How to moan for him? New at sex?

My boyfriend has fingered me. dry humped me. had phone sex with me. but I just had sex with him and it was my first time. During all these sessions lol he always tells me to moan for him. I just don't get it . how to naturally moan. And when we had sex it hurt so much I don't what I was doing. but it wasn't good .lol

how do I moan.because it seams he wants me to step that up. become a little better at it. any tips?

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  • Moaning is a HUGE turn on (for me at least) but like everyone else has already said -- the more you do it and the more experience you have, it will start to come naturally as you enjoy it more!

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  • It'll come naturally once you get used to it and it starts to feel a lot more good than bad. As much as your boyfriend might want you to moan more, he'd probably rather you be quiet for the first couple of times until you actually do start to really enjoy it and moan naturally rather than just fake it, also then he knows when your actually enjoying it which is why it's a turn on for guys I think and also he knows when your not feeling it.

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  • Lol it really comes naturally. Just get lost with the feeling of whatever you're doing and let it out. You're lucky though - I started moaning when my boyfriend was fingering me and he kissed me to muffle it. I don't think he wanted the rest of his family to hear. Good luck :)

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  • Don't fake it. You just need to loosen up, relax, and let it come naturally. Eventually you should feel some kind of pleasure and then you can moan. It's really not hard to do, and moaning can really turn guys on.

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  • Moaning is something that should come naturally. That said, some people are naturally more vocal about their pleasure than others. It's unrealistic for him to expect you to moan during sex if it's painful (but with a little more experience, it should start feeling better). That said, I think the hardest part about being vocal, or moaning, during sex is getting over the initial shyness that a lot of people have about it. It might help to get in the habit of being a little noisier during masturbation (if you masturbate), so you can get comfortable with it without worrying that you'll sound silly. Just try adding a little voice to your heavy breathing.

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  • I don't think that you should fake it but just let it happen naturally-just relax...

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  • You don't moan for someone. You moan because you're enjoying it, but if you don't naturally do that, don't fake it. He shouldn't demand that.

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  • Let it flow naturally...if feel like screaming that's OK too!

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  • If you dont know how to moan jus let your breath touch the neck or ears of your man its a total turn on too

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  • Watch a p*rno and you'll see

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  • sounds like he has watched to much porn

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  • I was never a real big moaner either, until I got with my current boyfriend. I have found that the key is to feel 100% comfortable. Being shy and unsure is what had suppressed my moaning previously, And as soon as I felt comfort and safe with him (even in what some may consider a very vulnerable state) I found that being vocal about what I liked and how pleasurable it was came a lot easier (:

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  • Before me and my boyfriend
    Had sex , i told him the i do not
    Know how to moan he got mad
    At me. For not doing it

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  • you know when you don't feel well, or have period pains and you moan from it , thaats kinda the same thing just do it with a slight smile. gasp a bit, grip the bedsheets they love that - all else failing look at a p*rn film and you'll hear how to moan x

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