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Do guys like going down on girls?

Me and my boyfriend haven't had sex because we have decided on waiting.. But sometimes we wanna do a little more than make out I don't mind going down on him at all I really enjoy that a lot.. I like to please him... But I'm kind of uncomfortable with him going down on me. So I guess I'm just wondering what guys think about going down there and if there are any girls who feel the same way? Also if a guy says he is OK with waiting to go all the way... Is it true sometimes he can pressure me but usually stops if I say no.. Does that mean he really can't wait? Thank you
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I love going down on my girl, but she really likes it. If you don't enjoy him going down on you, then don't let him - You want to be tactful though, ask him to do other things you like instead. Or just say " NO, I WANT TO GO DOWN ON YOU" -- "IT'S MY JOB TO PLEASE YOU!" The last part you wrote concerns me more, Your boyfriend can wait, but he has decided not to wait with you. He will keep pressuring you more and more, and your "NO" will start to mean less and less to him. -- So if you want to please him ( And keep him as your boyfriend. ) The next time he starts to pressure you, you tell him that you really want to wait, but he is so important to you that you want him to take you, you want to belong to him. ( This makes you look better to him. ) If you do not -At one point, he will take you anyway. You don't want it to get to that and lose control over him. I am sure he meant it when he said he would wait also, but by starting to pressure you, that means he has decided he will take you at some point. - He is not bad - just being a normal man and he will take wht he feels is his. You have the right to say no if you wish. It is your body, but he will find a girl to replace you if you do. - If this guy treats you good, then you should give yourself to him before he has to take you. You should look into birth control pills now - You want to avoid getting pregnant - It can happen the very first time, It is up to you to protect yourself until you want children.

  • My girl thought the same way for awhile. She had heard from friends that guys don't really like going down. Some do, some don't. If he says he does, just believe him. The fact that he does it should tell you he does like doing it for you.

    My girl didn't take long to realize not all guys are the same. I certainly know she enjoys the things my tongue can do :)

    He is willing to wait...that doesn't mean he WANTS to. That he will stop says that he loves you. Stopping and shelving that drive is not easy to do. Make sure you let him know how much you respect, and love him for giving you that.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I love it when a guy goes down on me. My current boyfriend had never done it before but really wanted to. I showed him what makes me tick and he definitely did it right. Why are you uncomfortable about him going down on you? I totally enjoy it. You just need to experiment with him on what really works for you. Also, I agree with sinful1620... he has control but will have less control when he is fooling around with you. I know my sex drive is crazy... so I can't just "fool" around without having sex. Its just too much for me. So, be patient with him when you are fooling around. It might take him more time than you to calm down.

  • The first guy I was with told me repeatedly how much he loves going down, but honestly, I was a little nervous at first too. You'll get over that I promise. Some guys love it, and some guys don't particularly care for it. He obviously doesn't mind it if he's doing it for you. And you have a good man for him to hold back when you ask him to stop - make sure you tell him how much you appreciate that.

  • Guys on here claim to...mmm...But it's your boyfriends opinion that matters not the guys on here.

    I'd never let a guy go down on me,but that's just me haha

    • Why wouldn't you let a guy go down on you? It's amazing...

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  • Well, I'm a guy who's somewhat uncomfortable with having women go down on me, I think it's weird that anyone would want to do that. But, some women, such as yourself as you said, really enjoy it. The same goes for men, some, like me, really enjoy going down on women. It's all about pleasing the other person with me, as it seems to be for you. I don't know about going all the way if you don't want to, all guys CAN wait, but some don't want to put the effort into it. If he loves you, he'll wait for you. But as for the whole guy on girl action, if you want to try it you might be pleasantly surprised :) Hope this helps!

  • I also prefer to give then recieve :)

  • It's easy to get caught up and overwhelmed by your sex drive. So he as a regular person can wait for marriage, but him as the guy with the massive erection fooling around with his naked girlfriend is going to have much less control.

    As for going down on girls, yeah I enjoy it as long as the girl enjoys it. In my experience most girls prefer being fingered because you can stimulate much more that way, and it's hard to be precise with your tongue!

  • Take care of the Object Of My Affection with grooming and hygiene of course. A little swishing in the bath (use lightly perfumed oil) will be fine.

    The answer is yes, and if you and your boyfriend become skilled (the motivation is certainly there) you can have a wonderfully erotic relationship while reserving intercourse to accompany a gold band.

    I will tell my own daughter when it is time that intercourse should be reserved and the rest (be discreet) is Young Love.

  • love it...YES! that's the best thing ever ;)

  • yup I do

  • I think going down on a girl is disappointing because female anatomy just isn't prominent enough.

  • We really do, it doesn't taste like anything in special and making you horny and squeel makes us extremely horny. Period.

  • Yes. I love it.

  • Yes, I love going down on girls. I get really turned on by it and do it almost every time I'm with my girlfriend. The smell and taste of a girl's p**** is great.

  • its really hot for any guy to see that his girl is getting hot because of him...so yea lots of guys like to go down on the girl...and if he satisfies you orally...there will be less pressure on him while having sex afterwards...

  • I love going down

  • some do, some dont

    can't just generalize yo

  • I loveeeeeee going down on girls. It's awesome. Since all girls are diffferent down there. Hairy or shaved, innie or outie.. all taste different. It's awesome.

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