The only issue I see here is that your boyfriend kissed someone else (apparently), and I'm assuming it's not okay in your relationship for either of you to kiss other people. I probably wouldn't make a huge deal about it though, it sounds like they were just joking around and not having a full-on makeout fest. If it bothers, just let him know and ask him not to do it again.
As far as him being bisexual, none of those things really point to someone being bisexual. There are a lot of straight guys out there who can admit that another man is attractive. Wanting to have sex with another couple is a common fantasy and not limited to bisexual people. There are a lot of straight men who enjoy anal play---it feels good. Lastly, being bisexual doesn't make someone more sexual than if they were straight. There are bisexuals who aren't very sexual, and straight people who are very sexual. Also, you can't judge someone's sexual preferences based on how feminine or masculine they are.
I'm not saying that he is or isn't bisexual, just that I wouldn't consider any of that as "evidence" one way or another. The only way you can really know is by simply asking him.
The thing is, if he is bisexual, who cares? Does it change the way he feels about you? No. Does it change the way you feel about him? I hope not---he's still the same person he always has been, you just know a little bit more about him. I don't understand what the problem is?0 1 0 0Your "other evidence prior to this" doesn't point to being gay or bisexual. But you could always just ASK him about it.
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Having a bi best friend doesn't make you bi. (Are the bi guys with straight best friends turning straight? No.)
Finding guys attractive means he can tell a good-looking guy from an average or ugly guy. I don't know where the straight=slob idea came from, but seriously, girls--raise your standards.
Wanting to have sex with another couple makes him a swinger, not bi.
Anal play doesn't make a guy bi. I can't even think of why it would.
Being sexual doesn't make one bi. (So straight men are celibates with low sex drives? Really?)
The make-out session with the dude, *if it happened* would point to a queer streak. The rest? Utter nonsense.1 0 0 0Ugh yeah.. Questionable behavior indeed. Definitely not something I've ever seen or heard any of my friends do.
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0 0 0 0did you find out if he's bi or not?
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