Why do girls think size matters? Sex isn't just about recieving pleasure from a dick. So why are girls/ women shallow about this topic?

[Anonymous]

If you haven't been taught about sex education or understand it well.

There is a conditiom called 'Micro penis'.

Which means a guys penis might not even 4-5 inches (below average which is 5.5 world wide)
So its not all about size.
There is also oral pleasure and other forms of sexual intercorse other than just dick and pussy.

So PLEASE don't be shallow or offended, it is not my intentions, but if you think size matter, go get educated you shallow human being.
I got mocked/ bullied by girls in school on my skin colour 'white' and girls say 'white guys have small dicks'.

For your info, I'm a virgin, and that really hurts my confidence, I suffer with depression and anixety really bad where I feel suicidal because of these particualar insults, penis size being one of them.

Mine is 6 inches, and just as thick as 3 of my fingers, which is slightly above average.

But I'm still insecure because I'm a virgin and get shamed by females because of it.
I just feel insecure because I would like it to be bigger, but there's nothing I can do about it but accept it.

And females, there's a condition about your vagina's known as 'Shallow vagina' meaning during intercourse, 5-6 can hurts your cervic and can be very painful when the penis hits it.
Either because your not sexual eroused enough.
Or you just have a small pussy, its normal.
But if you can get off with your fingers yourself and still get pleasure, then dick size DOESN'T matter.

PLEASE, girls/ women, DON'T be offended by my post.
I'm just educating shallow females who think size matters.

I just want people to understand about the opposite sex bodies and un-heard conditions which don't get taught in sex education.

And guys in porn are selectivly chosen if there penis is over 6+ inches. Which then guys feel insecure about there's.

So don't insult a guy about his penis.

Some have commited suicide because of this and other reason which affect them.

I hope you understand now, I really hope you do. Thank you.

[Anonymous]

Most girls don't care about this as much as guys think they do.
Restating the whole boob size argument because that's literally the same thing.
People are entitled to their opinions however wrong they may be in holding them. You can't get mad if someone isn't a fit for you because they want something of a certain way. It's very shallow and closes them off from cool people, but it's their prerogative. They clearly aren't worth your time and anxieties. I get it isn't easy but when you rely so heavily on the preferences of others you will never be happy and continue to exist in your suicidal state.
Those who shame others are insecure. No need to scream at people to have your voice heard. Speak with respect and they will listen; those who don't are too far gone already

[Asker]

I don't judge females on colour and what body type they should have, or what they are like as a person. So why do females believe streo-types about colour of guys and what dick size they have? Is that fair? I don't judge women in anyway when it comes to colour, looks or personality wise, so why do they do it to guys? Its discrimination in a way. And I get rejected on my skin colour alone, and mocked about my dick size by females constantly, even if I have a nice personality which is completely ignored. So it doesn't help with me over-coming my insecurities when I'm judeged in a stero-typical way. I can accept females the way they are regardless of insecurities and their imperfections but it seems like they can't do the same for guys. But I'm not saying all females are like that. And I'm not like all the other guys who see females as sex objects. I respect females a lot. I'm just judged based on looks and colour, its hurts, I not trying seem to be rude about females at all.

[Opinion Owner]

But you are assuming that all girls do that, and newsflash, WE DON'T. It's an internal thing: you can't accept someone else for their flaws until you admit your own, and therein lies the problem. I don't know where you are meeting these people but that sounds like a horrible environment. If you can find a way to move to a more accepting place I would because that sounds miserable

[Kevin32v]

A woman can get breast implants and butt implants, for a penis there is nothing that can be done. So small breasts or butt do not compare at all, not by a long shot.

[MasonDixon]

Not every girl cares about size and some only care about size. Everyone searches for something different. Personally, I would rather be with a guy who has a who has a great personality, great body and decent size dick. I see no reason to settle for less. I would not blame a guy if my breasts weren't big enough for them. If someone doesn't like you given who you are, you move on the next. It's as simple as that

[Asker]

But its like I'm not good for any female in this world. Girls bullied me about my manhood to the point, I'm scared to appraoch any girl/ women at all. So trying to believe what you tell me is very hard. I'm not like all the other guys, I still get shamed for being a virgin, I suffer from depression because of bullies, people even beat me up and threatened to kill me through out school, guys and girls where horrible to me. So trying to believe anyone who tells me different is hard. Especially trying to see things positivly, in a different way other than negativly. I feel no matter what I'm like, its like guys and girls are still going to bully me or take advantage of my kindness. All my past experience in trying to mix with all sorts of people turned out horribly. I never fit in with anyone. I'm never good enough or accepted for who I am.

