have you tried taking top to get started? I don't know what the issue could be, but 'coaxing' usually works for anal, where you basically just rub the tip on it until it opens. Something like that might work for vaginal as well, if getting it in is proving problematic. If not, you could have him go down on you until you are sufficiently wet and tell him to try to 'just ram it in.' I have no clue as to whether or not that's a good idea, but I suspect IF there is any orifice for which it's not a bad idea, it would be vaginal sex.
Boo. I'd give your boy some tips to wet you up, if I got the chance.
I’ve had the same problem. Nobody can get it in except for the one I gave my virginity to because he actually takes his time to get me wet and comfortable + I’m overrall comfortable with him as a whole. That’s probably the same thing with you. You’re going to be tight and it’s going to take work to get it in. It’s not necessarily a YOU problem... it’s the dudes
Meh, screw sexual intercourse. There's other things you can do. Oral sex for instance. Oral sex is way better! The clitoris is where all the action is. Do like I did, find yourself a guy who likes giving and receiving oral sex and doesn't require sexual intercourse and you'll both be as happy together as we are. :)
Your pelvic floor muscle is top tight. Go see your ob/gyn. They can help though it'll take some time. Or go online and look at vaginal dilators. It works but you gotta be persistent and patient. But really go see a Dr to be sure you don't have an issue that's causing this other than the pfm.
Is a woman able to change that on her own?
It's probably something called vaginismus, which is a condition where the vaginal muscles spasm and squeeze shut basically. I'd suggest looking it up and seeing how your symptoms match. There are treatments for it, including professional help and at-home therapies.
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Try saying "open sesame".
I highly suggest going to your doctor or gynecologist, instead of getting opinions about something so biologically significant on here.
seriously tho, maybe your just not turned on or maybe he's not hard enuff no?
How bout fingering?
Ream yourself out several times with a big dildo. Get your snatch used to it.
Tight is good. Make the guy get you really qet and relaxed
go to doctor.
Tell the guy he is going to have to take his time and use lots of lube like KY
I would skip the pussy try your ass
good thought pal.
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