Im a girl should I kiss my bestfriend that's a girl

[Anonymous]

well I'm confused[with my sexuality] and I have a best friend who is great willing to help me out so should I take her up on that advice and kiss her?or will things be weird after the kiss?

[ilovelegs]

You said in one of your comments that she has the same feelings as you do, that she's starting to question her sexuality. If she's willing to help I don't see why you'd hesitate to not accept it, especially since that would be helping her too. Why should you feel weird kissing her since I see girls kissing each other all the time. But like a couple girls already said here, girls kiss a lot so just do it and if it goes good then kiss some more. No harm done. Let it lead to wherever it goes. If either of you aren't especially excited after your first kiss and kind of laugh about it, then just laugh if off and say like thanks, but it was fun anyway, wasn't it? lol! No need for anything between you two to be weird after that. Besides she offered to help you.

[chance515]

Do what you want to do.

I mean it wouldn't be that bad especially since girls are really close to their friends.

I have 2 friends who are girls and shower together but they're straight.

[TINKERBELL-13]

I kissed my best friend who is also a girl a couple years back and we are still real close. It was a "dare" made by two of our horny best guy friends and we both ended up liking it.We just made jokes about it and it wasn't awkward at all.She's bisexual and I'm straight. There's nothing wrong with trying new things =]

[xxxmegan]

If you think it's going to be weird,then you're probably right.If you're really confused,just talk with your friend about it, and work on trying to date another girl,if that doesn't work out or you don't like it,then you'll know.Good luck : ]

[Asker]

Yeah it probably will be weird you are right but...its like we both want it because in a way we are both confused about our sexuality and she is somewhat scared to be bi I don't know why do you know what is could be?

[xxxmegan]

I just think that you're both playing with your feelings if you just kiss to make sure you're bi...You should kiss someone if you like them,not just for confirmation...But if you like her and she likes you,then kiss...Just know why you're kissing,it'll save you both from getting hurt

[Asker]

Oh ok well that's good thanks yah she has a boyfriend and I like her even though I shouldn't because its my best friend or is that a problem??

[xxxmegan]

I will be the first person to tell you that it's really okay to like your best friend,girl or guy...And if you do decide to kiss her,keep in mind that in the long run it could hurt her relationship with her boyfriend and/or make her feel guilty,which could hurt her pretty badly...But you're her friend to help her through...Again, kissing can either end good or bad...And finally, get consent,and a mutual agreement always helps...

[Asker]

Yeah me and her talk about all the ups and downs about this stuff and what not about the kiss and how she is cool with it she says how she is helping me out because yes I do not have that much kissing experience and its for the experience and me liking her

[xxxmegan]

Okay,now that we've established that you want to kiss her because you like her (that should be the only reason,but that's okay) now you have to figure out her reason for kissing you...You may like her,but if she doesn't like you like that,and you kiss, you're going to get hurt...I don't think you want to kiss her while knowing she doesn't feel the same...Keep in mind I am just a third party,so you don't have to listen to me

[Asker]

Yeah see idk what she feels for me because she isn't all that willing to tell me as if I am gonna judge her if she says that she thinks she might be bi im cool with that I'm not going to judge her or anything that would be crazy

[xxxmegan]

Woah woah woah,hold on, did she specifically tell you that she's confused?Because like my friend thought I was,and that didn't go well,lets just say that...

[Asker]

How did it all go wrong with your friend??? and well ummm she did she tells me like everyday

[xxxmegan]

Eh,sorry to get you worked up about that...lol...Um,basically she was in the same position as you are,but she only assumed I was confused because apparently I give off those kind of vibes,and she well,kissed, it was odd,but we're still friends...But anyways,I asked because I don't want you to assume that kind of thing... Just tell her how you're feeling about kissing,and feelings about it...

[amber10-79]

That's up to the both of you if it's 'weird' after you kiss. If you just don't let it become a huge deal, then it'll be fine. It helps if you make jokes, and turn it into something humorous, as opposed to something awkward.

[ApocalypseAO]

i think its totally normal for chicks to kiss. it won't be weird. and if it is, its gonna be weird just for a while. I say go for it

[jb2030]

I dnt think it would be weird. But it will make you a little confuse about ur sexuality if you lik it... but if ya both really want to go ahead