If you definitely have something & you definitely know it's from him damn right you have a reason to be furious, if you're not 100% sure it's from him then don't mention anything. Wait for the results and go from there. If someone has a STD they know it, that's my opinion, how the hell can a person have a STD and not know it or at least question if they do or not, if that's the case with that dude and you find out you're positive for a STD I'd have no problem letting him know. Look out for yourself don't trust those dudes who say they're clean, they just don't want to use a condom. Some guys will look you in the eyes and tell you they're clean, don't believe those idiots all they want is to get laid. So many young guys today are suckers who don't have the brains they were born with, don't fall for the nonsense that comes out of they're mouth.
0 0 0 0So, how should I approach him?
i'd wait til you find out specifically what you have. then just email him or text him. he needs to know for his sake so he can get it taken care of and of course so he can act accordingly with future sexual partners
do you have a right to be annoyed?
sure it's natural to be annoyed but you had unprotected sex so you knew the risks.
Have any of you guys been in such a situation?
i've never experienced this0 0 0 0
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Just walk up to him and be like, "So, before we had sex, I didn't have an STD and now I do. While I love early Christmas presents, this one isn't cool. You need to talk to the girls you slept with and tell them about this"
0 0 0 0when you get your results show it to him or let him know over private message. You might not get the best response though, he might not believe you or call you a lying but at least you told him though.
0 0 0 0You should definitely tell him as soon as possible! Maybe wait until her test results but I'd day sooner. Just leave him a message, I don't think you need to do it in person lol
0 0 0 0What do you mean “approach” him? I thought he’s in a different country?
Do you have the right to be annoyed? SMH. Did you demand he not use a condom?0 0 0 0Approach as in message; approach verbally :) and no, I didn’t demand for him not to wear a condom, more so he persuaded me to allow him not to wear one
You have every right to be MORE than annoyed at him as well as an obligation to possible protect other girls from the same fate. text him call him what ever but dont hold back on your feelings. Good luck!
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7 8Go show him the test resultsm
0 0 0 0Yep.
0 0 0 0Tell him you got yourself tested after you had sex and that he should get one aswell since he probably have it to you. Chlamydia is mostly treated with penicillin and can result in infertility if left on it's own. Since it is treated with penicillin then it is very important to do the entire cute your doctor has perscribed to you, Even if it seems like it is gone. Any bacteria left will grow resistant and then you got a real problem
0 0 0 0"Hey. You gave my an STD. Better get that checked before some other unlucky soul catches it from you."
0 0 0 0You have the right to be annoyed. As soon as you know what it is, just tell him straight out that you got it from him. He probably did know.
0 0 0 0Of course. But remember https://i.imgur.com/NYzjgE6.jpg
If you aren't in a serious relationship0 0 1 0Nah, I think he does know, but he didn't care about your feelings.
0 0 0 0Pick up the phone and call the sob
0 0 0 0Let him know after you get the tests back. You don’t have to be friendly or bring up anything that happened between you guys. Just be honest and let him know you got something.
0 0 0 0tell him, and where s the guy from.
0 0 1 0Go get checked at any clinic.
0 0 1 0This is beyond relationships, feelings, or emotions. You should call, email, text, immediately to tell him that he needs to get checked and document it for future reference just in case. Better to get documented in an email. Think of it as a public service announcement like an outbreak. Everyone hooking including myself needs to get checked regular, so yes you should be pissed at him for spreading that $ht. Fortunately, knock-on-wood, I have avoided that $ht.
1 1 0 0Just be honest and tell him either text or email.
0 0 0 0Just tell him somehow
0 0 1 0Wait for your results. Have the clinic send him a notification.
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