Why can’t I feel my boyfriend inside of me?

I recently just lost my virginity to my boyfriend and we’ve had sex twice but for some reason I can’t feel him inside of me. I haven’t had an orgasm either. I just don’t feel anything unless he goes really fast then I do. Is it because I’ve only done it twice or is there something wrong with me?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Use your fingers to test if you have very low sensitivity inside of your vagina, and if you suspect something besides his efforts might be the matter, talk to a gynecologist about it. They get paid to know about vaginas. If you don't have a very sensitive vagina, you may have to rely on other means to achieve orgasm. That's something you will need to learn with more hands-on information than what the internet can give you.

  • Maybe his wiener is too small.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Maybe try a ribbed condom or use some lube that causing a warming sensation? Trying these things might make sex more pleasurable for you and give you more sensation while having sex. Also, it's totally normal to not be able to orgasm during penetrative sex. Ask your boyfriend to pay more attention to you during foreplay with like fingering, oral, etc so he can make you orgasm.

    • We have tried it without a condom and I get really wet so we don’t use lube. But I don’t know what it’s suppose to feel like. I do feel it when he puts it in but I’m kind of confused about how it should feel.

    • I'm not saying that you need lube, it's just that there are some types that add an extra element of pleasure by having a heating effect on the user. You could also consider the possibility of introducing sex toys into your sex routine. A lot of people enjoy using them to heighten sensation during foreplay.

    • she is loose, thast why you girls are so naive.

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  • There's nothing wrong with you. Either he has a smaller penis and it doesn't reach your g spot until he thrusts, or you just naturally have a deeper set vagina.

  • Is his dick small?

    • I don’t think it is because it was really painful and I was bleeding the first and second time. But I’m very inexperienced so I don’t know what you’d consider big or small because it’s the only dick I’ve seen.

    • hm maybe you're still very uncomfortable with this new experience and because of this you can't relax during sex and that causes you to not feel pleasure

    • I didn't have an orgasm the first two times I had sex either

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  • Well I can't really answer your question but give your boyfriend my sympathy

  • Not an expert, but if you can’t feel him inside of you when you’re just starting or beginning to have sex, you might want to talk to your doctor or gynecologist. Usually—not always—women will feel discomfort or pain, which is normal, when they first start having sex.

  • Ummm sounds like he has a really small dick

    • no, the other way around she has a loose vagina

    • True

  • Not many girls can orgasm from penetration alone and there's other reasons why you might not orgasm. My friend was so nervous about it she stopped herself from having an orgasm for around a year or something. Not sure about the feeling part tbh sorry

  • if he doesn't know how to use it then maybe size

  • Maybe if you tell us how big you might think he is then well be able to give you a better answer

    • I would say he’s average

    • Ah then I don't know i mean girls been with guys who have been average and she never came before until she got with me she can't get enough so it my be that you need a bigger/ meatier penis to satisfy your needs (btw this doesn't make you a hoe or a slag) :)

    • My girl has i mean **

  • Small dick or skinny dick. I think y'all just need more practice and he needs to dominate you with forceful thrusts and holding you. Try different positions. be sure you are not shy but are spread open and he is hard.

  • Sadly, not all women orgasm from penetration. You may need clitoral stimulation. You aren't supposed to feel things in the vaginal canal either. When you put your finger inside and press against the walls, you may feel pressure, but not the exact shape and texture of your finger. This is normal.

  • He's too small.

  • Because the toothbrush is bigger

  • you're loose

  • I've never had that problem lol

  • He is small or you can try different position.

  • He is to small for you

  • dont know, dont care

  • Try some oral sex to get yourself stimulated.. that might help

  • he can't be able to turn u on

  • There is nothing wrong with you at all, he may just be a smaller fellow.