GIRLS: Do you ever get insecure about your vagina?

I never had sex before but I was about to. I was too scared to even let him go down on me so, I just stopped everything. My vagina looks weird to me. The hood around my clit is wrinkly and one labia minora is bigger than the other... Could use some advice lol
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  • Vaginas come in different sizes just like penises, small, medium, large and extra large. Genital size matching is paramount to enjoyable sex.
    You wouldn't want to match a extra large penis with a small vagina as the cervical collisions would be intolerable. A small penis with an extra large vagina is pretty hopeless for good sex.
    Size does matter for both sexes!
    Youtube has information on how to measure your cervix depth.
    When fully aroused and tented your vagins expands and lengthens like an accordian, up to 3x its unaroused state.

  • there is no reason to be insecure about the appearance of your vagina. guys don't care how it looks, because they all look good. I'm pretty sure I've seen some study proving my point before.

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  • I used to be extremely insecure about my vagina when I was a few years younger. But as I got older I learned about different types and realized that it's normal not to have a 100% perfect vagina. Sometimes I do get a little insecure about myself. But a vagina is a vagina and most people don't care about how it looks, they care about what they do with it.

  • I feel you. I've never let my ex see my vagina when we're making love. so i always turn off the lights and never want him to go down on me. its frustrating, but like most of these guys here say, guys really dont care about the appearance as long as your healthy down there. Learn to love what you have, every vag is different.

    • exactly, besides as long as you're clean it's good. guys have different dicks too I'm sure.

    • I'm sure being circumcised compared to not being is a much bigger aesthetic difference than larger/smaller specific parts of your vagina - honestly you have nothing to worry about, be confident in yourself and your body, everyone is unique and at the long shot If some (idiotic man/women) were to not like the appearance of your lady parts then they're not someone you should make time in your life for!!! Really hope this helps 😊👼

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  • I'm so insecure about mine! I'm a virgin and yet one side of my labia minora is bigger than the other. It looks odd and wrinkly! I absolutely hate it and don't want anyone else to see it. When I was younger, I wanted to cut the excess skin off to "even it out" (I never did lol).

    • OMGG ME TOO!!! Its so uncomfortable too! Sometimes the flap gets in the way and it feels weird.

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  • Yes I do get insecure of mine sometimes. Vaginas can be so many different shapes and sizes, with hair or no hair, etc. You're not alone!

  • All vaginas are I ugly. I don't really care how mine looks.

  • my labia are the same way, sometimes im nervous about it but guys never care, once they go down on me all that worry disappears

  • You think about this way more than most guys do to be honest. Very few guys will ever reject a vagina when they're just about to get it, unless it stinks.

  • Well, mainly what you are seeing are the vulva and labia, since the vagina is inside. They all look a bit strange and every one of them is unique and different. It's nothing at all to get worked up about. Any guy you allow to see you down there is going to be so happy to have access that the last thing he will be thinking about is how your vulva looks, and once his penis is inside your vagina and is feeling what it's doing to him, he won't be able to think at all. :-)

  • I've never felt that way no: it's a vagina, not a Picasso, I think most guys know it isn't a work of art.

  • No vagina is pretty, but I must admit I'm not embarrassed by mine. Only thing I'm pretty chilled about.
    Plus it's not like he's gonna observe down there with a flashlight 😂 I doubt guys really care.

    • lmao... torch light hehe... nice one

  • It is amazing how many women think their own vulva looks strange or bad somehow. But just about every one of them looks great! And what you described yours looking like is definitely normal!

  • I can guarantee that as long as he's not immature and petty then everything will be fine. And if he is like that then you done the right thing by not letting him near you.

  • All vaginas look different. I'm sure yours isn't abnormal. A lot of women not only are concerned about their vagina's appearance, but also how it feels for the guy and its smell. All normal concerns, but most guys don't really care much for the specific looks. At least I don't. Sure, there's more "aesthetic" looking vaginas out there, but it's just not really that big of deal. I think the most important aspects to a vagina is that, it's healthy and doesn't smell.

  • you should have had a sometimes vote, cause only sometimes do I get insecure. mostly when I'm 🔴.

    • well I like to think that yes = sometimes. You still get insecure

    • yeah true. I guess I thought of it like Yes! all the time. nd no is like No! wtf. but that's me 😂

  • I barely know what is over there. I should watch it a little bit more for health reasons. :)
    I don't think a guy would care, at least a mature one.

  • one minora is always larger.. it's part of your body's natural 'handedness' like being left or right handed. one foot is larger, for men one ball hangs lower too:) you are cool and totally normal:)

  • I have never been repulsed by a woman's vagina... Never.

  • wtf how do you even know what you're own vagina looks like. I'm so confused lol.

    • there's something called a mirror?

    • The asker is talking about the vulva, not the vagina, so it is easy to see.

    • @Red_Arrow Yeah I meant vulva lol sorry

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  • Nope.

  • No worries. Your vagina sounds absolutely normal to me. That may not mean much because im a guy but I've watched more than enough porn to know that there is nothing abnormal going in here.

  • Most vaginas are like that. If in doubt, look up the Large labia project on the net and see for yourself. As a guy, I prefer bigger labia minora. Gives more area to play with. Makes imho look the girl more hot.

  • your fine guys dont pay attention that close to vagina lol

  • Yes..

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