Is it normal to Cum a lot?

[Anonymous]

I'm a girl, I am 14 years old, and I masturbate. Maybe 1-4 times a week. I watch porn, because it interests me, and turns me on really. So even before I masturbate I cum, a lot. And it won't stop, after I masturbate I have a large wet spot on my undies. Aren't I too young to cum this much? Sometimes throughout the day, even when I am not horny, it just starts cumming. Like I'm really wet. It can't mean I'm close to getting my period, because I first started my period about a year ago. When I first begin masturbating a few years ago, it was normal to have a little cum here and there, but now it's a lot, all the time. Why is this happening? I don't use dildos or anything, and I have never put anything inside of me either. I don't want to have to explain to the doctor when I go next year why I am wet, so he can tell my parents. They are really strict Christians, so I would prob get my ass beat. What do I do? Can I make this stop? Help Plzzz

[SnapTsch]

The wetness before masturbation isn't cum actually, its just your body self lubricating as a response to you being aroused.
Dont worry
Its completely normal

[Asker]

KK thanks. Will my doctor know I've been masturbating. Last time I went, they asked me if I've been sexually active?

[SnapTsch]

Nothing to be ashamed of. The gynecologist mostly won't know unless you have accidentally broken the hymen. And the question asking if you were sexually active is a routine question which is asked to everyone. its just procedure.

[Asker]

Does masturbating include being sexually active?

[SnapTsch]

In the context of your doctor asking you that, no, masturbation doesn't count as being sexually active. The doctor is referring to you being physically intimate with another person, because if you are then he'd be able to run some tests.

[Asker]

Oh, I understand.

[SnapTsch]

😊😊

[KevinZhong]

Relax gurl its normal.. cause since i was at your youth i did the same.. cum a lot

[Asker]

Lol, thanks dude

[KevinZhong]

Now i can release a normal amount of cum

[Asker]

Cool:)

[KevinZhong]

But have you ever acumulated your cum in a cup? Or measure it?

[Asker]

Um noo, that's weird number one. Number two, it's not watery enough to measure. It just would get stuck too the tissue.

[KevinZhong]

Oh okey

[Anonymous]

It's not cum it's discharge and it's normal.
Stop watching porn, it's mind damaging by the way

[Asker]

Ok... Ik I'm trying to work on not watching it.

[Opinion Owner]

Just delete any videos and stop visiting the websites. Pray about it

[Asker]

KK. I didn't download videos. I just would find them online. Okay I will. Why are you Anonymous? You didn't say anything bad.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm anon because I use to struggle with it and it's embarrassing... plus I don't want people msging me and asking sexual questions. I'm trying to stop and wait til I'm married or a boyfriend for that stuff... it'll feel better caz honestly solo sex is boring, selfish and lonely in my opinion

[Asker]

Yeah, same about struggling with it. I'm Anon, because I've mad a lot of friend on GAG, and I don't want them to think any less of me as a person. How did you stop?

[Opinion Owner]

They won't think less of you, it's normal. It's better to use hands than toys since they're free and natural. And I haven't stopped completely, there are times I slip up. I just stopped doing things that triggered my thoughts to lead to sex and wanting to fulfill that urge such as googling new techniques. I also stopped reading erotic romance novels. And I've promised GOD countless times and repented. I still struggle but when I have strong urges I pray and that helps, also trying to be in a room with other people around helps like being home alone isn't good for me

[Asker]

Wow thanks. I needed an opinion from someone who I had something in common with, God. Someone who wasn't going to give me a solution with the words " God is not real" in them.

[Asker]

It's like I keep promising God that I won't do it anymore, and I keep doing it again and again. I'm afraid he's just gonna stop helping me, because I'm not trying to help myself.

[KevinZhong]

Same i said dat.. i said to God that i won't do it again and i did.. temptation.. Satan puts use heavy temptations.. its like cigarette u won't stop smoking

[Asker]

@KevinZhong It's like cigarettes I will learn to put down. Even If God has to snatch it out of my hand, and throw it in the rain. I wan't this burden gone.

[KevinZhong]

Will this chat ever end? Xd @asker

[Asker]

@KevinZhong Lol, it was done until you commented.

