What makes large penises attractive to girls and what's so bad about smaller ones?

[Anonymous]

Granted I myself am not very well equipped, unless you consider 4 inches long and 4 inches in girth as well equipped, I don't understand what's so great about big penises and why girls seem so attracted to them. Do big penises actually feel better than smaller ones or is it just a visual stimulation to them? Do you think guys with smaller ones are less of a guy than guys with big ones? Are small ones less attractive? Would you leave a guy you like just because he's not packed? I exactly can't pick out the size I get. I don't understand why girls seem to freely make fun of guys with small penises without any remorse. I just sorta wish that they'd be a bit more accepting of the fact that I'm not exactly a horse. ._. It's hurtful when you're basically saying I'm not good enough for you because my penis isn't big enough! Ugh! What can I do to make myself just as wanted to girls, sexually, without having a big penis?

[sa230e]

I really think penises are really about as important to girls as breasts are to us. Yeah, I admit I could have some fun with a pair of D cup boobs, but I could also fall hard for a pretty, but flat chested woman. Sure, she's lacking in that department but if there's other qualities about her that attract me, I could easily forget all about the breast thing and be 100% sexually satisfied with her.

Sure, size matters, but people tend to attribute more weight to the issue than it merits. When it comes to visual attraction, there are many other factors that have much larger impact than penis or breast size. The choice of whether to date or not date someone is probably almost never determined by how well endowed that person is.

Instead of counting inches, why not count your blessings? It's better to be a handsome man with a 4 inch penis than an ugly guy with an 8 inch penis. Maybe you're an appealing guy but you don't realize it because you're better qualities aren't in your pants.

By the way, when you say four inches are you measuring flaccid or erect? Don't even bother worrying about your size when you're soft. If you're in a sexual situation with a girl, she's going to see your erect penis, not your flaccid size. Girls don't care whether you're a shower or a grower.

[aadenyl]

Why is it every hour there's a question that's like "why don't you like small penises?". Your problem is not your equipment bro, it's this "ugh! what can I do to make myself just wanted to girls, sexually, without having a big penis?" attitude. What about what you want? Man I want a girl like Oprah, who can buy me an airplane every day for a year, but the other 3 billion women on this earth can't compete. That doesn't mean I'm not interested. Just because you aren't hung to the point where you have back problems doesn't mean someone won't accept you for being you. Man up and get over it.

365 planes would be pretty sweet though...

[Miss_All_Time_Low]

I CANNOT understand why guys worry about the size of their member.

If a girl truly loves you, she'll never leave you just because of the size of your penis. Come on ... how shallow is that? In fact, bigger ones seem to be more problematic and can make intercourse painful from what I heard, so no ... I don't understand why any girl would care.

Those that do are like guys looking for a revealingly-dressed, big-breasted women for a one night stand. Those that love you for WHO you are will not be bothered, I promise. They'll like you just the way you are.

And I've never heard of a "too small penis". I think guys worry too much about this. To the majority of girls I know, particularly respectable ones, this is the last thing on their mind.

To answer your last question. :) You can be confident, make sure both of you are pleasured in bed and perhaps work out so you stay in shape. That is it.

[Annon1]

"Do big penises actually feel better than smaller ones or is it just a visual stimulation to them?"

Length doesn't make much of a difference, I've mentioned this in a few other answers today but girls are numb after 3", you've got more than enough. Width is more important, and I haven't ever seen a penis that looked 'too thin'

"Do you think guys with smaller ones are less of a guy than guys with big ones?"

Nope, for me that's all personality and how they carry themselves. A penis won't change that.

"Are small ones less attractive?"

Again no, I was longterm with a guy who's smaller than you and I really liked his ;)

"Would you leave a guy you like just because he's not packed?"

I think my last answer covers this one too.

[FitNix92]

I think we find it funny because guys are so obsessed with it.

The size of a guys penis doesn't matter, its who its attached to that turns me on. My ex boyfriend had a really huge one and the sex was great, and my current boyfriends is fairly small and quite thin but I love the way that feels too.

