I think I'm a sex addict?

[Anonymous]

So.. i think I'm addicted to sex. On multiple occasions I've had marathon sex... I'm talking 5-6 hours ofcourse with a few breaks in between... multiple orgasms... after I'm still horny. All i think about is sex. All i wnt to do is fuck. There is nothing sexually that doesn't turn me on. I've had gang bangs... threesomes... and still need it afterwards. No one I've ever been with matches my stamina. The other night i was with a guy i was seeing and we had great sex for 4 hours. He left and i masturbated 10 times that day. My body needs constant orgasms... I'm beginning to feel like it's consuming me :(... i think i need help but I'm embarrassed. Tonight i plan to see the same guy n he wants to hang out n go somewhere but all i want is to stay in and fuck. I'm losing it.. I don't know what to do

[Intraluminal]

Having a high sex drive is only a problem if it negatively affects your life. It sounds like yours may be at that level, but only you know whether it does or not. What I'm trying to say is that, don't measure your sex drive by other people's sex drives. If you're happy, you're happy.

But, if you're not happy with your sex drive, therapy can help. In many cases an intrusive sex drive is due to emotional issues, like depression. Ironically, the drugs that treat depression also reduce people's sex drive, but the first step, if and only if your sex drive is bothersome to you, is to see a psychiatrist or sex therapist for an initial assessment.

[Asker]

Im not happy being this way. I have been a couple times where I have seats help the first time is when I asked my doctor and what he did was prescribed me medication and I Raider research that found out that it was used for bipolar people. I know for a fact that I'm not bipolar or have any other mental health issues with this I feel like it's physical. Where my vagina throbs and become sore if I'm not rectifying my desires. Or I start to feel anxious if I'm not getting it. On another occasion I went to a sex addicts anonymous meeting and I ended up sleeping with the director of the program and her husband after the meeting. I'm scared to go to another meeting because I feel like sometimes there's nothing but Predators there who prey on people in their addictions but on the other and I feel like I may have a physical problem because it's not mentally me feeling like I wanted it's a physical yearning that makes me feel like I need it. I truly hate this :-(

[Intraluminal]

If you're unhappy, then you have a problem, and you can be helped. One thing you need to understand is that medicines are often prescribed "off label." In other words, they are prescribed to treat problems that are not the *official* use. Here's an example. For years aspirin was given to prevent heart attacks even though the only listed use was for pain. Finally, years later, the use of aspirin to prevent heart attacks was so widespread that it was then listed as a treatment for heart attack. The same thing applies to other drugs.

[Goodguy_97]

Well one, where are you from? It could be just because you are being easily influenced by your surroundings such as your friends to add an example.

But if you love sex, you love sex.

If you feel as if you want to stop, I suggest speaking to someone random. And having them help you out.

[Asker]

I live in Chicago. I don't think it's my surroundings bc all of my current close friends are in healthy marriages right now. I'm single bc commitment isn't for me as i don't think I'm capable of being faithful. I am gonna seek help though bc it's interfering with my day to day life. I have even masturbated at work. :(

[Goodguy_97]

I'm glad you are seeking help... the best thing to do is that. And possibly always keeping yourself busy. What kind of work setting are you in? And if I were I wouldn't be hanging out with that guy tonight. You may bring yourself into doing something that you will regret down the road.

[Asker]

I bartend... there's usually 2 of us behind the bar so when it slows don't i go to thr bathroom. I have to see him tonight bc i need to have sex. Its impossible for me to go without. Last night he had to work so i went to his job and we had sex quickly in my car. Tomorrow i plan to make calls to see what are my options... I've done this befor and ended up sleeping with the director of the program and her husband..

[Goodguy_97]

No you don't NEED to have sex. you WANT to have sex. There's a huge difference. You need to have willpower. Maybe instead of going out with him, do out with your female friends. That'll get your mind off of it.

[Asker]

Female? Ha... i like women too. That won't work... I've even slept with straight women

[Goodguy_97]

Okay then... I sure help you lol I hope that the person you seek help from can help a lot better than I can look

[soralog123]

you need to find a guy who will also give you a fix of romance so you think about more on the relationship rather than sex.

[mobymark]

Could be a hormonal imbalance with your birth control. Just likd guys who take testosterone suppliments. See your doctor. That can be uncomfortable to say the least. Sex is nice but you want it quenced. Not 24 hr horny.