[KevinZhong]

@Asker u got skype? I can't chat to u 1 v1 cause im still exper 1 and dont let me chat to u

[KevinZhong]

I think i could help u... my Skype EnrikeRoge2018

[Opinion Owner]

Lol I went through the same thing when I was younger and trying to quit!!! After a while I said to myself what's the point of making promises that I can't keep :( I mean I didn't feel guilty at first but then deep down I knew it wasn't that good to be doing esp since I had to do it in secret. After awhile it just didn't feel that good anymore and I'd regret it immediately afterwards so eventually it got easier to not do it so often. I don't know if I'll ever be able to quit completely but the longest I've gone without was about 4 months straight. Just keep praying and little by little try to quit. Like cut it down to every other day, once a week, once a month etc. And remember GOD loves you still, he understands that we're not perfect. Everyone slips up sometimes but the main thing is that you're trying to change and making an effort to stop doing it. I hope you don't feel bad about yourself, if you feel the urge call on the name of Jesus. GOD BLESS & good luck!!

[Asker]

thanks FOR MUCH:)

[KevinZhong]

@Asker thank u so much too.. remember Skype enrike roge2018 if need help.. this app dont let me to inbox u here

[Asker]

@KevinZhong Kk for sure.

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome, and thanks for mho! Be careful with that Skype guy though 👀

[KevinZhong]

@Opinion owner @asker dont worry im just here and there for help.. xD i think what ur thinking tho.. @opinion owner

[Asker]

I'm not allowed to Skype people anyways, and I don't have Skype. He was just being nice I think.

[KevinZhong]

thanks @asker :3 by the way.. whats your name?

[Asker]

@KevinZhong Lol, not gonna tell you that, or else what was the point of going Anonymous.

[Asker]

@KevinZhong do you have dicord? Or email?

[Asker]

@Opinion owner can you dm mer?

[EmmaMary]

Just what do you mean by cum? Or are you just simply extremely wet?

[Asker]

Like really wet. I constantly have to wipe it.

[EmmaMary]

In that case it is quite normal, it's your hormones adjusting during puberty as well as you exploring your body and frequently masturbating. Perhaps you should consider wearing a pantyliner for a while.

[Asker]

KK thanks. I have pantyliners though, my mom buys a bunch.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHG.

[Asker]

Np :D

[Sangita93]

Usually a man will ejaculate about a tablespoon full at a time. Most of his cum usually come out from vagina during coupling or within few minutes of it, because only one sperm is required for getting a girl pregnant. The force and amount of semen that will be ejected during sexual activities including masturbation, intercourse or blowjob ejaculation vary widely with time and between men and may contain between 0.1 and 10 millilitres. Adult semen volume is affected by the time that has passed since the previous ejaculation; larger semen volumes are seen with greater duration of abstinence. The duration of the stimulation leading up to the ejaculation can affect the volume. Abnormally low semen volume is known as hypospermia. One of the possible underlying causes of low volume or complete lack of semen is ejaculatory duct obstruction. It is normal for the amount of semen to diminish with age.

[Asker]

Ok... so I'm smart, but don't forget Im only 14... wtf, lol. Can you break this down?

[anon08]

The asker is a girl, cool post... although as a guy there are a few things i would argue from personal experience.

[Asker]

@anon08 Lol, oh she was talking abotu a guy. I was like " what?".

[Asker]

*about*

[SammyGurl]

lol!! The answers from some of the guys, where do they get to be such experts on what goes on with a girls body!! Especially puberty stuff.

What you are experiencing is the results of high or peaking hormonal levels, which explains the wetness or vaginal lubrication from your Bartholins glands just inside the entrance to your vagina. (Do a search). Their main responsibility is to lubricate your vagina, both for sexual activity (sex and masturbating) and because your vagina needs a little lubrication to work normally. Most girls experience this wetness before and after the onset of their period, it gets better, I mean the walking wet spot! lol! I had the same wet spot in my undies too, sometimes at the most random times, sometimes when I wasn't even thinking about sex, guys or masturbating, when I was it got rather wet as expected!

So when you masturbate, you are stimulating your senses getting turned on, which in turn causes your vagina to naturally lubricate itself preparing for a penis to enter when you finally have sex. As with sex the lubrication can help you greatly when you go digital to give yourself an orgasm (cumming).

Unless you are penetrating your vagina with a vibrator, dildo, hairbrush, etc. a Doctor is not going to be able to tell whether you masturbate or not. Many girls (this one included) break their hymens in ways other than penetrating their vagina either having sex or masturbating. Mine was broke or torn playing softball, I know that for sure because I bled a little when it happened. It's also perfectly normal if it happens too, it's tearing doesn't make you any less of a virgin either, that takes vaginal penetration by a penis to do!

