Why do you guys jack off instead of having sex with their g/f??

I have an issue with my b/f...he jacks off all the time and gets caught doing so. I personally don't mind the jacking off part, what bothers me the most is last night I asked him if he wanted to have some sex before bed, we didn't, but then I wake up this morning to him jacking off in the living room watching p*rn! What is up with this? This is not the first time this has happened. I have even clearly stated to him that if he is that horny, then come and wake me up...it's not like I don't give it to him. Can some guy please help me figure this out?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • girl u deserve better if ur wanting to have sex and he’s saying no just to go wack off instead he’s got big time problems i think that’s just weird for a person to do. take ur kids and ur dignity while u can he’s a loser and if he was a real man he would come to u but he’s a weirdo who likes to beat his dick off while ur in the room next to him that’s just plain weird. the guys who are saying it’s normal probably don’t have sex a lot so they don’t really understand i wish u the best in life and hopefully you’ve left him and found urself a real man who can take care of u ! ur worth it and deserve someone who wants u and only u don’t settle for less when u could have better i promise u you’ll feel better if u have a real man by your side. that wacking off shit is for little boys tell him grow up or get out i would leave him regardless but u have kids so i see ur issue. in my opinion that’s not love!!! i wanna say this one last time U DESERVE BETTER!!!

  • I've read somewhere that a guy can get so into p*rn and jacking to the women in them, that they would actually have a very hard time keeping interest up with a real girl. There was something else about a guy the way he handles his penis while jacking that when in a vagina his penis no longer would get the pressure necessary for the sensations that would get him off. It was an article I once saw about guys who use p*rn for sexual satisfaction all the time.

  • That’s an easy one - think about it!! - nothing is gonna replace one on one time with mr. Peen — especially when they can have peace and quiet and don’t have to deal with AALLLLL the baggage and drama, and shit that they do with their girlfriend

Most Helpful Guys

  • Your boyfriend is exhibiting atypical behavior. Guys with girlfriends don't normally jack off when ever they're horny in lieu of making love with their girlfriend. I suggest he's been watching p*rn so much he's lost touch with reality. He thinks what he's been watching is what you should be doing in bed and you're not. He doesn't realize what he's watching isn't reality.

  • nothing personal, its just what guys do, our biology isn't designed to have sex with just one girl even if out emotions and out mind want too our monkey brain still wants to jerk off, just be happy its with p*rn and not another girl

    • That's just bullsh*t. You may be an animal controlled by your pure basic instincts but the greater majority of guys are not savages enslaved by their penis. Her boyfriend has problems. She needs to find a better one who will pay attention to her.

    • It tends to end up feeling personal! when a woman blunty asks you for sex, you say no, but then jack off to some p*rn the next morning?? That's the kind of stuff I don't understand, which leads to it feeling personal...i guess like my body's not attractive enough. Even when I caught him in the act, his only defense was that I don't give him none.....he clearly asked him for sex last night and got turned down......so I guess, why would he rather jack off instead of coming to me??

    • Well there are exceptions, I guess cartifagilus doesn't have the same sex drive as some guys do, either that or he is full of sh*t or never been in a long term relationship before. Trust me, on most guys, at least the ones I know its the same deal, the guy is probably jerking off while your asleep too. As long as you are there to give it up to him when he does want it it's no problem

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  • Reason being a man jerking off. Only has 2 pleasure himself. When he has sex he then trying 2 pleasure his so and himself. That's why many guys had kickoff. Than have sex. Also some girls don't want 2 put no effort in 2 sex. They want the man 2 do all the work. One example is a man giving oral pleasure 2 a female. Then she doesn't want 2 return the favor. That's truly one of the main reason. Many men jacking off. Cause there so doesn't want 2 return the favor. They think they are 2 good. That's why women hate on a man jacking off. Cause he's give himself pleasure and not them.

  • have you asked him why ? and what was his answer ?

    • Everytime I catch him, he denies it...even when I clearly catch him with his hand on his d***! This morning it was that I don't give him none....which really just confused me, cause last night I told him I wanted to have some sex, and I got shot down!!!

    • And you really love him I suppose

    • Well ya I do! We've been together for almost 7 years and got 2 kids together. I don't think like a guy, but I guess in my head I would way rather have the actual feeling and satisfaction from something real. I'm just trying to better understand it all.

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  • well if your aslepp and he wacks it in the morning then he's tired at nigh and horny in the morning. he didn want to wake you. try waking up earlier

    • I have a baby I wake up with in the middle of the night....he happened to be awake to get ready for work. I have asked him to wake me in the morning if he's horny...i myself would find that quite a turn on to woken up for some morning sex......so can you answer why he is choosing to jack it then wake me like I've asked?

    • Maybe your lose from the baby

    • Wow! Pretty sure not when he can barely get it in cause I'm so tight.....if you're just gonna be a complete ass then stay the f*** off my ?'s

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  • Well I don't know... I jack off still and I'm 41 but I never turn my girlfriend down... I just have a high sex drive.. hell she likes to watch me jack off and of course she helps... maybe he just enjoys jacking off..
    And also could be insecure for some reason have u tried talking to him about why?

  • Believe it or not but we get tired of fucking you

  • Sometimes we wanna knock one out quick and efficiently. Not a big deal

  • cuz it feels great going at a perfect spend stroking all the way down.. Doing it now

  • because 90% of the time the girl wants foreplay and all that that's gonna last 10 mins... by the time you are finished with that, I can already have gone.

  • Try something totally new in bed... he could be just bored of the same casual sex... even girls get bored... it happens

    • We do though!! We have tried practically every single position that is possible! We do have 2 kids, so we don't go at it like we used to, but it's usually at least 2 or 3 x's a week. He clearyl gets it from me!