My friend's boyfriend wants to havd sex with me, should I?

OK my friend's boyfriend wants to have sex with me and I want to but it will break her heart and I have a purity ring and I will feel guilty... I told him I felt that way and he got mad and said its not like he is going to come to the docks and f**k me so I stop texting him and then I told him I was uncomfortable talking to him about that stuff so I want to but he's a virgin and so am i... I need help.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Sweetheart, you're younger than 18, he's not your man, and you're still a virgin. Trust me... Don't give that up. If you did, you would be giving up your own innocence to some inexperienced jackass who wants to cheat on his girlfriend. That's not someone you want to lose it to. It's not up to me but if I were you, I would keep my dignity and stay away from him. Tell your best friend that her boyfriend is trying to sneak around behind her back and you'll be doing her a favor. Also, If she's your best friend, the last thing you want to do is hurt her like that. You'll destroy the trust you've worked to establish over the course of your whole friendship. It's a tough situation but think about what's best for you and for her. Good luck with your decision. =)

  • Why would you have sex with your "friends" boyfriend? That's so messed up. I use the term "friends" loosely because you obviously aren't her friend. I'd hate to have a friend like you. Friends are people who you have their trust and they have yours. You and her boyfriend are in the wrong.

  • Be a BFF and tell your friend her what her boyfriend is proposing.

    Ditch the guy and keep the friend - I promise you that your friendship is not worth this.

Most Helpful Guys

  • If he is your best friends boyfriend then he should not be telling you he wants to have sex with you. No matter how much it might hurt her you need to tell your friend, because a friend tells a friend what they need to hear not what they want to hear. Also this guy can't be a good guy if he can't break up with your friend before soliciting to you.

  • No.

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  • Troll.

  • Tell him to f*** off.

    Any guy that pressures a girl into sex is SCUM. If I saw that motherf***er I'd beat the sh*t out of him.

    Meanwhile, do NOT betray your friend. Be a decent human being.

  • Why are you even asking this. The obvious answer is no. You're a terrible friend for even considering it.

    • Also your BFF deserves to know that he wants to have sex with you. He's a d-bag and shouldn't be with her.

  • No, you shouldn't. And you should tell your friend too.

  • You make me sick. You're actually considering this?