The reason your Gynocologist asks whether you are sexually active or not is that if a girl is sexually active, then it's time to discuss birth control methods. My Gynocologist never discussed my masturbation habits either. Your Gynocologist is more concerned with your development or lack of than your sexual activity, which they are concerned about as well.

Hope that helps...

[Asker]

OMFG! Yes this helped a lot thanks. I was waiting for a female's reply, because men know stuff, but I needed it from someone who's experienced it.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Probably you are experiencing something not all women get to, female ejaculation. Some women do report the ejaculation of a clear fluid on orgasm, or somewhat before it. as long as you aren't having colored, bloody, or foul smelling discharge, you should be fine!

Hope it Helps. 😊

[Asker]

KK thanks. This helped:)

[Being_a_good_Indian]

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As per my prediction something is wrong. Please read this article. Abnormal Discharge.

www.checkpregnancy.com/.../

Vaginal discharge is perfectly normal and can vary in amount, color, and odor. It normally ranges from milky white to clear when it comes to color.

Your vaginal discharge is an excellent indicator for knowing what is going on down there.

Please Consult your doctor.

[Asker]

Thank God. I don't have any symptoms of the Yeats Infection:)

[Being_a_good_Indian]

**sometimes. Sometimes it's stringy, like stretchy. Sometimes, clear, sometimes, brown tinted."* Brown or bloody discharge is usually normal, especially when it occurs during or right after your menstrual cycle. A late discharge at the end of your period can look brown instead of red. You may also experience a small amount of bloody discharge in between periods, which is called spotting.

[Asker]

Aw ok, thanks

[Being_a_good_Indian]

*" I've had a yeast infection before."* You practice good genital hygiene, you can also help prevent infection. Keep your vaginal area clean. Use mild, unscented soap and water. Rinse well. After using the toilet, wipe from front to back to avoid spreading yeast or bacteria from your anus to the vagina or urinary tract. Wear underwear that helps keep your genital area dry and doesn't hold in warmth and moisture. One good choice is cotton underwear. Try sleeping without underwear. Avoid tight-fitting clothing, such as panty hose, and tight-fitting jeans. These may increase body heat and moisture in your genital area. Any Queries?

[Asker]

Lol, you kinda sound like my mom now. Nope, I'm good on questions, you covered them on.

[KevinZhong]

Google xD

[Asker]

@KevinZhong Lol, That's what I was thinking too.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

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[Asker]

Um okay thanks. I didn't disrespect my mom, I was just saying that, that sounded like her.

[rpgkira]

I think what you mean is that you get wet easily before you masturbate, it can be normal. Everyone's different and some people get hornier more than others.

As for being to young legally yes for sex but not for masturbation. But once you hit puberty it's up to your body. Boys start around that time too. It's not unusual for your hormones to act up puberty is a really weird time. Just because you started after you started to bleed doesn't mean your hormones were not acting up.

If you really feel that it's concern tell your doctor you wish to talk about in private they have to send your parents out of the room. Then they will explain if you want an analytical perspective.

It's alright to explore your body there's nothing to be ashamed about it.

[Asker]

Yeah, but the doctor will end up talking to mu parents. In my family it's something that is looked down up on, or shamed. Like I would never hear the end of it.

[rpgkira]

Honestly it doesn't really sound like anything abnormal. Loving your body is not a bad thing and it certainly isn't a sin to feel pleasure. I am sorry for having a really strict parents though.

[Asker]

Yeah, thanks though.

[8_BIT]

Well its a normal thing to do because your body just has to get used to it and after some time it will change... asking you for a pic of how much is much to you is really perverted and i dont know why i wrote that but you can measure it yourself by doing it lets say 2-3 times a week and you will see if anything changes... you are still growing up and if you read, yes i am also 14 almost 15 on the 8th of March but i read a whole lot of stuff online and i know some interesting stuff... stuff about hacking, neurobiology, and shit like that. Just wanted to let you know...

[Asker]

Oh cool. I turn 15 on March 4. Its kind of hard to measure, females, are not like males, it just sticks to tissue. Mine isn't like watery enough to measure.

[8_BIT]

Well sometimes cum also sticks everywhere so its kinda hard to get it of stuff... and my family is also a Christian family so if they saw me doing it... yeaaa... ya know what would happen...

[Asker]

Yeah.. like is a bitch..

