Girls, do you care if a guys circumcised?

[Anonymous]

I was thinking about it lately...And I really hate the fact I'm cut...it so weird to think that a part of my penis...one of the most important parts of my body...was cut away and thrown out...I don't get it anyway..its really sick when you think about it...anyway...I have really low self-esteem over it and I worry like that girls will be less satisfied and that I have some huge handicap now compared to guys who have their foreskin intact...I'm worried about it...do you care or not?

[ThepersonIam]

(This is for everyone) Hey man, sparring countless details - you shouldn't worry at all because I presume (excuse me if I'm wrong) you live in the USA where the majority have been blindsided with a pro-circumcision regime. Leaving you in the normal or influentially desired category. It's a sad money grabbing reality; the industry literally makes billions annually from an instilled unnecessary surgery.
What you won't hear about is the roughly 100 infants who die each year (USA) as a result of the surgery (taking 2.3 ounces of blood loss to pass). What you will hear most often of pro-circumcision and from the molded is that it is cleaner and prevents STI transmission which is a farce. Their reasoning behind this has to do with the existing mucus membrane which is no different/susceptible to complications than the vagina and clitoral hood's mucus membrane.
Lucky for you a lot of women (North American) find a natural penis visually and conceptually unsettling. Which is mainly instilled but more importantly because they are aware of an alternative (not to mention ignorant of the mutual sexual benefits). It's interesting to think of the women who abjure the intact never realizing that they discriminate while never having to be apart of genital segregation.
Yes a parent Should wait and let their child decide for themselves; many will insist it is the parents decision which it is - but it is also Irrefutably by Definition: *non consensual mutilation*. The surgery is Ultimately safer in maturity. I don't see why a parent in this age wouldn't let their offspring decide whether or not to remove some of their own erogenous nerve endings. If your going to hate anything about this topic then hate the large ignorance of so many.
In closing: Both are fine - There is little reason for you to dwell on this since you have a body that you know as YOUR OWN, just like I do. If it matters to a partner of yours then discard that person. Intimacy varies and is multifaceted.

[sa230e]

Do you have any foreskin tissue left over? IF you have ANY at all you can restore your foreskin. Check it out on wikipedia link .

As far as attitude you can look at things both ways. As an intact guy I thought I was weird and I was ashamed of my penis for a long time (I'm fine with it now though). So you have the advantage of being in the majority (at least if you're in the US). As far as what girls what will think most of them (and there are quite a few exceptions too) don't know that much about the penis and male anatomy (Just as most guys don't know much about vaginas). American women are probably going to be expecting a circumcised penis when you pull your pants down. You won't have to deal with the awkward situation of explaining what a foreskin is when she doesn't see what she expects.

That said I can sort feel your pain. You're not the only guy that resents the fact that he was circumcised and there's probably support groups out there you can probably look up. Definitely look into foreskin restoration though. It's entirely non-surgical and most guys are satisfied with the result.

[Anonymous]

Wow champ. You seriously need to get over this. The majority of the Western population is circumcised. If your mates are teasing you about you having your penis cut off it is just a loose bit of skin that was cut. You don't lose ANY actual length. Also as a circumcised guy you are slightly less sensitive which is probably a good thing - means you should be able to last longer and therefore give your woman more pleasure.

When it comes down to it its not what it looks like its how you use it. If your girl can get off then who cares if you have had the snip or not?!

While it may no longer be necessary in today's society to get the snip you need to face the facts and accept that it has been done. Its ridiculous to think that you should wait until you are an adult and able to make the choice - it would hurt more, bleed more and have FAR more complications.

I have been with both circumcised and uncircumcised guys and to be honest I don't care either way, as long as they are considerate enough to get me off too. So please, do yourself a favour and get over it.

[mouse1_nz]

You mean american population not western, worldwide uncut is more prevalent from what I gather

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not from America and I have never been with an American. The majority of guys that I have seen or heard about are cut. It doesn't really matter either way though.

[troyan]

What? Quote: "just a loose bit of skin that was cut". You obviously do not know what you are talking about. Its similar cutting away your clitoris. Would you call that just a piece of skin? Probably not.

[TheDevilYouKnow]

@troyan You're an Atard it is nothing like cutting away the clit. Have you even seen a clit? The turtleneck is just an extra layer of skin that can cover the tip of a penis, not the actual source of enjoyment. You should punch yourself in the face for that comment and learn human biology.

[Fourkaitlyn]

Personally, I find someone who is "normal"/"uncut"/"uncircumcized" so much more attracting (by that I am talking about their penis). I mean it doesn't matter which they are because I like them as a person if I'm having sex with them but I just like how someone who is uncircumcized looks and feels and just well everything about it. I don't see why people feel like they should have their childs penis cut but whatever, its what they want to do for the kid. I also have no idea what the health issues are for uncircumcized guys, all I do know is the fact that its just something I perfere but I wouldn't stop having sex nor end a relationship with a guy that is cut. So yeah, I haven't noticed the difference between the two so I'm pretty sure that isn't one for how sex feels or anything. You shouldn't feel bad about it, its your penis, own it, make it feel good for the people your with. You need to make your self esteem go up, I mean you can't do anything for the fact that your cut.

