Girls, would you dump a guy with erectile dysfunction?

If at some point you found out he has that, would you dump him for it?
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  • This is such a touchy subject but it depends on the woman and how long you've been together. Some women need intercourse to be happy while others prefer things which are considered foreplay or are happy being held, kissing and holding hands. Whatever you do, don't surprise her with the issue.

  • I would try work with it. Because sex is a very important thing in a relationship.. if you dont have that spark. It could make the relationship abit rocky. My partner doesn't get sex for 2 days he goes juts and starts yelling at me. Being depressed and crazy.

  • No i wouldn't, it saddens me people dump people for shallow reasons, it can be cured, and can often be a sign of health conditions or depression.

    • yeah, common reasons i've seen for a girl not wanting to date a guy with this are that they just don't want to deal with the stress or that they can't help but take it to mean they aren't attractive enough in the guys eyes.

    • No, if a guy is with me surely they're attracted to me so i'd never assume that, i'd just want to help him and figure it out together to try sort the problem out, its not like it can't be cured and they'd always have it.

    • @PrincessPie, “it saddens me people dump people for shallow reasons.” PrincessPie: “ I wouldn’t date a shorter guy.” Lmfao

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  • These answers surprise me. Never dealt with E. D. but that would suck if a guy did and a girl left him for it.

  • Ouch, right in the feels. I don't have it but would hate if that happened

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  • It depends:
    If we just started dating then I would. Because it would be a bond we'd never be able to make. But if he's been my long term boyfriend then we've probably been though other things together and I wouldn't mind staying with him

    • " Because it would be a bond we'd never be able to make. " why not?

    • Mmm.. I guess in a way it would just be awkward to start dating a guy and know it will be hard for us to have children, and that sex will be frustrating for / with him. And if I don'r know him well I will feel like it's not worth the effort. You get me?

    • what if he says he was working on it with meds?

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  • Does it mean there is no sexual contact? If there is still sex in other ways then no.

    • no it just means it will be hard to maintain an erection, he could try to satisfy you in other ways other than through penetration

  • It wouldn't be my primary reason for breaking up, but any issues in a relationship add to the overall success of that relationship, so it would play a role.

  • It depends, I need a satisfying sex life. If he could give me that with ED fine, if not, we'd have serious long-term issues.

    • Can you have a satisfying sex life without penetration? just foreplay and perhaps using toys?

    • Hmmm, I don't know, I truly don't. I would need to be in that situation because I've never had to experience that before.

  • Nah that’s fucked up

    • That's why you're bae kneecola

  • Honestly sex isn’t a huge deal for me. I could see working things out despite that.

  • I would not. I would be understanding.

  • No i wouldn’t. I’m sure there’s cures for it and other ways to be pleasured

  • It's fucking annoying, fix it. I'd been with a guy that was that way, he was enjoying me but I'm not enjoying him, it was so irritating and he was so young.

  • It depends on his attitude towards it and if he's willing to see a doctor and address it, or if he is just going to blame it on me and be a jerk, or just get depressed.

  • If he can't get hard that means no intercourse and if we get married that would mean no children so I would not have a relationship with a guy that can't get hard.

    • Would it help if he said he was working hard to get it fixed?

    • Yes it definitely would!

    • Adoption isn't an option for you if he just can't get it fixed?

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  • Ugh this is tough. I don't know if I could stay with him.

    • Why not?

    • It would probably make me feel bad about myself.

    • Even though it had nothing to do with you?

  • Sex is not a huge deal, i wouldn’t mind it as long as the man is into me and won’t cheat.

  • I didn't. In hindsight, I should have.

    • Why?

    • Sometimes you just wish a relationship never happened. This could have at least shortened it.

    • Did he have a bad personality?

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  • No, not at all.

  • Isn't there medication and stuff for that?

    • there is

  • I would keep him as long as he is taking care to fix it and not blaming me because his penis doesn't work. And is willing to do sexual stuff decently often.

  • Nope, id stay

  • Yes I would. I was in an 8 year relationship with somebody who made my life hell. I felt unattractive and disgusting cause he couldn't get it up. I'm a highly sexual person and instead of cheating, i sent him on his way. Cold hearted? Yes but I have needs too.

    • Cold hearted yes, but i think you made the right decision and made a good analysis of yourself. :)

  • Like he can't get hard at all? Not even for a couple of minutes?

    • He might butvit would be very difficult. And also it doesn't mean he can't try to sexually satisfy youbin other ways either

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