I am constantly aroused... what should I do?

I don't want to sound like a nymphomaniac and trust me - I definitely not one, but this problem has been bothering me for a while now.
I already had it before, but it wasn't THIS bad, I don't know where exactly to start, since it's a little bit embarrassing, but... it's just I'm CONSTANTLY aroused, like always, I can't help it, it's actually getting painful. After awkward unwanted orgasm in the train, I started going to school much earlier so I won't have to ride the train ever again. I'm scared it'll get even worse (if that's even possible)
I'm 17 and I'm still a virgin, but I do have a boyfriend and I don't even how to tell him... I didn't even tell my mum and I really don't know what to do anymore.
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  • If you constantly find the need to 'relieve your tension' I'd def encourage you to get some toys. You certainly don't want to take this period of your life and use it as an excuse to make mistakes with men that you may regret later in life. I've heard of women, and men, going through intense sexual arousal periods where you can have unwanted orgasms during the day. If your parents are sexually open people, considering discussing this with them, I wouldn't be too quick to tell your boyfriend at this age. This may be something you could benefit from seeing a doctor about too.

  • There is an actual verified diagnosis. Perpetual Arousal is a medically diagnosed issue. There is no medicinal treatment. There is therapy, including hypnosis. If you’re serious, it’s no laughing matter. I actually studied this back in my college days. It is no joking matter.

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  • If it is a medical issue it will. Persist over your 20 years of age. So my recommendation is masturbate with toys or with out as often as you feel like it; but the caviat is to. Not watch porn of it, just take some you time with no extra stimulus around it.

  • maybe you are a younger female version of me. do you masturbate a lot?

  • It depends. Your mind is working on you and you are trying to suppress it. Your mind want u to be sexual active and your heart don't want to. So if u need more advise u can pm me.

  • You may have an uncommon but recognized sexual problem that goes under several names, one of which is Persistent Arousal Syndrome. It is believed to be physiological in nature, and can be treated. See a gynecologist as soon as you can. This problem can ruin your life and your sex life if left untreated.

  • watch cartoons!
    this might help keeping those dirty thoughts coming again n again

  • And why god invented dildos.

    Seriously, it will pass with your cycle. You may have a high T-count so you could have that checked. Otherwise, it will pass as you get a little older as well. It's all hormones.

    Oh, and no porn - if you're looking at online porn all the time this can be expected.

    Tell your boyfriend? Uh, no. If you're not having sex then this is a big mistake. And your 'mum'? Really? Sure, spill the beans. LOL

  • Having urges like this are a normal part of growing up.
    You can try occupying your time with other activities.
    You can masturbate, also.

  • I believe its a mental phase. Just masturbate often and get sex toys to keep it in control and end up doing something stupid.

  • see a doctor, you can get medication for this

  • Masturbate?

  • Its a medical issue there was this lady that had orgasm constantly every minute
    Therapy and medication could help you

  • you need cock, dont control your desire too much.

  • Are you having orgasms without touching yourself?

  • keep your mind busy with other things

  • I am the same. I just learned to live with it.

  • Well. Take care of it. That would help more than asking strangers online