I just bought a dildo?

Ok. So I just bought a dildo. My boyfriend has told me it's fine and that there was nothing wrong with getting one. He in fact, encouraged me. I still feel embarrassed that I bought one. Should I feel this way? My libido is high because I'm almost 6 months pregnant and he doesn't want to have sex all the time. Which I get. I just can't get this embarrassed feeling to go away. I've never owned a dildo
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Most Helpful Guys

  • First off congratulations! Secondly is he older? I find it a little strange for someone in that age range not to be open to having sex as much as you'd like.
    Don't be embarrassed about it! They still make them because they sell a shot ton of them. There's nothing wrong with pleasuring yourself! Just think of it as an upgrading from using your fingers.
    Any way I hope all goes well congrats again on conceiving! 😊

    • My husband was 32-33 when I was pregnant with our first and there were times when he had to say no because he was too tired. Guess it would all depend on the kind of work and the hours that he does.

    • He's 29. I'm 24. He just doesn't have a high sex drive I guess. He works hard, so by the time he's home he's tired. He does concrete.

    • Oh I see. I don't have that problem. My job isn't quite as labor intensive as laying concrete, but I do work in the heat for 10 hours a day, go to the gym after work, and then go to jiu-jitsu 3 days a week. I always have plenty of energy. Maybe he should start lifting it might boost his energy after he gets use to it.

  • Exploring your sexuality is great. You and your lover should explore and grow together but you should know what makes you happy so you can share it.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I think your sex strive is at an all time high because your hormones are all over the place and girls, just like boys need pleaser and since your husband won't lay down the pipe, having a dildo and pleasuring yourself is fine there is nothing wrong with it. It will be a big stress reliever and you will feel much better I say YOU GO GIRL! and congratulations on your new little bundle of joy

  • Nothing wrong with that! If you were getting sex from random men you would feel bad but this is 100% alright :)

    • @Chanel1981 Do you also own a dildo? :D

    • @Gramer that's not really anyone's business but my point is, she has nothing to be ashamed of!

    • @Chanel1981 Of course but like if you are stating that it is likely that you probably have one dildo right?

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  • I'm not too sure if using toys during pregnancy is safe.
    stay away from the vibrator for now.

    • apparently it's okay just make sure that they are super clean before each use.

  • Nothing to be embarrasssed about at all. Plenty of women enjoy them, it's perfectly normal.

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  • You'll get over it. Next time you two are together, ask him to take over the controls and operate it for you.

  • may i ask you what width the dildo is? Can you like measure it or look it up online just wondering

    • Starts off as 1" widens out to 1.5"

    • isn't that too small in wideness? my dick is 1.8 wide

    • Everyone knows size doesn't matter lol

  • if he's not available always, then no worries, it's way better than cheating !
    you're a keeper for choosing that I salute you ;)

  • I'm not sure how to make this feeling go away but I think its totally fine what you're doing. I also don't believe a high libido is any thing to be embarrassed about. Hope you feel better!

  • Dildo is normal. Enjoy. Will take away some stress.😊❤️

  • Don't forget batteries

  • They sell them by the bazillions. What's YOUR hangup? :)

  • You'll probably feel more comfortable after using it together, it removes some of the embarrassment (in my experience)

  • Don't worry about it. He's all for it, that is great.

  • Well done... it's good that he's not insecure that you bought one...

  • Why am I on this size of GaG again...

  • Um wow I was interested until you said you were pregnant.

    • Nothing wrong with being pregnant 😉 in fact, sex is better when you're pregnant, even for him.

    • uh... right.

  • Stick it up your ass biach

  • Yeah

  • you shouldn't be though
    if your boyfriend is any kinky he'll even use it on you too when you do it. it'll be lots of fun

  • Nothing wrong with it. U need to be fucked by something stiff. Since he doesn't want to fuck u

  • I think its normal. Enjoy it

  • Interesting

  • use it girl. if i was a girl i'd have lots of toys

  • Yeah you should. I would be embarrassed too

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