This question is mainly aimed at US Women but anyone else can answer too

[Anonymous]

I stated US women because this is one of the few developed countries I could think of that still practices the act of circumcision on boys with 85% of them being cut in comparison to Europe having as few as only 10% with globally only 30% of males worldwide being circumcised of whom 68% are Muslim. Rates of circumcision have been falling in every country. The risk of complications arising is 11%. Its not fair to put us through the risk as there is potential for death of 1 in 500,000 with a study done by bollinger in 2010 showing that 9.01 per 100,000 died in the u.s alone. 16 people out of 90,000 died following circumcision in the uk with other risks including infection, scarring, bleeding and the procedure would mean that we would reduce the sensitivity in our penises. we can last just as long the only difference is we feel more pleasure with it. Men circumcised at birth saying that they prefer being circumcised makes as much sense as a man deaf in one ear extolling the virtues of monophonic sound. I don't see why so many u.s. women hate for guys to have their penis the way it was made, men are not supporting female circumcision and the myth about uncut penises being less dirty is bullsh*t, I'm uncut and my penis has never been dirty in the slightest, being cut is no excuse to not wash yourself. I hear women say they prefer circumcised penises because they are more attractive yet they still think penises are ugly in general so what's the point?. uncut guys penises all look different and the foreskin doesn't always cover the head. I know based of my own penis that my would probably look uglier if it was cut, my skin usually is a bit below the head despite it not being cut. Tell me why US women feel how they do about penis and which one is it you prefer and why?

[selfishstars]

Honestly, I don't have a preference. There are attractive circumcised penises and attractive uncircumcised penises. Neither cut or uncut makes a person better in bed, and it's only a slight difference in what you do with one (i.e. if you're giving a handjob or blowjob). It doesn't feel any different for me penetration-wise.

More importantly, I don't date, have sex with, or have a relationship with a guy based on whether or not he was circumcised. I do these things because I like his personality, we connect well, and I find him otherwise physically-attractive. The penis is just an afterthought and it's not like I would choose not to have sex or be with a guy because of what his penis looks like. Also, in most cases, it isn't the guy's choice whether he is circumcised or not (since its usually decided when he is an infant), so I don't make judgments on a guy based on this.

The majority of US women who prefer circumcised likely prefer it simpy because it is so common in the US. They probably encounter/have more experienced with circumcised penises and you're more likely to see circumcised guys in p*rn. There are also a lot of myths about uncircumcised guys, for example, that their penises are dirty (but this has to do with personal hygiene, and not the fact that someone is uncut in of itself). And in general, people tend to prefer what they perceive as "normal", and normal is just a social construct.

[selfishstars]

I also wanted to note that if I ever have a son, I do not plan on having him circumcised, as it is medically unnecessary, and as you mentioned, there are additional risks to the procedure.

[Asker]

Yes I agree I think us women are conditioned to like it, iv never even seen a cut penis in my life but I imagine it looks a bit like mine but really red... I know some guys have no choice but they wouldn't be forced to have to have an operation to reconstruct it later on in life if they wanted it. I highly congradulate you on how you feel about it but canadian girls are more open minded it seems so I'm not sure if I could count this

[sa230e]

Kudos for keeping your future son intact!

[Anna19]

Seriously I never heard anyone saying they like the one or the other better.

female circumcision is a whole diffrent story. It's a lot more dangerous and does in the big majoity of cases long term damage. It's if I'm not mistaken illegal in the us and tha't for a good reason

[sinful1620]

Male circumcision 100% of the time causes permanent nerve damage, loss of sensitivity, and can cause any of several problems such as partial regrowth, partial reattachment, erectile dysfunction, orgasmic dysfunction, delayed ejaculation, etc The only reason we, in the US, don't care about male circumcision is because feminism has belittled male problems in our society by treating all men as privileged in every aspect

[Anna19]

Oh sweetheart though this all might be true this is not what I meant with long term damage I quess I kinda phrased it wrong. Read this https://www.who.int/mediacentre/factsheets/fs241/en/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_genital_cutting

[lelebear]

It seems you are exclusively blaming women for men being circumcised. I know when I had my son circumcised I left the decision up to his father. Many fathers insist on it being done. As for caring whether a man I sleep with is circumcised or not I couldn't care in the least.

