How offen do you make love?

[Jibby_jibb]

Hello everyone,
I'm new here , nice to meet you all😊
I'm married for 7 years, I have 2 girls and my body shape is still great and many people said i have a beautiful face, especially my lips but i have a lot of stretch marks 😂😂😂but I and husband don't make love so often. Usually once a month but sometimes 2-3months once 😂🤣😂 I'd like to do but my husband doesn't want to.

Girls, does your hubby is like mine?😆
and guys, is my husband normal? Is there anyone like him?😁

Sorry for my poor English,😂😂😂
Thank you😊

[WarmingSun]

Hey there. I think if you convince him to change his point of view about sex, it might work, for example, convincing him that making love is the stress medicine, that the same way u feel happy eating a delicious meal or coming home after work expecting a nice dinner it is for sex, a husband should come home after work expecting to have fun with his wife, to relieve stress by letting her give him her positive energy through making love and every aspect of your relaltionship.. It's all about how you see things and belief ! Hope it helps

[raven0011]

Im married for about 5 years now with 2 kids and i usually have sex about 1-2 times a week and im totally fine with that... with kids and work, everything is so busy now sex is just secondary to me with everything else going on. I guess my sex drive isn't what it used to be.

[Jibby_jibb]

2 times a week is still fine 👍

[phoenix001]

You need to do it more. I hear your wife is haaaut.

[Anonymous]

I've lived with my partner for almost 3 years now. We used to have sex every day before he got his new job. Now we have sex about 3 times a month, but if I'm lucky 6 times a month. Stress does a lot to a man's libido, so I don't force him into it.

[Jibby_jibb]

You're still lucky, in your case is still okay for me but mine is suck😂😂😂 we have many times quarrels just about this topic😑😑😑

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, I understand. I've had arguments with my guy as well. Especially since this has been going on for 1,5 years. I decided to keep a diary and start exercising more, to blow off steam. Otherwise I would just be mad and grumpy all the time, and that's not fair towards him, since he can not help it.

[Jibby_jibb]

I have many hobbies to do and i go to the gym 4 times a week. I stopped asking him but still wondering why? That's why i asked here ☺

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, I understand. It happens a lot more often than you might think.

[Jibby_jibb]

😊thanks for understanding

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome 😊

[Anonymous]

Talk about, tell him what you want, ask whats wrong and make him feel wanted craved even lol

[Jibby_jibb]

I did! Nothing is better. 😆

[Th3B1ackguy11]

Some people loose that sex drive when they get older but I don't think it's because of your appearance. Maybe things have gotten a little stale in the bedroom?

[Jibby_jibb]

He smokes too. I don't know😂

[Th3B1ackguy11]

I'm not sure what smoking has to do with the sex drive but it might effect him being aroused. You should try being sexy for him, make him want to come get you

[Jibby_jibb]

I did everything , it happened since the 1st year of marriage and until now. I don't want to find the way to change him because i can't, even when i said I'm unhappy and he cried and said he will do it more but still... nothing's changed 😂😂😂 as my question is he a normal guy? 😊

[Th3B1ackguy11]

In my opinion, not really. A normal guy is gonna satisfy his wife. In my experience it's usually the other way around where the Women refuses sex. Sounds like you need to boyfriend cuckold situation 🤣

[Jibby_jibb]

I need nothing😂😂😂 I'm happy to found this site. My English is poor but manything is interesting to read about here😉😉😉

[tattooedhandfet]

Is he bored?

[Jibby_jibb]

I don't know but I've tried evetything... and now he is boring and I'm bored😆

[tattooedhandfet]

Ok so you're now trying to find a dick to jump on.. I mean, a date here?

[Jibby_jibb]

Haha noono girl. I found this site this morning while i was searching about stretch marks topic and i live in Switzerland 😂😂😂 I just really want to know so i asked because this kind of problem i can't share with people around me here and I'm too shy to talk😆😆😆

[tattooedhandfet]

Mmmhmmm

[Jibby_jibb]

😁hehe

[HyperX]

Maybe he's into masturbation?

