Orgasm/ejaculation is an automatic function, just like a sucking instinct in a child.
If you read my posts, I am Johnny One Note on this, but I'll apply it here.
Assuming he does not have a physical problem (they exist) he may need to be (re)trained. Intercourse is strenuous and there can be a performance anxiety which can bring him to the point and no further. That is exacerbated by the pain of a loaded prostate and stretched vas and muscles at the testicles (aka Blue Balls).
To determine if he needs to go to a urologist, if you are willing, play the part of an erotic masseuse, starting with (almost) non-erotic body massage and advance to sexual massage that includes heavy-lotion massage of the entire sack/penis area, teasing in down to (and into, if he likes it) a little shallow anal fingering. If he feels like he will come (but may not) ease back to let sexual tension/pressure build, but without effort/exertion on his part. just off the peak. At some point, he will be ready to "try" and that is when you give him a brief high speed power BJ including "nursing" and licking at the glans and rapid (lotiony) shaft stroking. That should bring him over the top. Perhaps it is not a BJ per see, but your technique that isn't working well for him.
If a pure-pleasure situation with no performance anxiety or strenuous effort doesn't work, a visit to the urologist is in order..0 1 0 0"he doesn't really like getting head course it just doesn't work for him."
What more do you need? Skywriting? A letter inked in blood? Listen to the man!0 0 0 0Haha, it's not that.. it's more like he doesen't believe he could come from a blowjob and that's why he has given up on it.. I'm pretty sure it is not a blowjob thing.. it's a question of who is in control.. he can't get off unless he's in control, but he told me he would love it if only he could come and that I could try if I wanted... but WTF am I supposed to do here :D The only solution I can think of is letting him basicaly f*** my face :D Does that still count as a blowjob? :DD
Sure, call it a blowjob. Why not? Some guys are just not wired to come from blowjobs, though, just like some (most?) women aren't wired to come from vaginal intercourse. Give it a good try if you must, but if you make it too big an issue, you'll help nothing and spoil everything.
Yep, that's probably what I'm gonna do... I don't want him to feel frustrated or whatsoever... like as if he had to cum.. and if he really doesen't seem to get anything from it I'll just drop it =))
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