[AaronTupaz]

Well in your case I would seriously consider seeking psychological help. there's no shame on that. It's obvious from you post and reading your other comments that you have developed a condition called 'Learned Helplessness' among probably many other conditions. If you really can't seek help, then at the very least start reading positive help books, dating books, and educating yourself about female or even just human psychology. You need to reverse the negativity self limiting beliefs that you have right now, cuz other wise it'll just get worse.

[Asker]

@AaronTupaz I'm already going therapy. But I can't relate to any positive post to help me see differently. My whole life I've struggled to make friends, and to be happy etc. Anyone and everyone bullied for something. I never knew why, I still don't now apart from I was always the silent lonely type who couldn't speak for myself at all. So people of all ages bullied me in secondary school, girls and boys mocked me from my hair, to my clothes or even little things I did which made me difderent from everybody else, and they all laughed. Teachers never helped me at all either. I had no friends at school, I tried to jump out my window in my tower block (its 20 floors high) but I lived on the 6th, still high enough I could die from the fall, I was only 12... I sat there crying for hours most nights, I used to punch walls till my knuckles bleed, tried to put a knife in heart... I still don't know what still makes me want to live anymore...

[AaronTupaz]

Shane_B You need to find a way to change your life style and environment to remove as much negativity as possible. The mind is like a factory. You feed it negativity. you get negativity. You might have to suck it up until you're independent and on your own if you're in a toxic house. Because yf you are getting bullied, than you either need to move to a better and healthier environment or develop the social skills. I run a self-help Youtube channel where I teach many topics such as how to talk and socialize with people. I'll share a link to one of my videos my goal is to help you realize that the only way you'll survive in this world is by becoming better. Until you become a person of high status in this society and world, you are not going to be able to make any impactful changes. So instead of wishing the world will change for you. you need to find ways to improve. Don't wish for things to be easier, wish to become better.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R3UODz5O8zo

[Asker]

@AaronTupaz Thanks for the advice, I moved out of london, due to other things like gangs and going down a dark path, I did bad things I'm not proud of, but never been arrested, my life style in london was all about taking drugs, late nights, drinking, getting in fights etc because I wanted to desprately fit in, it clearly was the wrong place. In london, I never saw a future, I was either gonna die, or die because of gang fights and rivals. My life was not only lonely, but very dangerous as well, I was exposed to all types of crime, I tried to not let any of these things affect me from still being me, I guessed I failed. Easily tricked by people who didn't care about me, only brung me more pain to what I was already trying to deal with. I just need help, I need someone I can trust, I almost died a month ago due to my asthma, I cried because I saw my mum cry, I don't want to die young, but clearly heading to a quick grave sentence, death...

[thenewgirlll]

Everywhere I go I see girls saying that size doesn't matter. Why are you saying otherwise?

[Asker]

Because girls in school bullied me saying 'white guys have small dicks' and believe streo-types based on colour/ race of guys. And I'm very insecure about it and everything else about me in genral. Bullies took everything away from me that made me who I was. Know I don't know who I am anymore. I suffer with depression and anxiety as well as PTSD.

[thenewgirlll]

Ah now I get it. But that's how girls in high school are (not all of them) they are immature, especially the popular ones. You really need to find women outside the school.

[Asker]

I'm scared to... They judge me based on skin colour and looks... I can't approach any female if thats how I'm viewed in a negative way by them.

[AaronTupaz]

Who are you to call SOME women shallow because they care about size? We are all entitled to have preferences in what we look for in a partner in terms of intelligence, personality and physically.

Not everyone is seeking long term relationships. So for some women pleasure is really important. That's like saying we have to stop caring about women's size because there's conditions that make women really obese and it can cause some to become suicidal because we care about their weight.

[Asker]

Well at least a guy like me can accept and love them the way they are regardless of looks and their insecurities if I have a connection with them which is just as important as physical attraction. So who are you to tell me anything and make me look bad? Fix up, your a grown man, not a childish boy. Correct yourself and come correct next time. I ain't even gonna argue with you until you mature yourself to my level of understanding. End of.

