Should I get a boob lift?

[Anonymous]

So...I'm 20 and I have saggy breasts. wtf dude? My boobs are not only huge (DD) but also my nipples point downward. it's like so annoying. I'm not supposed to have probs like this until I'm 60! I feel incredibly cheated by mother nature. screw you genetics and thanks for the crappy t*ts. now, my question is what do you think I should do? I'm bi and I'm kind of worried about what guys and girls will think if I let them see my boobs. this is pretty much what has kept me from going braless in the bedroom. or having the lights on sometimes. its just discouraging and generally sad. lol any advice? should I spend thousands of dollars on a breast lift and deal with the unsightly scars or learn to deal with these disasters on my chest (and how the hell do I learn to love them)? I'm also a bit chubby. would losing weight make them be un-saggy? lol somehow I doubt that. I feel so sh*tty being one of those girls who lets the pressure from society get me to hating my body but I just can't help it. its not fair. :(

[AnonymouslyKnown]

You had me cracking up a bit while reading your question.

Anyway, from my point of view, I know that I've never turned down sex because the woman didn't meet my unreal expectations. In fact, I can't imagine that kind of scenario where I'd be into it one minute, then when I see her breasts I suddenly lose all interest because the woman's nipples happen to be at a slightly greater angle than I was used to seeing.

Honestly, you're worrying over nothing in terms of male opinion. We aren't going to suddenly fine a woman's chest unattractive because of such a minor imperfection (if it could even be called an imperfection in the first place.)

I can't speak for the ladies out there, but judging by the number of attractive women I see with men don't nearly measure up in the looks department, I'd say it's a relatively minor issue with them as well.

Anyway, be proud of yourself. I'd say mother nature gave you a gift or two (Ha! I made a funny! Or not...)

[Anonymous]

i would lose a little bit of weight if I were you, just to see if it would affect your breasts. If things turn out better, then great! if not, then it's your choice on whether or not you want to get the lift. If your having s** with someone that really truly cares about you, he won't mind. But if it's affecting you and holding you back, then it's something worth thinking about.

[Simple-Simonette]

I hear you sister. Society dictating how you should feel about yourself sucks.

As a b-cup, formerly a c-cup - I feel your booby unhappiness pain. But in all of my adult years, I have never met a man or woman who was turned off by a minor flaw. And in my opinion, if I ever met a person who walked away because I didn't fit his stereotype Playboy bunny look naked - I wouldn't want to be with them anyway.

Don't let your big boobs overshadow everything about you (haha - get it?). Seriously, your boobs are not YOU and they will not make or break a serious relationship unless the OTHER person has a serious character flaw.

Don't be sad; I'm sure you are beautiful. I'm more than sure your breasts are beautiful. There are women like me who eye your glorious girls with envy - not matter how they look naked. Enjoy your assets because in my eyes Mother nature has blessed you by making you beautiful representation of femininity.

Good luck.