Is It Normal For A Man Not To Moan During Sex?

[Anonymous]

Is it normal if a guy doesn’t moan during sex? So my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and we were both virgins before having sex with one another therefore it was special and interesting to say the least. With that been said ever since I have noticed he never moans; he doesn’t even make a single sound therefore I have no clue if anything feels good to him or bad or in between! And then when we are done sex I mean he cuddles with me and gives me kisses and he is very sweet but there is no communication during the act. We live in a condo together therefore no one is in our house except both of us! I want to bring this up to him and outright tell him how I feel regarding this situation; yet I’m afraid this may come off as weird; is it usual for guys not to moan? I'm 22 he is 26

[asdfdude]

Communication during sex is good. I'll communicate when I think we could do something better, or if she's doing something that is uncomfortable etc.

I don't really feel any urge to moan generally speaking, except sometimes a bit during orgasm. If a girl asks me to, I'll try but it makes me feel weird.

There is one exception, though. When a girl is stimulating my prostate I will moan like crazy if she does it right. For some reason it feels natural and just happens.

[God_of_Thunder]

I don't think it's unusual, at all.

I am typically pretty quiet, when it comes to moaning, and I've had women ask me why other guys are quiet, as well. That suggests, to me, that they've also encountered it, so it doesn't seem to be unheard of.

Now, I'll communicate very well, and we'll talk to each other regularly; I just don't moan. It just feels weird to do so, for some reason.

[craz88]

Most men don't moan unless when they are about to cum (finish). Also a lot of men don't talk that much during sex. That's not me personally so I am not sure why they act like this but my guess would be is that men try very hard not to cum too quickly so it's very important for us to concentrate.

[JakeHess]

To my knowledge, few men need to moan, but at least I try to during sex to reassure my partner. Tell him he should do that if only to help you guage how good he's feeling, and add to the mood

[jacquesvol]

I don't moan. Is it normal? I don't know

[KittyBox]

Oh gods no, moaning, as a male? Unspeakable! You stupid woman.

[yourmad482829]

it's normal. I'm quite and have a straight face the entire time. us guys gotta focus on what we are doing

[Daniel3035]

I'm loud in bed I either hold it in which adds to the intensity or I let it out (if i'm alone) i'm a virgin so I don't know about vaginal sex. On top of that I don't really know since I don't watch either side have sex. Typically I'd imagine men grunt but well i'm not like most men.
If you want him to moan during sex it's all about you working the tip it's everything even if he comes keep going and don't stop until he yells the safeword. He will scream the neighbors will hear.

[hippopotomus]

I don't moan when I jerk it, its not weird to bring this up though the key to a good relationship is comunication. your hearts in the right place you want to make him feel good, just let him know that.