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I Need Him To Cum - Blue Balls Be Gone... ?

My boyfriend and I have been together about a year and a half now. We have a good relationship and amazing sex life. He's always been able to last a long time in bed but he always got off not every time, but on a regular basis. And if he didn't cum during sex, I could give him a bj after and finish the job.
Lately, when we have sex/oral/etc. He hasn't been able to come. We could go forever and nothing. I've spent 3 hrs straight bobbing on that thing and he still can't. I know its not me. I've seen him tell his friends that im the best sex of his life and he's always talking about it. Anyways, he is getting a case of really bad blue balls that won't go away. Even the odd time that he gets the chance to blow his load, he still has blue balls afterwards. It's really painful for him - like it hurts to walk even.
Is there anything that I could do or recommend to him to fix this issue? Being his girlfriend... I want to get him off (as well as not be in pain) and it hurts my ego a bit if I can't.
I know that he has recently has some change in medications which can obviously affect that but I don't think that is the issue here. Any advice?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Too stop blue balls, you have too stop sex. Blue balls is not caused by medication, and there is no medication to stop it.
    He is probably not cuming, because you are probably draining cum out of him, faster than his body can produce it.

    The body can only produce so much cum in a period of time.

    • We are not given an unlimited supply of cum. It takes time for the body to produce it. Blue balls can also by too much masturbation. He needs to stop any sexual activity for a few days, or perhaps a week.

    • We can only a squirt our load once every 30 mins. Once we have cummed, we can't cum again within that period of time. Maybe so, but you will need a mircale, or you need find a boyfriend with elephant sized balls.

  • It's not you so don't take this the wrong way, the guy needs less of you sexually right now, too much of a good thing sometimes has negative effects. Try backing off with the sex for a few days to a week or so then I'll guarantee his sore nuts will go away.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Well if you've tried multiple positions anal and such and checking any medical conditions maybe he needs more stimulants? There is also acupuncture he could be to physically tense in a certain place

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  • lol I read this right after reading blue balls be gone , also I would suggest giving him a break from sex for 2 weeks or so

  • If he has a medical issue he should see his doctor.

  • Put a finger in his butt and stroke the prostate

  • Finger his arse if not then talk to him he might have some stress?

    • Oh yes..

    • @Deydey12345 mhmmm you liked the idea dont you naughty girl

    • Yesssss

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  • Some guys take a lot to cum, i know i do. For me i enjoy fucking, cumming is just a part of it. What i enjoy most is being inside and laying with a women nude.
    If u can go for hours and he can handle it then its not a prob at all.
    I can tell u most women don't go that long. At least in my experences.

  • Could be more of a serious issue

  • Go to the doctor with him.

  • Blue balls isn't a thing. Tell him to go see a urologist and proctologist, because it may be something serious. Prostate cancer/testicular cancer are widespread, but nobody wears ribbons for those, do they?

    • It actually IS a thing.

  • You might be able to make him cum fast if you put on a show a little while sucking/fucking him.

  • Is he able to make himself cum?

    • Sometimes but not always. Usually not

    • I would have him see his doctor because there might be something medically wrong with him

  • Possible to have testicular torsion.

  • If he really had blue balls, he would need medical help.
    He jerks off and releases the tension. Blue balls are rare.

  • Prostate massage if your super desperate and he's willing

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