[Samisrad]

Big penises are not attractive. Lol.

Case closed!

[peace-love-couture]

Why are guys so picky about breasts?You think it's not hurtful when guys make nasty comments about girls bodies?

[torken]

Yea, but we've been doing it for longer so its OK ;P

[peace-love-couture]

You're a f'ing moron.Then don't complain when girls want big d***s.Not my problem if yours is small

[cyrus7]

Hey at least you CAN make your breasts bigger, there's no real way to make a penis bigger. Also, from what I've seen in real life and online, guys are more accepting of small boobs than girls are of small penis.

[peace-love-couture]

Nice excuse.of course you would defend guys belittling girls bodies.

[cyrus7]

Go outside once in a while, guys aren't THAT picky about breasts

[peace-love-couture]

I do go outside.I have plenty of male and female friends,I see what guys say on this site.Guys are picky

[cyrus7]

K well I'm not getting into this with you again but you are butt f***ing stubborn as sh*t

[peace-love-couture]

I am stubborn,so are you.At least I can admit girls and guys are picky,guys are just pickier

[cyrus7]

No, some guys are picky about something girls can change (not that they should) but some girls are picky about something guys CANT change, see the difference ? no that hard really...

[peace-love-couture]

Oh so I see,now girls should get plastic surgery right?The fact that girls can get plastic surgery means it's perfectly fine for guys to be picky right?Now I get your double standards!I can not wait to go out and get plastic surgery.

[cyrus7]

Are you not reading ? or just blind ? "girls can change (not that they should)" You'll make one fine feminist

[peace-love-couture]

Nahh,I'm no feminists.I just think it's funny that of course,you would defend guys being picky yet girls are supposed to accept all of the male faults

[DieselTech]

Evangelina, it doesn't help that all you are is a biased feminist who adds useless comments all the time. Comment on the f***ing topic, and if you don't like it, ignore it.

[peace-love-couture]

If you don't like my answer,don't comment moron

[peace-love-couture]

And I'm not a feminist,you're just a moron

[Asker]

Woah nelly there I didn't really expect a flame war. To be honest, I don't give a flying f*** about what size a girl's breasts are. Why are you trying to justify that girls being shallow is okay? Guys being shallow isn't really okay either, not everyone's like that, for your royal information. My ex and her girl friends consistently tease me about having a small d*** and none of them stop about it about it so don't tell me about how either gender has it better/worse.

[Asker]

I did not, will not, and have never cared about the size of whatever she had yet she feels the need to belittle me on the sole fact that my d*** isn't p*rn industry standard. So take that as you will.

[peace-love-couture]

Well when these guys stop trying to justify guys being shallow,I'll stop

[Asker]

Well why are you trying to justify girls being shallow? :P There's no reason to justify either side.

[peace-love-couture]

But I assume it's OK for a guy to justify being shallow. whatever

[Asker]

No it's not OK. You could read what I said first. I said there's NO REASON to justify EITHER gender for being shallow because there's nothing to justify. It's generally not a very nice thing in the first place for either gender. I'm not trying to justify guys being shallow nor vice versa.

[peace-love-couture]

Uh ok.whatever

[sataniclove]

I happen to care very little for breast size, just like most of my male friends. But I can say the same for most of my female friends when it comes to shaft length. I think your trying to make men seem worse then they really are but that's hypothetical. I'm not defending either side all I'm saying is that both sides are guilty of doing it, maybe one side more so than the other; but that doesn't give any of us the right to justify discrimination of any sort between one another. That being said, why do you seem to have such a grudge against men?

[drummerdude27]

i didn't know penises were attractive. I have never heard wow you have pretty penis. work with what you got bro and you'll find a girl. look at it this way, at least you aren't like gi joe down there and have something.

