Guys I need your help! A man is ignoring me after we nearly have sex/ giving him a blow job?

[zevaer24]

We were talking about the mutual sexual tension between us, I know he wants a blow job. And he know I want to give him one, we was talking when he put MY hand on his stiff penis, I was a bit surprised, but did not pull away, not sure what to do I just , I stroke it lightly down the shaft and the penis head, and told him that if I'm going to give him a hand, he is definitely going to cum, he said he knows that. Problem was, we were not private enough to do want we wanted, after a few moments talking and a bit of moaning that I really want him I took my hand away and told him we can't do that on that spot, we talked a few minutes more, he had to go to work, PROBLEM, he kind of ignored me, no sms or e-mails. I got a bit obsessed and want to know from you guys, why is he so quite now, is he ashamed of himself, is he mad at me, did he perhaps realize he like me and don't know how to handle the situation, I'm really p*ssed because I want to give him something nice. I have 100 Q and no A, if I only knew he think about me and what nearly happened, did he already forget it, I'm confused what must I xo,

[peace-love-couture]

He used you...you were easy,gave him what he wanted and he no longer wants anything to do with you.No sympathy for me,you brought this on yourself.

[zevaer24]

I see you can't read, I said we nearly did something, he did not cum, he in fact got nothing

[peace-love-couture]

He got some pleasure...so he still got what he wanted.

[JerseyGirl]

I am sorry, but I have to agree with evangelina214. Whether he came or not should not be the issue. He did get something....a stiffy, and you stroking him and then stopping. And now he is kind of ignoring you. It doesn't sound like the beginning of a relationship. It sounds like a night of close call sex that didn't pan out. If you two did do something and he was still acting this way, wouldn't you feel worse? Be glad you backed out when you did..sounds like that is all he wanted sadly.

[MandMandM]

Could be he doesn't want to be in a situation where he could be frustrated with you again (ie aroused but doesn't finish).

[Alaskaman]

sounds like the heat of the moment, and that moment is gone.

[zevaer24]

It is possible, I just thought that the sexual tension between us was building up for about 2 and half months, this was the first time we had a possibility to do something, I just thought he would like to do it properly another time, would you loss interest so quickly when you know you will get something nice, and we are both nice people, bit older, I'm 43, both professionals in our work and still see each other from time to time, if he does not wantit anymore, how would you liked to be treated

[Alaskaman]

um.. in alaska