[Asker]

My doc tried to prescribe me meds... i looked one of them up and research that and I found that those meds were also prescribed to people who are bipolar. so I made the decision not to take the medication. I wanted to enjoy sex like normal people not feel like I needed or without it I'm going to break down in tears which by the way I have done

[mobymark]

Shrinks are bad doctors. Doctors are bad also. You should have a complete hormone analysis. The doctor you saw thought you were bipoler and did not even give you enough respect to discuss his thoughts. You should go to an MD and request a complete workup on the hormones that involve sex. You may have to read up on the subject.

[daniel_shalome]

Watch Nymphomaniac directed by Lars Von Trier

[tallkoolone]

that's what he really wants as well, you are in your prime, it's not unheard of to be so horny all of the time, enjoy it flaunt it, show it, don't hide it, perhaps exploring other avenues might help, we can talk about those privately for sure if you would like, nothing is wrong with you, you of all need to believe that

[Asker]

Thank you :-) I am def embarrassed. I always thought id be a woman who covets her body instead my body has become my worse enemy. I don't think having sex 15 times a week is the norm especially considering i masturbate multiple times a day... i def would like to explore other avenues

[tallkoolone]

HI you , thanks for the reply, tell me do you enjoy being watched whilst masturbating, or watching someone else, perhaps both, is this private or not, I ask because I don't know how this site works lol

[tallkoolone]

p. s. never be embarrassed of your kinks. or fantasies, nor your need to want more

[RedThread]

If sex is starting to negatively influence your life by making it impossible to do anything else you should definitely see someone. Sex is a healthy thing but it's not good if it consumes you.

[akadatank44]

You are addicted to sex. Its not good when it negatively affects your life and especially putting yourself in extremely risky positions. Have you seeked help?

[praveensai]

I am sex guy , the only way is to find addict person like you.. I only love sex always and have some sex day and night

[Asker]

Come to Chicago lol

[praveensai]

I will dear ping me once for détails

[praveensai]

I can really come to Chicago

[Chris1987]

Don't dismiss how you feel. Go get help. If this isn't how you want to live, then find help to change it.

[Djicee]

Well... what are you trying to compensate for? (no pun intended, I mean emotionally) If you can't answer its fine Im not entirely sure this will work.

[Built2Last]

you sound like a female me

[Decentguy]

you still think?

[Asker]

No, i know :-(

[Decentguy]

why dont you join any support group, for that

[MeGo99]

Its ok as long as you practice safe sex and are careful with choosing the individual u are doing it with

[cancan73]

your preaching to the choir sister

[Asker]

:-( ugh... sucks

[Vyrakh]

You may be more than addicted to sex. There's a condition that seems to have constant orgasms on such a basis, so check that out.

[masterkamasutra]

fill your apatite, you get enough someday.

[Pizzalover101]

Go to the doctor an see if your estrogen levels are to high or you mite have a thyroid problem if those are tested an normal where they should be them you nead a srink

[hexto]

then fuck till your pussy content. nothing wrong with that. be open minded and do what geeks good

[bigthrobber]

join the club all I want to do is fuck! because I'm 8-1/2 inches a lot of girls won't fuck me

[nycfckevin]

I feel you're pain... After giving a girl multiply orgasm she falls asleep and I go to the bathroom to finish off.. I come back see her panties or anything and I'm hard af again. I get hard driving and when I'm getting out the car got to try and hide it. I'm not saying I'm gigantic but it's not easy to hide.

[mugiwara23]

Very interesting, you will have to check for yourself to see how it really is

[Th3_Owl]

You need more sleep, cut down alcohol, and more non sexual workout. You need to shift your focus elsewhere which is simple, like cycling. You can try to get an aquarium full of fish which helps to keep calm. And if you can't do all that yourself, then you need professional consulting.

[Asker]

I work out 5 times a week. I compete in triathlons... that's actually my passion-fitness. Being at the gym turns me on... the women with tight clothes and the men sweating-it's frustrating so, i run faster and longer... I've met men and women at the gym that I've hooked up with... ugh i do agree, i need professional help. I don't want to be someone who doesn't like sex as many women are however a normal appetite is what i desire.

[Th3_Owl]

I wish you best of luck. You must try then unconventional meditation techniques. But I am not an expert, this is just a opinion. I hope you can get professional help as soon as you can.