Guys, Husband got mad I wouldn't give him a hand job, advice?
Firstly.. I got him 'ready' but I wanted sex, he wanted a hand job instead because he was tired, so my mood went low and I didn't want to do it but rather suggested that we just wait until the next night to have sex, at which point he quickly turned off the light, huffed, and turned away while almost trying to get as far away from me as possible. He said he wasn't mad I difnt give him one, it was more my mood, but I know guys and I know it was because I didn't want to do it which kinda reminds me of when I used to date, a guy who didn't care would get super pissed off if I didn't do what he wanted, it's almost like he's using me, so even though my husband is a completely different person, it still made me feel the same, that he didn't love me but instead was using me.
I'd like to know what husbands actually think about all this though, sometimes I feel like he tries to manipulate me to the point where I feel horrible and end up doing whatever he wants to make him happy, needless to say I'm very timid.
What do you husbands think of all this?
Is it normal? Does it seem right? Was I in the wrong?
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