Guys can you tell me what you think...my boyfriend dry humped/dry sex with me, why do you do that?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I were kissing then he asked me to come on top of him, I was sitting on him and then he started rubbing himself against me through our clothes...before that he had his hard on for like 2 hours and he gets turned on whatever I do...i'm a virgin and he also doesn't want sex or anything where we make actual sexual contact before marriage, we're both in our mid 20's...anyhow question for guys, why do you guys want to dry hump? is it cos we turn you on or you want to have sex but cant? I mean what you guys thinking before you do it?

[Rodpwnz]

my girlfriend thinks all I want is sex but for every guy its different. for me though, I don't want sex until my girlfriend does and if she's ready then I'm ready. and when I dry hump my girlfriend its basically because we're both really turned on. I think almost any guy is ready for sex, its in our nature but not all just want sex. but to simply answer your question, we dry hump because we're turned on and because we do want sex but can't have it. its both.

[l-hedoniste]

Why do we dry-hump? Why not, especially if it works for everyone?

More importantly, though, have you noticed the breakdown of that "no sexual contact" business. It's not a bad thing--sexual contact, not necessarily intercourse, is essential to a relationship. But if the rules are changing, best that it be out in the open so that everyone knows what their getting.

[Angantyr]

Women do the same. Dry humping is almost a natural thing, much like orgasms. If you don't want penetrative sex before marriage, dry humping is helpful and I suspect you did enjoy it too.