Is it weird to go to a strip club by yourself?

Just wondering. I've thought about it, but I get creeped out by it because it seems like only old creepers would do it and I don't think I am a creep, just a regular college guy.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Someone the other day on here asked a question about even going to a bar alone and if it was creepy. Honestly, men go to strip clubs all the time. You can't always coordinate your schedules to go in a huge crowd (which although I understand for parties or boys' nights out - I find it weird for just a random day). That, and if I were a guy, I think I would like to enjoy some naked women without a bunch of dudes around me at times.

    You wouldn't be an "old creep" because like you said, you're in college. I don't want this to come off the wrong way because I've known strippers and they were amazingly sweet girls, but they usually aren't going to all go in back after their stage time and say "oh my god, did you see that creepy 22 year old? ew" If anything, they'd probably think you were attractive and be grateful you weren't some old, married creep.

    Strip clubs are a place for men to go to relax and enjoy themselves. Don't let worry ruin that for you. Just go enjoy yourself. No one is going to judge you, because everyone's in the same boat there - I mean, c'mon.

  • Personally, I don't have a problem with strip clubs at all. That said, when people go with friends, it's more of a fun and social thing. When someone goes by themselves, it seems to be more of a pervy thing (which translates into creepy). I'm not saying the only reason someone might go to a strip club by themselves is to stare at naked girls/get turned on/get attention from girls that they wouldn't normally get in their everyday life, etc., but it seems to be the most probable reason.

  • I think a guy that FEEL like a creep most likely will seem creepy, but a guy that goes out alone and are totally cool about it are actually pretty intriguing.

    Guy that looks like he's ashamed of himself sends creepy vibes.

    Guy that looks like he is completely comfortable with himself are cool.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I think it is. Instead of going with someone looking to have a good time. You look more like someone who is alone with nothing else to do.

  • It's fine to go by yourself, and you'll get better treatment too; staff expects guys in packs to be *ssholes, and bad to the women.

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  • if you're bored, you can find a lot to do and it doesn't have to be going to a strip club.=)

    • I probably never will so thanx

  • Many college students, particularly those not sexually active do. Good place to see the equipment closeup and personal.

  • ive only went to a strip club once and it was by myself

  • no. I'm sure it's normal

  • You sound like your bored and only go cos you are.

    Do you enjoy it or is it just that you get turned on by the girls you see?

    • I haven't gone yet, I'm just thinking about it. I probably won't unless some friends take me. I was just asking.

    • But it kinda takes you away from 'normal' life! Wouldn't it be nicer to go to a pub or club, where you can meet girls who are not strippers and make some friends?

    • That's what I'd rather do actually. But it's just I feel anywhere you go alone except for like stores makes you look like a creep. Who goes to bars just by themselves to pick up girls. Maybe if I just went for a drink it'd be more normal, but I would think it'd be a red flag for a girl. Trust me I've tried it at a few dance clubs. Girls even think I'm a wierdo when I do have friends with me LOL