current situation, you simply do not have.

[vald9inches]

we are not doctors we can only tell you things we heard of before. i have heard of horrific abortions in back alleys with the use of a coat hanger. so whatever you do make sure you do your research and homework before you attempt to do anything and try to get someone to help you with the process. but honestly i would do anything to get someone professional to do it for you either at hospital or underground doctor.

[ravedave]

This is EXTREMELY unsafe, and you shouldn't be doing any of this. If you need an abortion, go to a clinic, but you CANNOT try to handle this situation yourself

[Asker]

look my only option is handling this myself so please just dont comment unless its with advise to induce a miscarrige

[ravedave]

No one here is going to help you. This is stupid, reckless, risky, unsafe, and just plain dumb. Go see a doctor

[dwiller943]

Tbh, I'm in a similar situation. But sadly nothing I do seems to be working. But I have read that caffeine, alcohol, ibuprofen, and cinnamon can increase the chances of a miscarriage.

[masterkamasutra]

will share some experience about it, come private.

[Anonymous]

go get a proper abortion. self induced miscarriages will damage your health for the rest of your life.

[Anonymous]

exercise a lot
drink caffeine
eat crab
eat pineapple
eat processed meat
consume a lot of vitamin c

I AM NOT SUPPORTING INDUCED MISCARRIAGE
YOU SHOULD GO SEE A DOCTOR

All I am saying in the list above are the things that do cause Miscarriage
I suggest that you do not Eat those foods or only have a small amount so you don't miscarry
You should talk to your doctor even if you don't have the money

[Opinion Owner]

Do Not put yourself at risk talk to your Doctor

[Asker]

thankyou..

[Opinion Owner]

It could damage your health please just see a doctor

[Anonymous]

You have to go to a clinic. You can work somthing out with them payment wise. Don't put yourself at risk. See a doctor.

[Asker]

i honestly dont care about the risk. I've talked to them about that and it will still cost me hundreds of dollars i do not have.. i have bills and a toddler to care for id rather do this myself then put my finacial status harder then it already is..

[Opinion Owner]

The risk? How about endangering your life? You have a toddler. You're not going to help youe toddler if you're dead or seriously hospitalised (which could be more time consuming and costly than just going to a clinic in the first place) Please for your health and well being of your toddler, go to a clinic.