[AaronTupaz]

Based on reply and reading your other comment below, you seem to be very self-centred and focused on proving you're not like other guys and not really concerned about women's rights to have preferences. And who am I to make you look bad? Well you are asking some women to change their views to mainly benefit you. That's very selfish and immature. The world is not just about you.

[Asker]

I'm not asking them to change, I'm making people understand my point of view. Because people believe streo-type bull***t. And I am judged based on my colour by females. Is that fair, do I judge them on colour and what their body type should be to match it? No I don't.

[AaronTupaz]

Life isn't always fair. The best we can do is to adapt to the world and the hands we are dealt. For example, I'm below average in terms of looks. But I don't complain and try to make women try to understand how much of a disadvantage it gives me. That would accomplish nothing. I don't call them shallow if they refuse to go out with me, sleep with me or even just get to know me based on my looks. Instead I find ways to adapt to my reality and excel in other areas.

[DiegoO]

Several females don't know nothing about penis size, they just guest.

Don't keep obsesing about the topic. There are queen size indeed but from what I know a huge part of the females rather an average size.

[johnRD11]

Size is overrated... what a guy really needs is cleanliness and a high level of function.. these are the keys to good sex. And there are penis health cremes available that improve the penis in these areas so all guys should be using one... they are basically multivitamin and protein cremes made just for the penis. Keep them in mind.

[Saccharissa]

Funny, I only ever seem to see questions go up about guys freaking out about their size.

[pizzalovershouse]

sum are sum arere not just like sum girls like big 1s an most don't want a huge 1

[XLBBC4White]

Bro - truly, what was the point of writing all that? Speaking on this topic from two positions or vantage points.
1 - Average penis (5-6 inches long with girth around 3-4 inches. I'd imagine this size is very common and size doesn't matter in the sense of will they both should feel some pleasure. Average size is capable of getting a woman pregnant.
2 - Large penis (7-8 inches long / girth around 5 inches) Same as above but now she's filled more and also penis less likely to fall out.
3 - XL penis (9 inches or more and 6 inches or more in girth) This size will stretch and fill her completely and leave her sore. If used well she will always want it again and more than likely the average penis is no longer a factor for her pleasure.
Size matters physically, mentally and I personally love being a woman's first very large lover and giving her undiscovered pleasure.

[CT_CD]

Because they're shallow

[grega239]

U sound very insecure about the size of ur tool

[Asker]

Because females judge me based on colour and looks alone. They ignore my personality and I get turned down no matter how nice I am. And yes, I'm insecure, because girls bullied me about my colour and size and judge me like all the other guys that just want sex and think I see them as sex objects, but I don't.

[grega239]

Ok so they were kinda racist... but the fact that u say micro penis is a condition is stupid bcs I've seen several posts of guys saying they r insecure about it and if u ask them how big they usually say around 15 cm which is average so if ur below average its not women being shallow its just ur genetics

[Asker]

I didn't ask a question for you to insult me, I clearly stated I'm not trying to offend any one personally, its just how I've seen/ experienced things in life which is why my view may not be the same as others see them.

[grega239]

Im not insulting im explaining... besides how did these girls know how big it is if they didn't see it

[Asker]

They went by colour and streo-types. And bullied me about it because of my skin colour. Now I'm so insecure about it, I'm scared to approach any girls/ women...

[grega239]

So start ignoring what a couple of stupid bitches were saying... u gotta ask ur self why u still care

[GrayWhi2]

Everybody has the right to have their own preferences... respect that. And You are just having bad time. Stop taking this too seriously

[Asker]

I don't take things seriously, people believe streo-types and judge me before they know me based on skin colour and looks. Its not exactly fair I'm seen as something I'm not. And the reason why I'm insecure is because I've been bullied my whole life, epsically by girls mocking my manhood size in school, so now I feel most women will do the same to me as well. Bullies ruined me, and I don't know how to change my outlook on things. I also go therapy.

[Anonymous]

If a guy refuses me cause my small boobs i have the same right to refuse a micro penis.

[Asker]

I can accept females and for who they are and less of what they look like. Regardless of their insecurities, if I have a connection with them, not just physical. At least a guy like me can love them for them and who they are. I don't go round insultings females just cause I can't get laid. Or make fum of their bodies and looks. I have respect for all women. So I speak for myself when I say this. I'm NOT like most other guys.