[LilPinkGirl]

Attractive doesn't have to mean pretty...it can also mean the guy has a hot looking d***

[drummerdude27]

Once again d***s look hot? I always thought they looked weird. maybe it's because I'm streight but I don't see anything that could be attractive with a d***

[Annon1]

I think they look hot, I guess you have to want them to see it that way :P

[Vickymoore9]

Visually it pretty obviously going to make your heart rate race more seeing a thick meaty cock. The whole size debate is so very debatable because it differs for each girl. I personally never had an opinion till I experience a cock that I considered big. I had been with a guy who was over 9” long before with average or what I call normal girth about 5” around. I did like the feeling of depth but it wasn’t a overwhelming difference sexually compared to a guy around 6 1/2” long. I guess I’m very deep because my girlfriend who also had sex with the same guy said he was to long. I later had sex with who would become my oldest daughter daddy. His cock literally challenged me as his cock is what I consider big it’s very meaty. That’s the best way to describe his cock as it nearly the girth of a can of beer and 8 1/2” long. Hands down the most intense sex as it’s so thick his cocks stimulates nerve ending and zones no other cocks ever touched. Like I said in the end it’s going to change from girl to girl what they like. the man attacked is much more important to me I’ve had amazing sex with 6” long 5” thick around average Joe cocks!

[becreative321456987]

5” thick is not average. That’s big

[bayjell65432]

honestly anything more than about 5inches long actually damages the female, I'm not an expert but a friend of mine is, and she told me that anything more doesn't necessarily hurt physically like pain, but damages her organs and over time makes it very difficult if not impossible to have children naturally, also second thing, I'm not very confident at all either, I'm about 4.5in or so, and like 2in wide fully errect, but still my fiancee strongly insists that I am more than enough for her and that she doesn't want me any bigger or id hurt her, you just have to find that one girl/woman that will love you for you, not for your sexuality, if a girl or woman truly loves you, the body won't matter, youl please her anyway

i hope all that makes sense

[Hannahpyromaniac]

Eh, bigger penises feel better. But d***s in general are ugly as Hell. If Hell had a d***.

Uh... what was I saying again?

Oh, yeah. Well, whatever. Hmm, that wasn't very helpful, was it? No, not really. Eh. I'll tell you though, get REALLY good at oral, and it'll make up for it, easily. You don't need to be a stallion to please a woman in bed. Just find other ways.

[JHAYES317]

@hannahpyromaniac so you’re saying guys with small dicks have to try harder than guys with big dicks? That’s messed up

[Anonymous]

It's not the look they like, they're not "attracted" to bigger penises visually. It's because larger penises tend to be more satisfying (though that is more about girth than length)

[Anonymous]

Don't worry man. Unfortunately girls today are much much more shallow than they were in past times. You need to have a 6"+ penis, 6pack abs, drive a BMW and have a good social status to keep any girl around for an adequate period of time. Social networking and the media have pretty much ingrained in the younger generations that this is what you need to look for in a guy. It's sad. Be confident with what you have and just use it to the best of your ability.

[peace-love-couture]

LMAO.And guys aren't shallow?are you kidding me

[chiefnavarro]

I blame feminism

[Opinion Owner]

I would kill for a girl with a pretty face and an amazing personality. All the rest can be worked on, but personality and a pretty face take the cake.

[peace-love-couture]

Lmao.Sure.The stereotypical line.Guys do expect perfection out of girls.Like the moron who commented on my answer,you all seem to think it's OK to expect perfection out of girls when half of you are nasty fat ass slobs with small d***s

[Opinion Owner]

Um, again I don't expect perfection. Chill. Jesus.

[peace-love-couture]

And you make up about 1% of the male population.So it's OK for you to make girls out to be so shallow,but when I speak the truth and say guys don't go for anything other than looks and expect eye candy you throw a fit?uh ok.

[cyrus7]

God Evangelina srsly wtf is wrong with you ? why all the hate ? you haven't even had any major relationships and already a prude

[peace-love-couture]

Look at what the answerer put.Girls are extremely shallow,expecting big d***s,BMW's lmao.I say one thing and you're of course,like a guy,flipping out