Girls, I'm self conscious about my butt?

[Anonymous]

My butt is a little hairy, not too much, but it does have its hairs. There are reasons why I don't want to shave it: - It may grow thicker and more of it - It will make me feel itchy when starts growing back again - It means I will have to do this constantly - It will make me feel gay to have a shaved butt I mean, I'm a guy. Like I'm really surprised how is it that guys with mustaches get girls, so I shave; but this is like going too far into the gay side, so I don't know. I wish I don't have to do it, but at the same time I wish I don't feel conscious about it either. I'm currently not in a relationship, so is not like I have to worry about a girl looking at it, but just in case I get a girl, I don't want that to be the deal breaker either. I mean, I haven't have sex in 5 years so that would suck. Does it really matter that much if it is a little hairy all over it? ,

[kittycat933]

Oops, I voted incorrectly!

I thought it said "Don't worry, us girls don't get turned off if you do girly stuff like that"

It's okay, you do what would make you feel more attractive and that will shine through in your personality and attitude towards other people. If it would make you feel better about yourself to be hairless there, then shave it. It's not gay, although it might seem that way, and your immature guy friends may call it that, trust me - more guys wish they had the balls to try girly stuff. And most would enjoy it if they could get away with it ^_^ Besides, what is girly anymore? You know they make makeup and concealer especially for guys? It's true. Don't worry about gender classifications, just experiment a little and do what makes you feel best. Try a cream hair remover, it will make the hair come back softer that way and you won't get ingrown hairs like you might from shaving. It's easier too, because you can just put it on and step in the shower to take it off once it's done working- no risk of cutting yourself or missing a spot because you couldn't see back there.

[Asker]

Thanks I didn't even know those creams exist. I feel gay already just to to think about it.

[kittycat933]

Well I apologize if that was sarcastic of you...

[Asker]

I was not sarcastic.

[kittycat933]

Oh okay - well in that case, you're welcome! Yes, all kinds of cream exists, just be brave enough to look in the girl section in a drug store and you will find at least 5 different types of gentle hair removal stuff. If you want something and feel embarrassed, pretend you're buying it for your mom. LOL

[Asker]

Oh no girl section, sounds gay, I was serious but then I got the other answer who I like better.

[zombielove22]

Haha first off I'd just like to say that I think most guys have hair on their asses...

Just last night I was racing these guys on the highway and got mooned by two of them that were in the car... There was definitely hair there. I really don't mind/ think it matters.

Other situation: my best friend use to tell me every little detail about her boyfriend... Apparently he had a REALLY hairy ass, but she didn't seem to mind since they had sex every time they got together...Sooo I don't think you'll have a problem with that either.

Bottom line: guys are suppose to be hairy, it's only natural.

[Asker]

Awesome. I like this better. By the way, what "mooned" means?

[zombielove22]

They pulled down thier pants and stuck their asses out the window...... haha!

[302302]

Most guys have hair on their asses, so I wouldn't worry too much about it.

unless its like really bad, then you can shave it.

i wouldn't care if the guy I was with shaved his ass,

honestly I don't find it gay.

Do what ever makes you feel more attractive.