[Asker]

I know I can't do nething but that makes me feel worse...like someone whose paralyzed can't ake themselves walk but its still depressing.

[Fourkaitlyn]

Well then I'll give you some advice I give myself so much, "make do with what ya got" and "be happy with what you have".

[Asker]

Well unfortuantely a lot of girl aren't gonna think that way...liek u..."oops sorry yor got your penis cut when you were a baby becuase scoeity is sick...but I'm gotta have your ugle D*** in me so too bad"...if girls like you didn't exist it wouldn't be an issue

[Fourkaitlyn]

Whoa, what? I don't think that circumcized penis's are ugly. That's not what I meant what I said, to sound. Look I just perfere uncircumcized but that doesn't mean that I think lowly on circumcized penis's. I love all d***. Its like a guy saying he'd rather a chick with big t*ts but is completely fine with a size B girl. Do you understand? Its a preference, everyone has one, but it doesn't limit anything. As long as it works, I'm fine with it, let's get ta f***ing. Ya know.

[Asker]

Its still messed up tho..how would you feel if your paents removed part of clit and you knew thatg ud never expereince the same sexual pleasure you could have...and they tell you that its for the best because it limits some chances of getting diseases you could get neway...and then what if all member of the opposite sex got to have their genitals untouched while urs was cut...how would you feel?

[Fourkaitlyn]

I completely understand. Its not a messed up thing really to perfere something over something else. I'm not saying I completely exclude circumcized men. I've been sexual with 3 guys and two of them were circumcized and I had fun. If you feel so highly that circumcizion just shouldn't happen then when you have kids let them make their own decision and finally just accept and embrace that you are circumcized. Its not a bad thing at all. I mean you can do the same things as someone who isn't.

[Asker]

I didn't mean that your preference is messed up just tha circumcision is...I guess it makes me feel inferior to women...like I resent that my mom whos never had a penis....could just let them cut her baby boys up...and yet when people wana circumcisiz oe cut girls...the world is horrified..and rightfully so...any circumcision is horrofic...but it makes me angry people think they can abuse males..and no matter what...im still missing out on my foreskin/extra pleasure...and ill never ever get it back

[Asker]

I hope women that put their baby boys through that loose sokme kind of sexual function for life frok cancer or something..then theyll know what theyve done

[Fourkaitlyn]

Oh OK, I thought you were talking about what I said. I actually really don't believe in circumcizion and think it should be up to the kid if he wants to go through with it when he's a man and can make those sorts of decisions for himself. Because I know that if I didn't have my clit I would never have an orgasum and that would be horrible.

[Asker]

Exactly its awful...and there's nothign I can do...but most of all it makes me angry that like secretly I'm thinking that women gloat over it...they know that their genitals are intact and that the guy there with had part of his taken away and there's nothing he can do about it ...like she knows she whole and he's not and that makes me furious that I've been cut

[Fourkaitlyn]

Well I'm sorry you feel like this.

[TheDevilYouKnow]

Thank you Madam, love the guy first and make sure he does it for you. All this stuff is bull anyways...

[SueDenim]

I do personally prefer intact men. There are good biological reasons for the foreskin to have evolved, and no good reasons for amputating it. I'm sorry your parents ignored the fact that you were an individual and chose to do this to you.

If you want, you can research foreskin restoration and undo part of what was done to you.

I think you shouldn't be concerned with other people's preferences. The most important opinion about your penis is YOUR OWN. If you don't like the way it is, it doesn't matter how many people do.

[gravygirl]

I think you're better off. Being circumcised makes you more attractive to women and less likely to catch something. Who wouldn't want that?

[Asker]

I don't know if its worth it honestly...I mean woiuld you have your breasts or even a part of it removed to avoid breast cancer? and besides...safe sex and being careful who I sleep is the answer...not cutting off part of my manhood.

[proudtexasgirl]

Most guys are circumsized. No girl is going to be less satisfied with you solely because you are circumsized. The practice of circumcision is biblical and also for health reasons. Guys who are uncircumsized are more prone to infections.

[Asker]

Honestly there not that manyhelath issue nemore...ltos of doctors say its unecessary...and the new testament says its not required...I mean at least let the kid decide to do it...snipping some kids penis off when he can't even talk is messed up

[cyrus7]

Proudtexas, your gonna get a lot of flak from uncuts all butthurt, just warning you lol

[proudtexasgirl]

It is much more painful and takes much longer to heal when you are older. You can never have that fold of skin back so try not to be so upset about it. Honestly, I would perfer a circumsized guy. I don't see why you think it's such a big deal.

