Are there more virgin males out there? or more virgin females? or is it equal? what do you think? and why?

I will admit I am a guy in his early 20's who is still a virgin, and I will admit it bothers me sometimes since society, culture, and the media laugh at, make fun of male virgins more than female virgins, or I think just male virgins in general. If a male is a virgin, he is viewed as being a loser, pathetic, weak by society and the media, but if a female is virgin no matter what age, it is okay. That's why they make movies like American Pie, the 40-year old Virgin, Superbad, Sex Drive, etc. I'm just wondering if there are more virgins out there than it seems, because it would not surprise me if most people lie just to prevent embarassment. Anyway, what do you think? are there more Male Virgins in the World, more Female Virgins, or is it Equal? For every Virgin Male there is a Virgin Female? In my opinion I say there are more Male Virgins since Males are obviously generally the ones who would struggle to get laid, because everyone knows it is way extremely easier for a girl to get laid than it is for a guy, pretty much no straight guy will ever refuse sex, never say No to it. Also the fact that us guys have to be the ones to generally initiate everything with women, literally, including sex, hook-ups or one-night stands. The way I see it, if a girl wants to get laid, it is by her choice, if a guy wants to get laid, it is by chance, since girls are generally the ones who either welcome advances or reject them.
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  • I'm a virgin, I'm 18. Hell, I've never even had a boyfriend.

    I think their is more male virgins the female.

    girls have a larger chance on getting taken advantage of, date raped and raped in general.

    guys do get sexual harassed but girls get it way more. That's my humble opinion anyways.

    Alt of my friends tell me should get a guy, and hook up. They tell me it would be more fun to talk about sexual things about boyfriends if I had one. Although I have my opinions, and I have knowledge (not experience) about sexual stuff so they don't bother me like they used to.

    yes I'm lonely sometimes but proud that I haven't given in to a quick 'thrill' at any parties.

    So far I haven't found anybody I'm attracted to that way. Its all a matter of time and sometimes location (some people find love of their lives on vacation so you never know)

    I kind of think of myself as a rebel against the chains of society. For instance, they display love and sex as something they can always make a profit of. Buy this perfume boys will swarm! Buy this cologne, girls will go gaga over you! Buy this beer and indulge your fantasies! Buy these flavored super large something shaped with this design on it condom!

    buy this and you sex life will be better! Buy this and your LIFE will be better!BUY!BUY!BUY!

    see what I mean?

    Ignore the calls of propaganda. a rebel, and it will be all worth it when you find someone who understands you and who can share the same interests, hobbies and other ideas with them. That special person is other there for you to find.

    • Well, it's going to be a struggle to me since I'm a guy and always have to fight tooth and nail for it, initiate everything

  • Hey its nothing to be ashamed of its something to be proud of you have something to offer to the love of your life and you will be glad you waited someday !

    ps I'm 16 and still a virgin :)

    • Well the older you get and you haven't had sex yet, the more pressure is on you, I doubt you will no longer be a virgin once you enter your 20's

Most Helpful Guys

  • I will also admit I am a virgin, Yes I know it sounds stupid because most of my male friends and female friends have lost their virginity, But I want to save mine for the one I love, I believe that the virginity count is different to everyone,Llike you said you think it's more guys, But here the guys and girls are the same. I guess it does just count on the people.

    • And how old are you?

    • 16, Yet even people where I live people who are 14 have lost their virginity.

  • I would say more male virgins, for obvious reasons

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  • it's hard to say cause people are getting it in like rabbits these days but since there are more guys in america than girls then there are probly more male virgins but there is a new wave of us with morals and standards and all that stuff so we all haven't been given up the wood as easy as we used to

  • myself I know more guys who haven't had sex than girls , but I admit its very tough to tell for sure what some people have done , some girls I may assume have had sex cause there good looking may have not actually had sex yet .

    • Don't you hate how society and culture treats male virgins?

  • 73% of respondents thus far believe there more male virgins, and hopefully that's the case. I believe that when guys are horny and frustrated, and not getting any pussy, we're at our absolute best. I owe all of my success and happiness to being teased and sexually frustrated by so many beautiful women over the years, and I hope they just keep doing this to me.

  • I am 19 and still a virgin - no kiss no nothin. i already even gave up on any possibility of changing that. And now I don't even care. Maybe that way I will focus on the career-wise decisions. Or so I keep telling myself

  • I would have to agree that there are more male virgins out there because they tend to struggle with getting laid. Women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of marriage.

    For me personally, I'm a virgin and a male and I'm currently 25. Though I'm only a virgin because I don't plan on ever having sex. Which shocks everybody. They think that I'm lying because what kind of man refuses sex? Well, these days, when women claim rape when they regret having sex with a guy, yeah. That's another reason why I don't. I also don't want to get a women preggers. Just so they can decide to kill the baby or force me into child support after they leave. There is no trust.

    So yeah, more male virgins. And I don't blame them for being virgins. I don't think they should be lying about it either.

  • Im a virgin too. Go figure. But hey I've been with girls before but never lost it to them. I want it to be with someone special. Remeber you only lose it once, mine as well make it special :)

  • Well if a man's a virgin good for him if a woman's a virgin that's fine too if you can find a male virgin then you might be able to teach him a thing or two and you won't have to worry about the disease that goes along with it

  • Obviously there are far more male virgins. Almost any girl can get fucked and by age 80% of females have been fucked but less than half the males. For a one-night stand, most men are not very choosy but women demand exceptionally attractive guys. The number of fucks as it is not possible to be otherwise but men in the top 20 and especially elite men in the top 5 percent fuck a lot of women because they are the guys all women want to fuck. Therefore, a few men fuck a lot, most women fuck a little and most young men don't fuck.

  • I think sex is very overrated, people focus on all these mainstream "pros" to sex but no one really pays attention to the horrifying cons to sex. I think sex should be something you wait for. Not for god or any religeous reason, but simply for the fact that some people at ages where they can barely support their own living; are having meaningless or frequent sex with the risk of having a baby, or stds. I feel that people need to settle themeselves first, and then think about having sex. We need to do more rational thinking instead of just following our animal instincts to f*ck anything that moves.

  • That question is impossible to really answer because so many people lie about it. I am a virgin, but by choice so I don't think I'm pathetic at all. I have lied about it to some of my friends especially when I was younger. For some reason when some girls that knew me found out, they wanted to have sex with me. That seemed odd to me. Does that happen often?