Can a bad-sex relationship work?
We have sex once a week or every two weeks. And i'm able to ejaculiate only half of our sex encounters, otherwise she'll interrupt it mid-way due to her soreness without letting me finish. She refuses to give me head and only gives me hand jobs if i beg her to do so. I've eaten her out countless times cuz she's unable to cum otherwise due to her soreness. But everytime i mention blowjobs she gets mad and says the same phrase "you dont have to eat me out you know". She says she feels degraded and shamefull when blowing someone.
I feel sexually frustrated, i fantasise about other women a lot and prefer blowjobs instead of intercourse. And of course, i have a very high sex drive. And feel like i should be having more sex and less awkwardness and blue balls.
I know she feels bad for not being able to have healthy and passionate sex with me. She's otherwise perfect, but i can't shake off the feelin of unfullfillness, i have wet dreams about other women very frequent now-a-days. I don't wanna throw an otherwise perect relationship in the garbage due to out sex incompatibility. But we've tried everything, and she refuses to try other methods, i don't know how much longer i can hold it up before i do something impulsive as cheating.
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