[8_BIT]

Life*... yes it is

[Asker]

*life* oh and I followed you.

[8_BIT]

thanks i appreciate it a lot

[Asker]

Welcome:)

[jayands]

You're perfectly fine, from what I understand, but if it does bother you, you SHOULD talk to your Ob/Gyn

That said, lots of guys love a girl that can cum a lot, so you have nothing to be ashamed of, it's there to lubricate everything and make it all run smoothly 😅

[dk96123]

Its a very normal thing but the not so good news is honestly there probably isn't anything you can do about it. Your body is going through all sorts of crazy things right now. Its just reacting normally to new feelings. Also you won't have to explain this to your doctor. If they see it they'll already know. They won't tell your parents either. They genuinely dont care. So just embrace it. Do what you enjoy and ease your mind. you're normal and perfectly safe.

[Confidentandchill]

I’m a guy so my experience is only related to experience with partners. I think every females is different. It isn’t a bad thing that you’re experiencing this. Some have the opposite effect where they aren’t very wet and I think that’s more troublesome

[lenatje]

I dont think you can do something about it

[keepitdown]

Same lmao hope it’s normal

[Decentguy]

totally normal

[Asker]

Thx:)

[Decentguy]

No Prob

[disgustingweebtrash]

That's just your age

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[Nahid1234]

Interesting yea.

[Asker]

Yeah what?

[Nahid1234]

Yea.

[Asker]

XD, lol, stupid ass... your doing that shit on purpose. Remind me to never ask you to teach me how to count. Me: Nahid, how do you count to ten again? Nahid: 4, 2, 4, 5, 6, 4, 8, 10, yea Me: Umm okay thanks dude *Lol, I crack myself up*

[Nahid1234]

You have a good humour

[Asker]

Lol, serious... or sarcasm? Well thanks anyways:) I can't tell without emojis, XD I keep telling everyone that... I've just gotten so use to them.

[Nahid1234]

You should relax ☺️💕

[Asker]

Hmm, what r u talking about. I'm pretty relaxed, it is 2:39am here.

[Asker]

Lol, ok ccol emojis

[Nahid1234]

Okay 😊

[Nahid1234]

Message me.

[Asker]

Why?

[Nahid1234]

To talk 😊😂

[Asker]

I'm about to go to bed, it's 3am... and I doubt a 14 year old can talk about anything decent with a 19 year old, don't be a perv dude.

[Nahid1234]

Jaja

[Nahid1234]

Guten Nacht.

[Asker]

Lol, warum hast du die Sprache gewechselt? Danke für die gute Nacht.

[Nahid1234]

I know a few words in German and in Spanish x

[Asker]

I'm taking Spanish in high School rn, but I only know a few German words.

[Nahid1234]

Interesting ☺️💕

[Asker]

Lol, yeah I guess

[Nahid1234]

Sweet dreams

[Asker]

Thx:)

[Nahid1234]

You’re welcome 😊

[krishh0805]

It's absolutely normal!!! There's nothing in cumming unless you control having sex!!!

[krishh0805]

But do you get wet only when you watch porn or you get wet any time?

[Asker]

I get wet during the day even when I'm not watching porn, or even horny. I just get extremely wet when I watch porn.

[krishh0805]

I think you just have high sex drive!!!

[Asker]

Lol, that's not normal at 14. Damn why couldn't this happen when I was older and married?

[krishh0805]

It depends on your hormones!! You can't do anything!!! Or else ask a doctor to how to stop it!!!

[Asker]

Yeah ik

[masterkamasutra]

take it easy your pussy growing so well. when you fuck it felt best.

[Asker]

Hmm, when I what felt best?

[masterkamasutra]

for dick your pussy felt best.

[Asker]

I can tel your from a reign country, your kinda not making sense. Um I'm a minor so I'm not having sex anytime soon. I'm only 14...

[masterkamasutra]

I am saying about future.

[Asker]

Oh, ok I get it now

[Victor1212]

It's normal, don't worry

[Mcluven]

It differs from girl to girl, it doesn't mean that its wrong. Dont worry about it

[equalitude]

You need a doctor

[Asker]

Um why?

[IStrokeItOften]

So when I jack off i shoot a lot of cum but that’s related to arousal. You could just be naturally wet and even wetter when aroused

[DarkIntentions]

I think it's because you've been doing it for so long maybe but other than that it's pretty normal, I guess I'm not normal how do you do it? I'm 18 years old and can't do that really