What makes large penises attractive to girls and what's so bad about smaller ones?

[sa230e]

I really think penises are really about as important to girls as breasts are to us. Yeah, I admit I could have some fun with a pair of D cup boobs, but I could also fall hard for a pretty, but flat chested woman. Sure, she's lacking in that department but if there's other qualities about her that attract me, I could easily forget all about the breast thing and be 100% sexually satisfied with her.

Sure, size matters, but people tend to attribute more weight to the issue than it merits. When it comes to visual attraction, there are many other factors that have much larger impact than penis or breast size. The choice of whether to date or not date someone is probably almost never determined by how well endowed that person is.

Instead of counting inches, why not count your blessings? It's better to be a handsome man with a 4 inch penis than an ugly guy with an 8 inch penis. Maybe you're an appealing guy but you don't realize it because you're better qualities aren't in your pants.

By the way, when you say four inches are you measuring flaccid or erect? Don't even bother worrying about your size when you're soft. If you're in a sexual situation with a girl, she's going to see your erect penis, not your flaccid size. Girls don't care whether you're a shower or a grower.

[aadenyl]

Why is it every hour there's a question that's like "why don't you like small penises?". Your problem is not your equipment bro, it's this "ugh! what can I do to make myself just wanted to girls, sexually, without having a big penis?" attitude. What about what you want? Man I want a girl like Oprah, who can buy me an airplane every day for a year, but the other 3 billion women on this earth can't compete. That doesn't mean I'm not interested. Just because you aren't hung to the point where you have back problems doesn't mean someone won't accept you for being you. Man up and get over it.

365 planes would be pretty sweet though...

[Miss_All_Time_Low]

I CANNOT understand why guys worry about the size of their member.

If a girl truly loves you, she'll never leave you just because of the size of your penis. Come on ... how shallow is that? In fact, bigger ones seem to be more problematic and can make intercourse painful from what I heard, so no ... I don't understand why any girl would care.

Those that do are like guys looking for a revealingly-dressed, big-breasted women for a one night stand. Those that love you for WHO you are will not be bothered, I promise. They'll like you just the way you are.

And I've never heard of a "too small penis". I think guys worry too much about this. To the majority of girls I know, particularly respectable ones, this is the last thing on their mind.

To answer your last question. :) You can be confident, make sure both of you are pleasured in bed and perhaps work out so you stay in shape. That is it.

[Annon1]

"Do big penises actually feel better than smaller ones or is it just a visual stimulation to them?"

Length doesn't make much of a difference, I've mentioned this in a few other answers today but girls are numb after 3", you've got more than enough. Width is more important, and I haven't ever seen a penis that looked 'too thin'

"Do you think guys with smaller ones are less of a guy than guys with big ones?"

Nope, for me that's all personality and how they carry themselves. A penis won't change that.

"Are small ones less attractive?"

Again no, I was longterm with a guy who's smaller than you and I really liked his ;)

"Would you leave a guy you like just because he's not packed?"

I think my last answer covers this one too.

[FitNix92]

I think we find it funny because guys are so obsessed with it.

The size of a guys penis doesn't matter, its who its attached to that turns me on. My ex boyfriend had a really huge one and the sex was great, and my current boyfriends is fairly small and quite thin but I love the way that feels too.

[Vickymoore9]

Visually it pretty obviously going to make your heart rate race more seeing a thick meaty cock. The whole size debate is so very debatable because it differs for each girl. I personally never had an opinion till I experience a cock that I considered big. I had been with a guy who was over 9” long before with average or what I call normal girth about 5” around. I did like the feeling of depth but it wasn’t a overwhelming difference sexually compared to a guy around 6 1/2” long. I guess I’m very deep because my girlfriend who also had sex with the same guy said he was to long. I later had sex with who would become my oldest daughter daddy. His cock literally challenged me as his cock is what I consider big it’s very meaty. That’s the best way to describe his cock as it nearly the girth of a can of beer and 8 1/2” long. Hands down the most intense sex as it’s so thick his cocks stimulates nerve ending and zones no other cocks ever touched. Like I said in the end it’s going to change from girl to girl what they like. the man attacked is much more important to me I’ve had amazing sex with 6” long 5” thick around average Joe cocks!

[bayjell65432]

honestly anything more than about 5inches long actually damages the female, I'm not an expert but a friend of mine is, and she told me that anything more doesn't necessarily hurt physically like pain, but damages her organs and over time makes it very difficult if not impossible to have children naturally, also second thing, I'm not very confident at all either, I'm about 4.5in or so, and like 2in wide fully errect, but still my fiancee strongly insists that I am more than enough for her and that she doesn't want me any bigger or id hurt her, you just have to find that one girl/woman that will love you for you, not for your sexuality, if a girl or woman truly loves you, the body won't matter, youl please her anyway

i hope all that makes sense

[Anonymous]

Don't worry man. Unfortunately girls today are much much more shallow than they were in past times. You need to have a 6"+ penis, 6pack abs, drive a BMW and have a good social status to keep any girl around for an adequate period of time. Social networking and the media have pretty much ingrained in the younger generations that this is what you need to look for in a guy. It's sad. Be confident with what you have and just use it to the best of your ability.

[Hannahpyromaniac]

Eh, bigger penises feel better. But d***s in general are ugly as Hell. If Hell had a d***.

Uh... what was I saying again?

Oh, yeah. Well, whatever. Hmm, that wasn't very helpful, was it? No, not really. Eh. I'll tell you though, get REALLY good at oral, and it'll make up for it, easily. You don't need to be a stallion to please a woman in bed. Just find other ways.

[peace-love-couture]

Why are guys so picky about breasts?You think it's not hurtful when guys make nasty comments about girls bodies?

[drummerdude27]

i didn't know penises were attractive. I have never heard wow you have pretty penis. work with what you got bro and you'll find a girl. look at it this way, at least you aren't like gi joe down there and have something.

[Samisrad]

Big penises are not attractive. Lol.

Case closed!

[Anonymous]

It's not the look they like, they're not "attracted" to bigger penises visually. It's because larger penises tend to be more satisfying (though that is more about girth than length)