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Can a woman be too tight?

I am feeling just a bit ridiculous debating this topic with people who aren't virgins. But anyway, here goes, women have children right before their bodies adjust during pregnancy to make way for newborns, those who need C sections are not tighter, they might have narrow passage ways, or medical issues where that procedure is best. My mom's last was a C-section, she has 5.

Periods are a sign that a woman is in the stage of adulthood, her vagina adjusts and the passageway is opened up, this means she also is prepared for intercourse. That does not mean you should sleep with teens, their minds are not ready and that is why it is abuse.

You cannot be nor appear too tight unless there is a medical problem, humans were created to enjoy sex, it is suppose to be passionate and intense in all the right way, forgive me but I think if you don't know this, you shouldn't be having sex. When I felt too tight and didn't enjoy sex, I was never proud of it, I hid my feelings in shame because I was disappointed, I got to know my body and had a blast.
A good vagina does not malfunction, so no need to use "I feel pain during sex" as bragging rights. I hate pain, this is why I would avoid a big penis unless he's the most amazing man in the world, I've put up with worse.

Have a great Sunday.
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  • The vagina is a muscle. It can be tight and it can be loose. Sometimes a woman needs to stretch it a bit to be big enough for a normal penis. Either stretch it yourself with a dildo or your fingers, or have a guy stretch it with his fingers, then his penis. The thing to be careful about then is that he cannot feel what you are feeling and has to be paying attention to you so that it is a gentle stretching. And always use lots of lube.

    After a woman gives birth in which she had an episiotomy, the doctors will sew the cut up and she may actually be tighter than before.

    In any case, if she cannot get it wide enough by stretching, see a gynecologist about it. It may prove necessary to have it surgically widened, but that is very rare.

    • She is under the impression that vaginas do not vary in size at all. Yes in most cases a vagina can accept the size penis most men have. It may need ti stretch some but it usually can. However it only stretches to a certain point regardless of the starting point. Whether the pussy is "too tight" is someone's opinion. If his dick makes is difficult to penetrate her even with foreplay and lube then he might say her pussy is "too tight" because it makes sex difficult for his size. Just like most women have a threshold which varies as to penis size is considered "too big"

    • @Blake0048 - Changes in hormones can allow extreme stretching. For instance, giving birth. So they can be stretched a lot farther than people usually give credit for.

    • You never stretch yourself, stop making up bullcrap. Stretching is bad and I would never do that to myself. You become relaxed and the penis pushes and open you up, your walls are folded that's why it hold a tiny tampon which you have to get in position to even get up there. You're not tight it's just how it works. When I have a yeast infection, I need to relax and be careful to insert the straw, should I brag about that too?

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  • Women have their own problems and men need to understand them to satisfy them fully. Sex is not a one sided play. Both partners need to feel good. That's why they say , it's a union of the two bodies which need to fit well together.

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  • If the woman seems to be too tight, most likely it's just that she's not wet enough & the couple should do more foreplay.

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  • okay. good for you, and your man!

    • I will continue to stay away from them, so none of them will ever enjoy me and ruin my life anymore, so no good for me because I can please myself and enjoy my orgasms alone.

  • I won't do anal because it is too tight it pinches and hurts and destroys my interest.

    • Use lubricant haha. But yes a vagaga can be the same when it's dry and tense, I imagine a man would lose interest the same way there too.

    • I did use lube it just it too tight I like a light friction not a vice grip.

  • pussy is made for fuck so we all fucking it.

  • I once dated a women who had three kids. and if she wasn't on her period. she was so tight. it made my dick bleed. I had to stop dating her.

    • She had a cyst or something dude, how does that make sense? Three kids but can't take a dick? smh.

    • I dated her for 6 months. same thing every time.

    • She has a problem, one of my exes who was Asian tore my pussy, because he was an animal, that is not normal.

  • I think in the starting woman has tight but after active sexully all women became normal

    • It's tension. I tired to penetrate myself when I was a virgin and it felt impossible, I sweat and felt like passing out. I see why some people's virginity takes days to pop. Even before you get used to sex, it will seem that way, it's not that she is stretched out, she's just relaxed. I got cussed out by a group of guys here when I first signed up early this year and went anon. For days I couldn't masturbate because my dildo couldn't enter my vagina, and when I forced I felt pain as I was traumatized, no man has ever called me those names and was so mean. These men don't understand how a vagina works, if you can't enter her something is wrong. Also my dildos are smaller than the average man, because it takes less effort, ain't nobody got time for foreplay before rubbing one out. I just wish most men would listen, this is why so many girls are dissatisfied.

  • It's not believable that at your age you have not come across a man with a big penis in your intimate relationships, tbh..

    • Of course I have and it feels like death and excitement. I never said I have never, but that is another story. I just hate these sex myths that people place in their heads for whatever reasons. It's like arguing with people that pussy does not smell like fish and they claim it's yeast, some people smh.

    • Do you ask a guy beforehand​ if he has a small dick in that case? Lol. You would have a lineup of little dick men around the block 😄

    • I never care because size hardly matters unless it's the same as my pinky, I have seen only one that small. He thought I was tight and came fast which opened my eyes to why men fear women, she is almost never the reason. As long as the guy is hard and knows what he is doing, things will be fine. There are Gspots all over inside the vagina, one is two inches inside at the roof.

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