[sa230e]

I completely agree with you. I'm also uncircumcised and I wouldn't part with my foreskin for any money. I'm completely against circumcision and if I ever have a son, nobody's going to take a scalpel anywhere near his.

I also completely understand why you're frustrated because I feel the same way. It's hard not to feel frustrated when everybody thinks your penis is weird and you have to explain to them that it's actually normal.

I also find (at least on this site) that it's the guys who get all upset about it and not the girls. The circumcised guys accuse us of being angry about us having 'anteaters' but when you pointing out the shortcomings of their penis they get all uptight. Don't dish it out if you can't take it.

As for the girls, most have never been with an intact guy or even seen an uncircumcised penis. If they have it was probably on a site like wikipedia, not exactly the best example. Guys in p*rn are hardly ever uncircumcised and women here are just plain used to seeing that kind of penis. It's just a matter of conditioning. European women have no qualms at all about the natural human penis.

[yengesi]

"Men circumcised at birth saying that they prefer being circumcised makes as much sense as a man deaf in one ear extolling the virtues of monophonic sound."

But uncut men touting all the virtues of being uncut and discounting every purported advantage of circumcision is objective science, right? There's nothing wrong with your question, but the thesis you presented for context smacks of insecurity and bias, and near the end even degrades to bitterness.

I'm guessing an American chick was grossed out by your foreskin and it bruised your ego hard. Get over it, dude. It's a simple medical procedure, and a cultural preference that has about as much substantive significance as pierced nipples or shaved armpits.

[katiesmuff]

Whoever said we care that much about how the penis comes to us. I know that it no big deal to me which one shows up at my place.

[Askylar87]

i will NEVER sleep with an uncut guy again, their d***s smell and taste nasty. I've been wih 2 and it grossed me out, they were both very clean guys... I have 2 sons and it wasn't even a second thought about, they are both cut. uncut looks uggg thinking about it makes me think of an elephant nose. Men have enough trouble holding their come back as it is. male circ is only skin, female circ your cutting off her whole clit, that's f***ed up... male circ reduces the risk of spread more std or even yeast infections

[Asker]

wow so stupid :O

[Askylar87]

yes, yes you are supid. just because your uncut doesn't mean everyone else wants to be the same. I know men that say if their parents didn't do it as a baby, then they would have done it themself as an adult... my friends 8 and 6 year old are uncut and she is always telling me about the problem after problem with it and she wished she would have done it when they were babies because its going I hurt. My first son was born with no foreskin and had to a graft skin at 6 months, even god doesn't like uncut

[Asker]

oh really, this is the biggest misconception. I am uncut, never in the slightest had the remotest bit of smell or problems down there with it being the natural way its supposed to be. I don't even need to focus on that area to keep it clean, it is no effort to none existant to clean. 80% of the world are uncut except the US has 60% and declining with people cut, it serves no medical benefit link link

[Askylar87]

i don't believe those #s I've been with 25 guys and only 2 were uncut. if your happy with your penis then why do you care what American men do with theirs and why are you blaming women? both my son's fathers wanted them to be cut, same with my brothers.and its not a misconception if its true, uncut makes the guy have a slimy head, you expect me to believe to your d*** do stick if you don't wash it... yea OK. men need to stop blaming women for their problems and why would so many guys do it if there is no benefit

[Asker]

sorry I almost forgot you know exactly what its like to have a d*** more than me, of course a cut guy is gonna be more comfertable making his sons cut out of following in a sheep pattern and girls from America believe what they hear without thought, you don't have the slightest clue what an uncut d*** is like clearly from our descriptiony

[Askylar87]

ok

[Chelleyk97]

Well I'm a women in the U.S and I've always prefered uncut. To me it's just so much more cute and natural. But most girls like cut more. It's just personal preference.

[Anonymous]

it is practiced in hotter areas to stop infection and complications that can arise. An adult would not be happy to do it, that's why its done when they can't refuse.