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Do guys pay more attention to boobs or butt in bed?

i know that when I'm walking in the streets I get 99% of the comments on my butt. and that's what they usually grab too. (no guy has ever grabbed my boobs. which sucks because IMO its not as disrespectful as the butt and I bet that would at least feel good:)) so yea... question 1: as a girl, would you be more offended if a stranger grabbed your butt or boobs? and 2 (I'm a virgin): during sex do guys usually touch your butt or boobs more often? p.s. I'd be p*ssed if it were the butt ;P but you can still feel free to give me the truth :)
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  • Wow... I kinda disagree. I'm not saying you're wrong, I'm just surprised!

    I'd find it more disrespectful if he grabbed my boobs. Because most guys go for the butt - it's easier because it's more in level with the hands, and they think they can get away with it, plus most guys do so it's nothing unusual. But if a guy goes for the boobs, it's right in your face where you can see it, so he's being bolder about it and probably trying to provoke more of a response. I also think it's more unusual so this is probably more of a player type. I dunno, I just think it'd be weirder.

    As for your actual questions though... seriously? A stranger? Hell no! Last time a stranger grabbed my butt I shoved him half a mile away lol. Not happening, wherever he touches. I don't know him, I didn't invite him to touch - he ain't gon touch!

    During sex, I'd say that depends on the position but definitely I get my ass paid more attention to. It's much bigger though... I'm 33-25-39. Hella curvy. My butt needs its own ID. My boobs, however... 32/C, not so huge. I'm not attractive to guys that like slim petite girls, because I'm only petite on the top half. So that leaves the guys that like curves, and my curves are down below. The boobs just get ignored. Makes them sad =[ I think if I was naturally the other way round (like 39-25-33 or something lol) the attention would get reversed too, probably my butt would get ignored and my boobs would get all the attention.

    I wish guys would share it out more equally! Gotta admit, I sorta also wish my curves were shared out more equally too...

    • I know what you mean. my butt is huge compared to my boobs too. but hell, if he never payed attention to my boobs I'd show him once or twice where to put his hands. if he still doesn't get it I'd be so annoyed lol and I'd definitely move on as for the stranger touching it part, I hate that too! but I kinda got used to it. in the beginning I used to jump and scream at every guy but now I only turn around give him a bad look and turn back again

    • 32 C is a great size not trying to make you feel better but its true

    • That's meant to say 32B/C, typo lol. Thanks but they just look so small compared to the rest of me! Ha yeah my guy's a boob guy, says he's been converted but whatever, I know he'd be all over those girls if they were actually as big as I want them to be haha. Sigh. He doesn't ignore them completely but they could definitely do with a little more lovin.

  • I'd be more offended if he grabbed my boobs. I think its cos my butt tends to get the most attention so it doesn't phase me. And boobs are closer to your face so it feels more threatening, like a closer invasion of your personal space.

    In bed, theguy usually keeps his hands on my ass almost permanently. I take it as a compliment.

  • I'm a girl,I get more compliments on my breasts and more creepy stares from old guys towards my breasts.

    I had a guy friend grab my boob once and I just stood there in shock and he held my boob for like a minute and I just looked at him like he was stupid and he walked away.lol.I do find the butt more disrespectful too.

    • Haha you rock! :) i'd almost enjoy it if a stranger did that. but I totally freak if a hand gets only near the butt area lol

Most Helpful Guys

  • Look... ...you really really analyze waay too much. Let me assure you that your boobs and butt will get adequate attention lol . I mean seriously.. what man wouldn't want to hold , play with, suck on boobs? ! and what man doesn't want to grab a nice round firm girls butt?! over all you seem that you are secure in both places. so why worry ? and do you really want guys to grope you onthe street ? ! I wouldn't say tha good guys want to know that their girl love bieng groped by random street dudes...

    If you are insecure about year boobs .. with good sucking they will grow... they just need some concentrated attention lol

    • No! I HATE it when strangers do that. ahaha no boobs definitely won't grow from that ;P and I'm not insecure about my boobs. they're not big, but OK. my butt just always gets more attention that's why I was wondering...

  • Even though I'm not supposed to answer question 1, I will anyway (I'm just like that). There is no way in the world that I would "grab" a strange woman's butt or boobs! Not only is it a crime (sexual battery) - it is rude.

    As for question 2... During sex, I take in everything. I like it when a girl is on top and I look her in her eyes... deeply... all the way down to her soul. We kiss, and since her boobs are right THERE, they get a lot of attention, from my hands, mouth...

    OK; better stop.

    You get the idea.

    Dan

    • #1 how about you tell those rude idiots about that? #2 looks like I'd love being on top :) thanks for answering!

    • Oh yes, you would like being on top! You are in "control" because you get it as hard and fast as you want and can move a bit to get it in just the right place. You can even be evil and lift up to stop the action if you want.

    • Ahaha that sounds just like me :P

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  • In the bedroom ... I like both on a female honestly, but it would all depend on the position in the bedroom honestly.

    I mean that is why I like the girl on top sometimes cause then I can play with both =) Hands on one and mouth on the other.

    • Sounds like a plan :P haha

    • Lol :-P

  • I gotta agree with cyrus7, I love the entire thing. But I guess I'd have to say boobs are the more prominent plaything in bed. It all comes down to what the girl likes; I like to put the attention where she wants it.

    • That's cool ;P

    • I also agree with dan I am; I think it's rude to assume that you can just grab a girls' private areas without some kind of 'permission'. I personally like the girl laying in front of me, as in a spooning position; I can enter her vagina from behind and just let my hands go everywhere, including her 'love button'.. ; )

    • Love button?

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  • it depends on what looks better on the girl...the boobs or butt

    • Shit, then I'm sxrewed :(

  • I've never grabbed a girls butt during sex, only her boobs. I find it surprising you find it a bad thing if guys touch your butt during sex. There are a lot of girls out there with very nice butts you know... ;)

    • I wouldn't mind if they touchd my butt during sex. but I would get mad if they forgot about the boobs completely lol

  • you think waaaay to much... the guy that will be with you won't leave anything untouched lol.

    • Funny, you're not the first one to say that lol ("u think way too much")

    • But I still doubt that he'd touch everything. aren't most guys obsessed with one particular part of a female body? lol

    • I told you before I need to be a psychologist lol. No most guys are not obsessed witha specific body part. It depends on the position and on the day.. some days the boob gets attention .. some days its the butt.. if you do the same sex every day its gonna be borning.. you gotta vary the positions and get the gy longing for the things he didn't get to do this time .

  • It really depends on whether he's a boob guy or a butt guy...Myself I'm a boob guy through and through other guys like the butts... But hey to each their own

  • i love her whole body, from her head to the toes

  • titties...love them

  • Lol sorry to dissappoint you but for me at least I would pay attention to the butt. I think its different with everyguy, his personal preference

    • That sucks because I'd never attract a boobs man lol most guys I know like my butt not boobs :((

    • QA - I feel your pain!

  • Vagina.

    • Yea but you can't have your hands AND everything down there, right?

    • Don't challenge him... ;)

    • To Thiezz: Challenge conventions!

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