[Jibby_jibb]

He does nothing😆 just tv and redwine😅

[shubhammishra403]

if you're beautiful then you're husband is not ok.. i would prefer sex or love every night with you.. afterall you're hiz wife he should do it regularly.

[Jibby_jibb]

😂😂😂

[shubhammishra403]

😂 or may you should be more sexy around him

[Jibby_jibb]

I've done all! I sent him once a pic of my boob and he asked for what? 😂😂😂

[shubhammishra403]

😂😂are you sure he's not having an affair.. like wh did this.. if someone send me a pic of her boob i will immediately go to her

[Jibby_jibb]

I don't know because I'm a housewife and he goes to work🤔🤔🤔

[shubhammishra403]

it doesn't matter.. sex is above all.. and if you're wife loves it. then work is small thing

[Deeppurple]

Take him to a doctor

[urrula]

I have sex 5 times a week. 3 times with my lady.

[Jibby_jibb]

😮😮😮what about the other 2 times? With? 😂😂😂

[Asadi]

2,3 times a week should be normal

[Jibby_jibb]

Yeah..

[MrZameer]

Hahaha funny story

[Jibby_jibb]

Really? 😌😌😌

[MrZameer]

Yeah

[Jibby_jibb]

Strange and funny😆

[MrZameer]

Hahaha yeah

[cyberfox]

I can understand your pain. I am also married for 7 years with 2 kids and she hardly let me have sex. 1 - 2 in a month. I dont know how to turn on her fire back on.

[Jibby_jibb]

My first year marry ~ 1 time a week 2nd year ~ 2 times a month 3rd and 4th year ~ 1 time a month 5th year i got pregnant and he didn't do anymore 😑😑😑 until the 6th year i counted we had just 9 times 😌😌😌 And now... he does it but just like it's a must for him, i can feel that😔

[cyberfox]

I am cheating type but the way it is going making me frustrated.

[herambvedpathak]

Take your hubby to doc

[Jibby_jibb]

Haha I've said this to him and he was so angry😂😂😂

[herambvedpathak]

Because after getting tired by working... Sex with our wife is like heaven and pleasure giving.

[Jibby_jibb]

That's many guys said or even girls 😊

[imthedoctor117]

1-3 times a week. With work and all, it can be tough to make the time.
In my opinion, he isn't a normal guy.

[Jibby_jibb]

😹😹😹

[Anonymous]

Get his testosterone levels checked

[Jibby_jibb]

😂😆

[Anonymous]

Hi. Nice to meet you, welcome to the club. Married guy here, I like it twice a week or so, usually on weekends.

[Jibby_jibb]

So you're normal guy i think🤣

[Opinion Owner]

Well, everybody's normal, I suppose. I do it on weekends cause my job is draining me. So perhaps your hubby has tough job too? On the negative side, let's assume he's not happy with your body? Is this possible?

[Jibby_jibb]

All my friends are jealous of my body with 2 kids. My husband keeps saying I'm a perfect wife so i can't understand why he us so lazy to do😑😑😑

[Opinion Owner]

Sometimes we get bored of our partners, no matter how perfect they are. Because once she's 'ours', there's no sport in it anymore - we can do it whenever we want and it kinda kills the motivation.

[Jibby_jibb]

He likes to be with his redwine and TV in the evening and often fall asleep on the couch 😑😑😑

[Opinion Owner]

Surprise him with something new, something romantic (NOT a blowjob). Perhaps sex is just routine for him now.

[Jibby_jibb]

I did! 😆😆😆 I've done everything that's why i can't understand and asking here now🤣🤣🤣

[Opinion Owner]

Well that's VERY strange. I'd say he's got someone else then.

[Jibby_jibb]

I sometimes think if he is a gay?😂

[Opinion Owner]

Look at your daughters whenever you think that 🌞

[Jibby_jibb]

Always😊 i stopped asking him 😁

[Opinion Owner]

nice

[Jibby_jibb]

First daughter isn't his but the little one is. And i waited for 5years until i got a girl with him. He didn't really do that's why 😂😂😂

[Opinion Owner]

ok that's too personal.