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Why , why and why some guys do not like to wear condoms when having sex?

I mean I know the eternal excuse "it does not feel the same". Is that really the only reason for not using them, if it won't be for that would you still use them?

Protecting yourself from unwanted diseases or pregnancies just cost a few bucks why to risk getting a disease or get a girl pregnant that will cost the person her and his whole life instead? Dont some guys think about that? isn't that selfish?

I mean the guy just plant the seed and do not have to worry of carrying a baby with all the pregnancy effects for 9 months or possible complications a woman or the baby may have, the guy do not have to go through that but us women do!. Dont you think also about that as well?

Also if neither one has no plans of having babies, WTH the guy still do not want to protect and use a condom in case the lady can't use BC for some particular reason. Also it is an adult wise choice to use it, not using them is like acting like a kid, act as a responsible adult and wear them.

There must be in the market some condoms that are of thin texture so you can feel something at least, but remember that is not about your pleasure and security, it is most for the woman safety.

I had a friend several years ago that told me that the guy she liked told her that he does not like to use a condom because it does not feel the same and she told me like joking "imagine me at the precise moment of sex worrying about it if I will get pregnant because the guy is not wearing a condom, I be all worried at that moment, I may not even relax myself and simply won't be enjoying the sex because she is worrying about the consequences" That is not pleasurable sex at all!! If you ask me, but the guy is only thinking in himself, not us the women.
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I understand that here the responsibility lies in the man just as the woman and men could ask, well let the woman also protect themselves not just us right? But there are countries where many female BC methods are not even sold in the country, and condom being the cheapest choice is sold everywhere. BC pills are only prescribed by the doctor. For example in my case I have never been on any BC method at all in my life because I had never been sexually active so no need for me to ever been on..
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any method for so so so many years. Probably soon I may get laid for the first time so my only choice in this case is for the guy to wear a condom and he told me he does not like to use one because it does not feel the same, and neither one wants to have kids but we are not like a couple, we are friends who are just getting to know each other.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm a man who loves sex as an act not a need, so let's say on a nice holiday i'd like to have a 3 hours sex, usually it takes me 30 mins to finish first round then i take a rest go to oral for another 30 mins then have the next round for one hour so I finish the second time, and go to oral and cuddling again before having a third round where I'd finish or not it depends... so anyway with a condom on it's totally different, first round doesn't finish in an hour, i'd be feeling almost nothing, and when going to oral, i'll be doing her but she would be complaining about the condom or the smell that the condom might leave after removing, so after 30 mins i'm tired from a continuous first straight hour, cold from not feeling and enjoying and my girl not participating so I just lay down cuddle and sleep !
    condoms are sex ruiners !

    • Unplanned oregnancies and stds u dont care?

    • this is why I'm not enjoying sex anymore :D :D :D

    • just for the fact of having to use a condom on sex? What od u prefer no sex at all or at least sex with condom?

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  • As a man, a simple statement: Any man that wants to have sex w/o a condom without:
    - having a long term relation with you AND
    - knowing that both are STD free AND
    - taking seriously care of anticonception

    Is an unresponsable jerk and in NO way material for a serious relation.

    Fuckboys should always dress up with condoms, not saying you’re not entitled to recreational sex, but not bare. Give them a box of cleenex and tell them they can live out their impregnation fetish on the tissues.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Condoms suck during sex they feel weird in me and I only do creampies so they defeat the purpose of that

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  • It really doesn't feel the same, and that's the reason unless he wants to attempt to get her pregnant.
    Women should insist that men use condoms unless they're in an exclusive relationship and trying to conceive.

    • I understand your point but some guys are stubborn. But like I said there must be now at the market some thin texture condoms so it an be easier for the man to feel something right?

    • You still feel something, but it's not comparable. That said, the need to avoid STDs and unwante d pregnancies is so great that a condom still has to be worn.

    • Why some guys are so blind and inmmature on taht that they dont think of those consequences EVEN if does not feel the same. Even if the girl is on BC pills for example, wearing a condom could prevent the STD, as pills do not protect you from it.

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  • Yeah if you are responsible you take condom until you are serious enough in the relationship and want to get kids or you both are clean and avoiding pregnancy in a different way.

    • I already read here that they hate condoms and it is a stupidiidity to use them and dont care for the reukts later

    • Must have a reason that so many have AIDS and others STDs

  • Condoms shouldn't even exist, this is stupid.

  • Lazy, cost too much, don't give a shit. Pick one any one.. usually its all 3

  • Becausee they' sure about the girl (and themselves) being clean and wanting a kid.

  • I don't understand how anyone could not assume to wear a condom when having sex with someone until you know them really well.

  • Because they're extremely uncomfortable. You girls should compromise a little too. They DO have female condoms you know.

    • I know u are right but tehre are countries that do not sell female condoms

    • Oh. I didn't know

    • I know but I heard there are women who are over 40´s and taking BC pills are too risky for the blood clots and also they live in a country where many BC methods are forbidden so they are not sold, so the cheapest way to protect is the guy wearing a condom as condoms are sold everywhere. SO in that case how a woman can protect if the only choice in this case is just the man

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  • I've has a vasectomy so I don't have to worry about getting a woman pregnant.

    However, I do wear condoms, unless I know for sure and trust that she is clean and tested. I know I am, and plan to stay that way.

  • Do u like wearing a rain jacket when u shower same thing

    • Dont u care about unwanted pregnancy and STD?

    • Nope but I have nothing to worry about there

    • why u dont have to worry? Had a vasecotmy?

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  • Well it feels better, but wearing a condom is smart

    • Of course but some guys are WAYY TOO DUMB TO ACKNOWLEDGE TAHT

  • Because they only care about their own pleasure.

  • Condoms ruin the feeling for me.

  • In my experience it is not so one sided. In fact the opposite; women did not care or want to stop or even take simple precautions. They instigated unprotected sex.

    • Maybe the ones who did want to get pregnant but the ones who do not want kids I doubt they will be against the using of a condom

    • Ok well i thought this was a place to be honest and real... I guess it depends on age and experience too.

  • What about STD? You have to think about yourself too

    • He even joked about it and told me if you want I can get tested

  • Are you pregnant?

    • No im not

    • Thank god ! lol

    • But I dont want to

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  • condom is worse invention its spoils pleasure.

    • And the diseases and unplanned pregnancies? Dont care?

    • U dont respect your partner what if she says no confon no sex u will leave her and go fool around to another lady? irresponsability is what is called.

    • There is other ways to avoid pregnancy, for diseases only sex with clean people and regular check up.

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  • Because condoms suck.

  • It's your body. You get to decide. Actually, he has the right to insist that he wear a condom too.

    Does it feel better without one? Sure. Is that worth an unwanted pregnancy or an STD? Fuck no.

  • If the girl want put my dick with out condom i will do it useing my hand

    • So u will wear one?

    • No iwant to feel like her the sex not just her want to feel

    • You are not from the US right?

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  • because felling the pussy is much more fun and sexy rather than putting a condom on and feel the rubber which is less fun

    • and the unplanned and unwatned pregnancies? do u care about that?

    • pills.

    • Stds?

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