Is it normal that I have fantasies of being rape?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Do you want to go camping with me this weekend, we can umm..."talk" more about this fantasy lol. Anyway, that wasn't a real quotation. Wouldn't you rather just let me (just being an example but anyone really) tie you up where you can't move and be willing for the sex rather than just having it forced on you? It's weird but as a guy I've often thought about women rapping me. Of course, I'm probably not sexy enough to ever get raped, oh well, I can still dream.

dust1100 · Accepted Answer

Normal is a harsh label. No one is normal. You are who you are. Rape fantasies aren't unheard of. A foot fetish, favorite color, desired job... everyone has things they like. It may be difficult to find someone who understands sexual desires and you'll probably be judged about it. But don't feel ashamed. I've known girls who have that fantasy.

no7brand310 · Accepted Answer

I have the same fantasy. Good to know I'm not alone. I would like to add I don't fantasize about some random I don't know or like raping me. I think that would not be normal. If you fantasize about someone you are interested in doing so... I think it's a submissive want or need we are actually fantasizing about.

DinaM · Accepted Answer

I have those fantasies too. Many girls do!  Main thing about rape fantasies though is that, unlike real, actual, rape, you're in complete control. Nothing happens to you that you don't actually want.

Potatoempn · Answer

It is actually pretty normal. People just dont like to talk about it or admit it out loud.
My wife was into what she called "Manhandling" which the way she described it, was exactly what you are wanting.

HGG3805 · Answer

I hear that is a common fantasy for ladies. Strange if you ask me. I have not had a partner ask me to fulfill that kind of fantasy. Why do you think you would like to experience that? What is the attraction to you?

StrawberryCream · Answer

I think being a troll is a bigger problem

Soteris · Answer

Normal? Probably not. That said its not like there isent a lot of people who share your fantasy and its a fairly common fetish all things considered.

o0oBATMANo0o · Answer

I wouldn't say it's normally but it's definitely not heard of. Everyone has there taboos and fetishes that turn them on. The thing is you should find someone who is like minded to participate in these activities and always have a safeword. Sometimes you may think you're enjoying it till you get to a certain point then it's all downhill without a safeword

QuietFawn · Answer

It's normal, but it's not exactly smiled upon.

Cammy137 · Answer

Whether its normal or not isn't important. Enjoying getting tied up or spanked isn't "normal" but there's nothing wrong with enjoying it. You do you.

lewis3001 · Answer

No it's actually quite common

oddwaffle · Answer

Women have fantasy all the time. Yours isn't even on some of the stranger stuff out there.

However, don't worry about it. Guys play shooter games all the time but none of them actually want to shoot people.

reixun · Answer

Being rape

Kranjec · Answer

Surveys have shown quite a cew woman fantasize that and even 1/5 of women raped orgasm during. So nothing odd.

Sparkzs · Answer

It is not abnormal. Check out the website fetlife and find your community.

danyboiiiiii · Answer

Is it really rape?

jacquesvol · Answer

Fantasies are just fantasies, not desires.

Skadouchebag · Answer

from what I've seen, most of the women who report these have an inaccurately broad definition of rape

worldscolide · Answer

Statistically most women have rape fantasies. It's the ultimate loss of control. It's why books like 50 shades are so popular. Psychology today explains this better. Having these fantasies don't mean that you want to be raped, it just means you like the idea of loss of control.

www.psychologytoday.com/.../why-do-women-have-rape-fantasies

Adam_INTJ · Answer

Rape, do u you just mean rough sex/bdsm or like, legit non-consentual sex?

MrSeaweed · Answer

No, not normal at all. Very very weird, but you're not the first.

HamAndCheese · Answer

From my experience it doesn't seem that uncommon among women. But admittedly I hang around some pretty weird women.

Eddythebox · Answer

It's definitely not something that we often hear , but almost everyone has a weird kink

Is it normal that I have fantasies of being rape?

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