How to stop female ejaculation..serious answers only please!!

[Anonymous]

OK, so I had sex with my boyfriend, two weeks ago, and I squirted everywhere... I didn't even know I did it, he just said .. no that wasn't me. ahh! it was so embarrassing, after reading stuff on the net, I realize it was female ejaculation. OK so, now I've had sex a few more times since then, and it seems I'm doing it every time! It makes a mess everywhere, and my boyfriend is grossed out by it, which is making me really self conscious. I went to the doctors because I feel like something is wrong with me. She said everything is fine with me... no infection, nothing.! On the internet, it seems guys really like it, and some women want to know how to do it. I read somewhere, that once you learn how to do it, you can't "un-learn".. well this makes me want to cry right now. I don't want to do it! Esp, if my man is grossed out! It makes a mess everywhere, I hate this. My orgasms, aren't any different, so what's the deal? help me, I want to stop this right away. It's going to make me not want to have sex, and I love my boyfriend... please any advice.. thanks

[clovisx]

I would recommend making sure that you are as "empty" as you can be before sex. It probably is a combination of relaxation and excitement that brings you to that point. I wouldn't recommend reducing either of these, since you will enjoy the experience less, but it sounds like you aren't really enjoying it afterward now.

You can either plan ahead and put towels down on the bed and embrace it and accept it, which we do in our sex because my wife squirts sometimes. Or you can let it bother you and stress you out which will strain your enjoyment and sexual relationship with your boyfriend.

I think that most likely he will get used to it and accept it. It is something that your body does naturally so there is no need to hate it. There could be positions that make you more sensitive to the stimulation that causes it to happen. Maybe you should try different positions that takes pressure off the front of your vagina or reduce the depth of penetration.

[ihavenevercheatedagf]

He is probably in shock and amaze. Every guy would love to have a sex partner like you.

Buy more bedsheets and reassure him that "he's such a f**ing amazing lover, he has made love to you like no man before".

I bet that will make him go crazy.

And for you, there's nothing to be ashamed or wrong with you.

Consider it a gift.

[Asker]

Ok thank u. Ur comment made me feel a little better. I will try your advice. I just wish there was a way to control it..

[Anonymous]

I'm having the same "problem". At first it started with g-spot orgasms where I squirted. My boyfriend found it EXTREMELY sexy. He was flattered by it. Keep in mind that I'm 30 years old and this had never happened to me before. Since then it happened more and more often and I started getting excessively wet even while not having an orgasm. Granted the size of the puddle is much greater if I've orgasmed. But sometimes I don't even know it has happened until after because it didn't feel any different and it happens every time now. I have tried the towels and things but it soaks right through. It's become a bit of a nuisance. However, I'm very lucky in that I have an extremely understanding and supportive boyfriend. I think it helps that he knows it's because of my comfort level with him, and his good love making abilities that I do this, so tell your boyfriend these things. Hopefully the ego boost and his feelings for you will help him get over it.

[Anonymous]

I know what your going through it happens to me to and my boyfriend at the time said the same thing and I told him to get stuffed cause guys make just the same amount of mess but women can make a better mess ;). The first time it happened to me I looked all over the net and couldn't find a thing how to stop it. I even went to the doctors and they couldn't give me an answer either. Over the last few years I have found that to minimise the mess. I found that going to the bathroom before sex really helps and it. This also helps you not to be so wet during sex. ( have back up towels just in case)

Hope that helped. Good luck and please don't ever think that something is wrong with you, honey your unique and your bf can't see that he doesn't deserve you. :)

[nermalinda]

Your boyfriend is being a jerk about it. Most guys would be thrilled to have a girl who can squirt. It's normal and there's nothing wrong with you. Either use a towel or get a better boyfriend.

[Asker]

I hear u... He tries to be supportive but I can tell he's grossed out by it! And well so am I! I've never done it before why now? Plus my orgasms aren't any better like I said. So the only think I've gained here is a big wet spot on my sheets? Sex with towels..... This sux! Is there no way to stop it? :(

[azzhole725]

Not all women can do this because they are not relaxed enough. You can have a full body orgasm, congratulations. When he's having intercourse with you have a towel ready. Put the towel over your clit, and it will soak up most of the liquid.

[Asker]

I've had lots of full body orgasms. Never has this happened. And I'm not getting full body. In fact I didn't even feel the sensation of orgasm but still squirted...

[l-hedoniste]

Seriously, YOU ARE OK. Your body is doing what it does, your boyfriend needs to get used to it. Get some waterproof sheets and rock on--with a new boyfriend, if necessary.

[dudeman]

f*** that kid

tell him to shut up and suck your d***

[Asker]

What kind of advice is that?! gahh.. I'm serious... I don't want this sh*t! I need help man...

[dudeman]

Its the best advice you'll ever get

[BryanTheLion]

It's a shame your man is grossed out. I've had women that felt like you and I assured them it was such a turn-on they had nothing to be ashamed about. Just take proper precautions and find the right man for your special gift