[cyrus7]

Oh and they don't snip the f***ing penis off dude, its about 2 cms of skin, f***in chill holy sh*t lol

[proudtexasgirl]

Lol thanks for the warning cyrus7. I'm not too afraid of a bunch of guys on the internet. As for health concerns: Uncircumcised men are about twice as likely to be infected with human papillomavirus (HPV) and pass it along to sexual partners, resulting in higher cervical cancer rates in regions where the majority of men are uncircumcised [source: Infectious Diseases Society of America].It also appears that circumcision helps protect against infection from chlamydia and syphilis [source: JAMA].

[proudtexasgirl]

And Recent studies have shown that circumcision can dramatically reduce the rate of HIV infection. According to these studies, a circumcised man is 60 percent less likely to contract HIV than an uncircumcised man [source: Timbert]. (This holds true only in the case of female-to-male transmission -- circumcision hasn't been seen to influence the rate of male-to-male HIV transmission [source: JAMA].)

[Asker]

Well I don't plan on doing any girls with aids neway...and a lot of thsoie diseases are curable with some anti-biotics...hmmm...be a little less likely to have to pop some pills if you sleep with an infected girl...or go through your entire life with a piece of your penis missing...sorry..its just not worth it

[proudtexasgirl]

Lol okay buddy. Get over yourself and your circumsized d***. I think your penis is the least of your worries. Try working on your confidence.

[Pwnfrnzy]

Biblical: Not true, for Catholic people the practice of circumsision is true, but the Bible (old testament) as in Christians, it can be done or not be done, it is upon their decision. Health Reasons: Total bullsh*t. The only reason infection happens because it is no properly cleaned, if the man takes care of himself and cleans under the skin properly, infections would not even be a worry.

[polyglotmom]

Do some unbiased research about the care of the foreskin. It's not cleaner to have it removed. It only takes some basic hygiene. Also, most problems with the foreskin result from faulty advice to force it back on babies. There's a lot of ignorance on this subject.

[LolaCherryCola]

i thnk its gross well looks gross but that's me and I'm weird

[LolaCherryCola]

But girls have gross looking things on them so it souldnt matter . I just prefer a normal uncut uncircimized penis

[polyglotmom]

That's right. I wouldn't want a close up view of my lady parts and I have to keep them clean, so a man can do that too. They're not meant to be nice looking, but to function.

[LolaCherryCola]

Your right girls do have gross looking things on them I 100% agree on that , I'm sayiing that I prefer uncircimized but its fine if it isn't .

[studmuffin-perfect10]

Lol

[LolaCherryCola]

Wait I ment I prefer circumzised un circumzized is gross

[EllieLovesUall]

I prefer CUT for many many reasons

[ThepersonIam]

What are those reasons?

[INeverLovedU]

More women prefer circumcised men

[Thiezz]

That varies a lot depending on where in the world you are. Perhaps it's true in the USA.

[lolli]

I recently did a little research on circumsicion. There are some minuses to having it done... but most amercian women find a circumcised penis more attractive to there eyes, probably cause that is just what most guys in this country have, but in the whole world most guys are not circumcised.

[girlwithnousername]

Being circumsized is definitely not an issue! Most men are (Americans at least). Beating yourself up about something that you can't control isn't going to help. Focus on accepting youself! If you don't aren't comfortable your penis it'll inhibit the actual love-making...

[rob1676]

I'm gonna throw a stereotype in there...Lots of doctors were Jews back in the day. Jew doctors kinda did whatever they wanted to a new born. Its not like the newborn can say don't cut me. Doctors simply told the parents some story why its bad to be uncut and the parents believed..So now everyone is just getting cut. Feeling left out sucks. I guess being different sucks for some people too...

[sektenkult]

These girls who tell you to circumcise never heard of Langhans cells

[Anonymous]

No, as long as he has a penis, I am happy. Men are blessings, I we shouldn't be so picky about what type of penis they have.

[Anonymous]

lol dude girls love circumcised d***, %98 of girls in america and canada prefer it, so you got nothing to worry about, if anything you have an advantage over uncut guys, guys that are cut can go harder faster and longer than uncut guys. so enjoy it :)

[Pwnfrnzy]

If it was 98% then most men would be circumsized, its more like the high 60's or 70's in percentage.

[INeverLovedU]

Agree I would never f*** or blow a guy who wasn't I just think it is gross

[ThepersonIam]

That's so ignorant I laughed. One's sexual stamina has only to do with the individual not the tool.

[Anonymous]

Dude like 80% of guys are circumcised. So your not alone at in any way whatsoever. Plus I don't really think its ever made a difference when it comes to intercourse.

[Pwnfrnzy]

80% is an over-exaggeration, if that were true, I wouldn't have my skin. On what I have read,55% - 70% of men in the united states are circumsized.