Girls, On a scale of 1-10, how bad does it hurt to have sex for the first time?

[Anonymous]

What the question says.

[CurLyF]

The pain is different for every girl. Some girls already have part of the hymen torn, so they don't feel a lot of pain. It also depends on how turned on you are. You need to have a lot of foreplay to be propperly wet so you don't experience more pain that necessary, so keep that in mind. The nerves can also keep you from having a propper librucation, so try to stay calm. The pain is kind of similar to a strong pinch, except it's inside. I didn't experienced excrutiating pain or anything. It was completly tolerable (like a 6) and it went away around a minute after and he kept thrusting gently. He has to go slow at first or the discomfort might increase. But even though the pain wasn't that bad, I bled a lot. More than when I'm on my period. I wasn't even sore or anything, but when we got up, my sheets had a huge blood stain and we were a little... filthy from it, too :O! It surprised us both. And then I went to the bathroom and bled some more, like the first day of my period, and with tiny bits of tissue, but didn't feel pain or soreness. I kept bleeding for three days straight and then it went dwindling down until it stopped. I went to see me Gyn two days after the deed, and she told me it was completly normal and had nothing to worry about.

[Anonymous]

Pick any number from 1 to 10. That is your answer. What applies to you is how you prepare for it. Go in cold, and it will hurt and maybe bleed. Prepare yourself for a couple of weeks at least, and it may well be pain and blood free.

[linds34]

7/10.

[fauchelevent]

Like a 6.

[deraz24]

It wasn't that bad for me just make sure you're wet enough, after the first few minutes you get used to it so like a 5

[Catranebaer]

8/10, hurts pretty bad

[BillieJean1070]

I say like a 4 for me.

[KatherineJ]

It was about a five. It kinda hurt, but nothing excruciating.

[Shadsie97]

2, For me it didn't hurt it was just a little uncomfortable.