Butt plug question?

Me and my husband have decided that we want to explore anal sex, both for me and him. A week back we tried but no matter how much lube we used and slow we went, it hurt a lot until he got to enter me fully and thrust normally. When i did try to do the same to him with our dildo while oral for prostate massage, he felt the same. A lot of pain for both of us which actually killed the moment. Yesterday same thing. I thought it hurt just for the first time but no. I asked here again and they told me that i need to try it many times in order to at least make the initial pain smoother.
Anyways sorry for the long intro. We thought a set of buttplugs like those in the pic might do the trick for us, or at least for me. I could start from the small one and advance to the big one. I plan to have it in while im home or while outside for some extra kink. My husband of course will only wear it during sex. Is there any danger if i have it on too much? Will i feel the same if i have to use the ladies room for number 2 or there is a risk of messing up my clothes? Any girls with experience in this care to tell me their story?



Butt plug question?



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Most Helpful Guys

  • Getting good and comfortable with anal is, for most people, not something that happens over night.

    - You will need to take you time and be patient, slowly work your way up to larger and larger sizes but start very small! Put it in and just leave it there, lay down and relax, let your body become adjusted to the sensations, practice this with some regularity, like weekly or what ever you feel like.

    - There is no such this as to much lube, in my opinion.

    - Entering at the correct angle is REALLY important can can take a little practice to figure out.

    - The person having something inserted should "push out" slightly at the same time, not hard enough to actually push out the plug but enough to "open" the asshole. This is a VERY useful tip in my experience.

  • so in anal you can sometimes have that pain. if it comes, just stop. it will subside and not come back after that (in this session). if you just keep pushing against the pain and don´t let it subside first, it won´t get better.

    you should absolutely not wear them for extended periods of time. do it for a few minutes to an hour but then let your butt some rest. also with buttplugs: watch out that the base of it is thick enough to prevent it from just slipping in completely. it´s very likely that if it goes all the way inside, you will be forced to go to ER. due to the harsh form of the base that´s supposed to prevent it from slipping in all the way, you won´t be able to "shit it out".

Most Helpful Girls

  • If you're only just starting then don't put it in and then go outside. Put it in when you'll be home watching television or to wear while having vaginal sex.
    Don't use too much lube to put it in, and have your husband loosen you initially with his fingers before sliding it in. If you have too much lube you won't be able to keep the plug in when you start to move around.

  • It's all about relaxing... u have to relax ur muscles down there for it to feel good. the initial entry will eventually get easier but once he's in like for me I make him go fast so the initial pain will subside and the feel good kicks in then we can go about it however =) good luck

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  • I always use a butt plug, it's great to prevent runny poops

  • anal beads.. then work your way up to the bigger size the asshole needs to be stretched , butt plugs are big

  • I've never had sex :c

  • I firmly believe nothing is suppose to go inside the butt.